Sex toys for Gay girls ?

[Julie_in_the_north]

Half the length? The vagina is what? A fraction of an inch from the woman's asshole? It's no different from the reduction in penis length from a guy putting on some weight over the years. Not only that, anuses are far stronger and tighter than any vagina will ever be. It doesn't have any of the slipping feeling women describe from sticking the bulb up their cunts. If you want to design a Feeldoe for guys, just make it an inch longer. Of course, 2-3 inches might be better since men and plus sized women are quite a bit bigger than the skinny chicks it was probably designed for. Even the extra long Feeldoe is only 6.75 inches, which would effectively be smaller than an average cock in actual use.

I've tried the 'pony' end up my bum, and it does feel nice - but I don't see how I could very easily penetrate my partner that way. Because of the angle, I wouldn't be able to thrust into her. Does that make sense? I suppose she could ride it, somehow, with me stationary...

 

[Stella_Omega]

I've tried the 'pony' end up my bum, and it does feel nice - but I don't see how I could very easily penetrate my partner that way. Because of the angle, I wouldn't be able to thrust into her. Does that make sense? I suppose she could ride it, somehow, with me stationary...

I know the whole idea is to go commando, but I'm designing a harness for the things anyway. It has to fit a bit differently than most harnesses do-- rides lower. I want the pressure in my cunt-- or arse-- and some upward pressure against my clit.

 

[mcevin]

Toise

Oh, yah, I stole a dildo from mom when we moved. I was like [censored], but I knew what it was, like I knew mom wasn't going to have a dead black guy with his thing sticking out of one of the boxes, and I knew she wasn't going to be like, "Jamie honey? Have you seen my dildo? It looks like a big black penis."

So yah, I fooled around with it, but my FAVORITE toy is the fake hand I got at the Halloween store, it's really gross with warts and stuff and it has wires in the fingers so you can pose them. Okay, okay, so I use it to sort of molest myself, I mean I look down and see that nasty thing groping me and I just go nutz!

Love,

Jamie

 

[infinity706]

Good points, Infinity, thanks
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I'm also thinking that for men, a little proddy-thingie (technical term ) just behind the balls might be a lovely sensation.
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Back to women's choices-- who loves what?

I'm designing free-swinging dangling accessories for my strapons and insertables- because a pair of swinging balls feel really good when you're getting it doggy style. But my accessories won't be testicals, they will be as decorative as the dildo-- and I think, they'll be removable.

Honestly, I'd just give it a better vibrator. The one that comes with the Feeldoe is pitifully weak. A nice, strong one pressing in the perineum (the area behind the balls) is awesome and, I'm sure, would be just as appreciated by any women that use it as well.

Now, as for the balls, I'd certainly be interested in how that would be implemented. I don't think I've ever seen a toy like that.

I've tried the 'pony' end up my bum, and it does feel nice - but I don't see how I could very easily penetrate my partner that way. Because of the angle, I wouldn't be able to thrust into her. Does that make sense? I suppose she could ride it, somehow, with me stationary...

I don't really see any problem with the angle. All I can say is, welcome to the world of real penises. Afterall, the real thing is rooted right near the anus and runs pretty much parallel to it. A Feeldoe sticking out of a woman's vagina is honestly, the unnatural angle due to the fact that a vagina slants back toward the spine somewhat.

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

@OP
I get what you mean.
I'm not a fan of dildos looking like penis. All of my my hetero friends don't find anything appealing about the look of a penis so find them repulsive as well.

I personally use a glass dildo. I love the way they feel, and it isn't hard to find one that doesn't look like a penis.. and even the ones that do have a penis shape aren't all gross or detailed heavily since it's glass.

You can't go wrong with a basic vibrator though. They rarely ever have a penis look.

I've never used a glass dildo - I tend to use dildos for sex, and mainly anal sex, as I prefer to masturbate with my fingers. But everyone who's used one says they're lovely - apparently, it's the sheer weight of the glass in your vagina which gives it impact. Also, they way they warm up with your body heat. But must feel pretty cold when it first goes in?

