Sex with a minor??

[GulfCoastAquarian]

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[Mistress]

Not legal, dont risk it. Even cyber sex can get your ass in trouble....

 

[Starfish]

I am not going to give you my opinion on the matter, but there is some way on the net to get the age of legal consent state by state.

here...

http://www.webistry.net/jan/consent.html

 

[Mellon Collie]

Well I was going to tell you about how the law changes state to state and how easy it is to find your state laws but since you were all mean about asking I don't think I'm going to.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Yeah - what Mistress said.

If you doubt it do a search on "Mann act" with a search engine - and that is just the federal statutes.

The legal age is 18 - especially if you are crossing states lines - and it doesn't matter if you cross the lines or she crosses the lines, it is the same. You cannot go to another country for the purposes of sex with a minor - that is illegal too.

Finally, how do you know this is really a 16 yr. old girl - she could be a 36 year old cop trying to lure you in.

Look, 16 yrs. old is too young anyway, even if it was legal - go find someone 18 or older.

 

[Karmic]

If you live in england its legal, infact in many places in europe its younger....

 

[Starfish]

I am slightly confused by your post Mellon Collie. Would you explain?

 

[Mistress]

It also depends on the parents out look, I will admit that I have had an online affair with a 17 year old. I am still worried about his age, but his mother doesn't care because the age difference between us is the same between her and her husband. She said it's not my fault that I am 22....
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[PowerOfOne]

Age of consent

You should seriously look at yourself and ask why you find it necessary to go after children and yes, 16 years old is still a child! I am a very liberal woman and accept the life styles of most people but I will never accept an adult fucking with children. There is NO excuse!

 

[Starfish]

The real question STG should be.... What is a 28 year old doing taking advantage of the love of a naive 16 year old, without remorse or concern for her well being?

He cares about 'experiencing this girl'. Not what is in her best interest appearantly.

 

[MissTaken]

It isn't legal in New York, even thought the actual charges change at different ages. It is all bad.

I would kindly recommend you stay away from that little lass.

 

[Mellon Collie]

If anyone knows anything about this, I figure you pervs should know, haha.

Starfish, I was just bitching about that, it's not a very nice thing to say.

 

[GulfCoastAquarian]

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[Starfish]

GCA, You said she was in love with you. Are you in love with her or are you a scum bag that is leading this poor, vaunerable girl around to get into her panties?

 

[Gilly Bean]

I am slightly confused by your post Mellon Collie. Would you explain?

It took me a minute... But at the end of his post, he says: If anyone should know, you pervs should.



As to the post: It is illegal in most states, though the actual age differs from state to state.

However, it is completly illegal for either a minor, or an adult, to cross state lines to have sex. In other words, if she lives in a state where 16 is illegal, then no matter where you go to do it, your ass can get nailed. And after telling us what pervs we are, and that we should know shit like this? We are not the ones considering a 12 year age difference, to have a girlfriend who still needs to be picked up after school.

 

[Starfish]

Re: Re: Sex with a minor??

Starfish, I was just bitching about that, it's not a very nice thing to say.

Noted, thank you.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

I am not going to give you my opinion on the matter, but there is some way on the net to get the age of legal consent state by state.

here...

http://www.webistry.net/jan/consent.html

Do not forget the Mann Act! That age of consent is 18 regardless of the state!

Just don't - do not have sex with minors!

 

[GulfCoastAquarian]

Re: Re: Sex with a minor??

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[xzchief]

I'd normally say stay away from potential jailbait. However, I think some time in prison would do you good. I feel badly for the girl.

By the way, being called a perv by you is an insult.

 

[Gilly Bean]

Re: Re: Re: Sex with a minor??

Actually, I take it as a compliment. But to each his own. My apologies for any offense you might have gathered.

Those of you that oppose my desires can preach at me all you want, but you know you'd do the same thing if you were in my situation. She is beautiful and smart, and we have a lot of fun together. Society has branded your impressionable mind with this standard that anyone below the age of 18 is incapable of making decisions for themselves. I haven't seduced her, and I didn't seek out the relationship. We met, we became good friends, we met in person, and we've established a relationship. She wants to "experience" me just as much as I do her, and there's nothing wrong with that.

I'm at work, so I won't be responding until late tonight or tomorrow. Good evening. Enjoy the discussion!

Actually, I wouldn't. 16 year olds are usually very immature in personality, they have more fun talking about what so and so did in class today, they have parents who are still demanding, and ruling, and to top all that off, it is still ilegal.

Not to mention, it's nothing to brag about that you have a girlfriend who needs a permission slip from mom and dad to leave gym class early for her pediatricians visit.

 

[xzchief]

GCA, why did you post a thread if you didn't want any opinions? Obviously, you've decided to do what you're going to do. Everyone else, especially that girl, be damned.

 

[PowerOfOne]

Re: Re: Re: Sex with a minor??

Those of you that oppose my desires can preach at me all you want, but you know you'd do the same thing if you were in my situation.

No, I would NEVER do what you are doing. First of all I would never place myself in a position to be in your situation. Secondly, I would find nothing in common with a 16 year old.

A 16 year old is not mature enough to handle a serious relationship and not equipped enough, emotionally, to handle a non-serious relationship. It is called child molestation and you need to think about this and the repercussions for you and for the young girl. There is way to much adult free pussy out there for you to go after a child.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

The real question STG should be.... What is a 28 year old doing taking advantage of the love of a naive 16 year old, without remorse or concern for her well being?

That too - but apparently he doesn't care, so our views in that regard are probably not going to help.

He cares about 'experiencing this girl'. Not what is in her best interest appearantly.

A lot of men are the same way regardless of the age, and I have met some women who at 25 were as naive as 16 year olds. My point is not that this excuses his behavior, just that men who take advantage of any immature person, regardless of age, are just as repugnant.

In general, a 16 year old is too young for someone 28, but then here I am on the board flirting with a 20 year old (but she is more mature and and a lot wiser than my ex is at 45). My ex was 17 when she gave birth to my daughter, and I was 20, and we had been having sex for about 2 years - yes she was fifteen and I was 17.

I know that is quite different than the 12 year age diff here, but it is not the age diff that really is the issue (CK is 27 years younger than me); it is the maturity of the girl - there usually is no way that a 16 still in high school is going to have enough life experience to be able to form consent for sex with a 28 year old man - he just has too much of an advantage on her.

With an 18 year old man it is bad enough, but at those ages, the females are often as mature as the males 2-3 years their senior - sometimes more mature.

 

[modest mouse]

GCA...

I would nearly guarentee that your attraction to this girl is because of what she is not rather than what she is. This, by definition, is not love.

If you expected to post here and not get some disagreeable responses then you can add stupid to your list of shortcomings.

 

[seXieleXie]

there is a federal law (which superceeds state law) saying the age of concent is 18.
if this girl is telling her friend in class one day about having sex with her 28 year old boyfriend, the teacher is legally obligated to report it.
just a friendly warning here, if you take that road it's asking for trouble.

also, you might want to think about the emotional consequences this may have. you're "really into" her but to a 16 year old that means something very different than it does to a 28 year old. believe me, i know... it was only a couple of years ago that i was 16.