Sex with an asexual autistic woman

[cunning5683]

Guy is attracted to an autistic woman who identifies as asexual. They become friends, he just likes being around her because she's pretty. She likes that he doesn't treat her as if she is weird (like most people do) and also expresses interest in something she is passionate about and let's her talk incessantly about it. He does something for her she appreciates. In return, she decides to give him sex because she somehow finds out that is the one thing he wants most.
Her asexuality is such that she doesn’t hate sex in any way, but also doesn't desire it. She is generally indifferent to it. She has had it before and has found it useful to get what she wants. To her, it is similar to exercise. It can be a little uncomfortable but can result in good benefits.
Would like to see a story from his perspective where he actually gets satisfaction from the encounter and it is a good experience despite her not being sexually excited. Maybe she finds it entertaining in some way that he is so excited.
Anyone think this could work as an erotic story in anyway?

 

[OralAllOver]

Got to be: get it; get out

 

[Rob_Royale]

This would be a perfect lead in for a BDSM story with him the sub. For her it's mostly entertainment and for him a life's goal. Otherwise it's going to be uninteresting and a borderline reluctance story, for most male readers if she's not really into it and just going through the motions.

 

[NuclearFairy]

I've had a very different idea for a story with an asexual person in it, although the gender was reversed. But my idea for it to make it not icky, is that while they are not themselves a sexual being they view sex as a form of intimacy, a way to get closer to those that they love. But, that would be someone who is at least interested in romance.

 

[Carnevil9]

Interesting concept. I can see someone being willing to have sex just because their partner craves it, like helping your wife do the dishes. The only think you get out of it is making her happy. (well, that and clean dishes)

I can also imagine a story where a woman thinks she is asexual, because she has never gotten any pleasure out of it. But she continues to have it occasionally just to be sociable. Then one day she meets a lover (man or woman) who gives her a mind-blowing g-spot orgasm, and suddenly she because a sex fiend, making up for lost time!

 

[cunning5683]

This would be a perfect lead in for a BDSM story with him the sub. For her it's mostly entertainment and for him a life's goal. Otherwise it's going to be uninteresting and a borderline reluctance story, for most male readers if she's not really into it and just going through the motions.

Wow, that's a twist I never imagined. I'm going to explore that fantasy. Thanks.

 

[KindredFlame]

This would be a perfect lead in for a BDSM story with him the sub. For her it's mostly entertainment and for him a life's goal. Otherwise it's going to be uninteresting and a borderline reluctance story, for most male readers if she's not really into it and just going through the motions.

I agree and I think it would have to be that way to get past the scrutineers. The only other way would be loving wives/erotic coupling. I think it’s a tough one to write.

 

[sirhugs]

watch your terminology. you may get blasted by a certain segment of commenters or 1-bombers.
I have an asexual daughter, and I don't think tat she would agree that someone who equates sex with exercise and has it to please others fits her definition of asexual, though your use of the term fits many generic descriptions

 

[KindredFlame]

watch your terminology. you may get blasted by a certain segment of commenters or 1-bombers.
I have an asexual daughter, and I don't think tat she would agree that someone who equates sex with exercise and has it to please others fits her definition of asexual, though your use of the term fits many generic descriptions

I was thinking of more disability discrimination. Maybe I am wrong or are you just picking on me today

 

[TheWritingGroup]

I got yelled at in another virtual place for being surprised that an asexual character would nonetheless regularly masturbate. Apparently, Ace is a very flexible term.

--Annie

 

[AlinaX]

This sapphic short story has an asexual woman agreeing to sex: Red and Blue, Intertwined

 

[sirhugs]

I was thinking of more disability discrimination. Maybe I am wrong or are you just picking on me today

pick on you? never
spank you? definitely

 

[KindredFlame]

Ouch that hurt.

 

[Britva415]

Anyone think this could work as an erotic story in anyway?

This sounds anti-erotic. This is only a little bit more sexy than "duty sex" or "pity sex," both of which are very sad and empty to the person receiving it. And of course it's empty to the person delivering it, too, which is exactly what makes it unsexy.

Maybe you could cook this into something which would push some kind of a "no mutual enjoyment" kink. I don't think it would interest anyone to whom the thrill of sex is in sharing each other's pleasure, desire and arousal.

 

[Britva415]

I was thinking of more disability discrimination. Maybe I am wrong or are you just picking on me today

You aren't calling asexuality a disability, are you?

I'm not assuming that you are, I'm just asking because it seems like you left something unstated. I don't have any idea at all how "disability discrimination" fits anywhere in this topic.

 

[KindredFlame]

You aren't calling asexuality a disability, are you?

I'm not assuming that you are, I'm just asking because it seems like you left something unstated. I don't have any idea at all how "disability discrimination" fits anywhere in this topic.

No but I thought the original post was not about asexually was it? I was referring to the autistic part of the post. This I believe is classified as a disability.

 

[Britva415]

No but I thought the original post was not about asexually was it? I was referring to the autistic part of the post. This I believe is classified as a disability.

Maybe you're right. OP identified her as autistic and as asexual, but almost the entire content of the post was about her asexuality and not about her autism. And none of it appeared to be about discrimination of any type, which was my second question.

 

[KindredFlame]

Maybe you're right. OP identified her as autistic and as asexual, but almost the entire content of the post was about her asexuality and not about her autism. And none of it appeared to be about discrimination of any type, which was my second question.

This is true. I did focus on one part that concerned me a little.

 

[M_K_Babalon]

I have a story I've set aside that does have an autistic, or some sort of disabled woman in it, but I'm not sure where I'm gonna put it. Maybe she has downs... I forgot. It's not about her, but she's end goal.

 

[Baztrachian]

I read this topic after it was posted and it inspired me...

https://www.literotica.com/s/beckys-big-decision-1

 

[lovecraft68]

Uninformed and tasteless.

Odds are you'll get trashed.

Odds are also you'd have it coming.