I do see why penis-shapes can be off-putting. What kind of thing do you usually use with a partner? I can recommend this one:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20041

This is my girlfriend's favourite, as it's very unphallic. Although I don't enjoy it quite as much as our Feeldoe, it's still really nice, especially vaginally. Is a bit ambitious for anal because of the shape.

 

[infinity706]

Glass dildoes do start out a bit cold, but you can put them in warm water if that's an issue. Of course, that's also assuming you don't intend for it to be cold (or hot ). The real draw for glass I've seen is the smoothness and the fact that it doesn't soak up lube like a sponge.

 

[PenIsMightier1]

This is one that I got myself just before Christmas as it is fantastic

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Y0-pJXTyVns/SywEdvq8FjI/AAAAAAAAAUU/N1EnpEN5mjc/s320/we-vibe.jpg

 

[RedThread]

It's been really interesting reading these posts and seeing all the pretty toys. I too prefer a less realistic looking toy, but I've been quite a connoisseur in my time and I can honestly say that the best thing I've come across is a cheap plastic g-spot vibe. I call it my tulip--- it looks almost exactly like the one in the link below, only it sells for about $14 at the neighborhood smut purveyor. Can't beat that.

http://www.hotgvibe.com/store/vibrators/177/slimline-marble-gspot-massager/

Claire

 

[blueberree]

It's been really interesting reading these posts and seeing all the pretty toys. I too prefer a less realistic looking toy, but I've been quite a connoisseur in my time and I can honestly say that the best thing I've come across is a cheap plastic g-spot vibe. I call it my tulip--- it looks almost exactly like the one in the link below, only it sells for about $14 at the neighborhood smut purveyor. Can't beat that.

http://www.hotgvibe.com/store/vibrators/177/slimline-marble-gspot-massager/

Claire

Interesting. I wouldn't have looked at that and say it was the toy that would be enjoyable. I suppose you just never know.

 

[Stella_Omega]

It's been really interesting reading these posts and seeing all the pretty toys. I too prefer a less realistic looking toy, but I've been quite a connoisseur in my time and I can honestly say that the best thing I've come across is a cheap plastic g-spot vibe. I call it my tulip--- it looks almost exactly like the one in the link below, only it sells for about $14 at the neighborhood smut purveyor. Can't beat that.

http://www.hotgvibe.com/store/vibrators/177/slimline-marble-gspot-massager/

Claire

That looks intriguing to me... I could redesign it as a swirling Art nouveau lily with a powerful bullet vibe in the bud...

 

[LizzyDark]

It's been really interesting reading these posts and seeing all the pretty toys. I too prefer a less realistic looking toy, but I've been quite a connoisseur in my time and I can honestly say that the best thing I've come across is a cheap plastic g-spot vibe. I call it my tulip--- it looks almost exactly like the one in the link below, only it sells for about $14 at the neighborhood smut purveyor. Can't beat that.

http://www.hotgvibe.com/store/vibrators/177/slimline-marble-gspot-massager/

Claire

I have one that looks a little like that, not quite so large a g-spot end on it, but the angled part really helps. The simpler ones do tend to be better at what they do. I have several super elaborate ones that are interesting and visually pleasing, but they're not particularly good at any of the things they're supposed to do.

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

This is one that I got myself just before Christmas as it is fantastic

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Y0-pJXTyVns/SywEdvq8FjI/AAAAAAAAAUU/N1EnpEN5mjc/s320/we-vibe.jpg

That looks deliciously intriguing. Am I right in thinking, this is for solo use? One end in your vagina, the other in your anus?

 

[PenIsMightier1]

That looks deliciously intriguing. Am I right in thinking, this is for solo use? One end in your vagina, the other in your anus?

Yeah it is solo use, and slightly smaller than you'd think, it is a g-spot/clit stimulator

 

[TamiJ19]

wow

i'm a little scared but more curious, I'd like to try that!

 

[louisa25ha]

Oh whey! I love the way that this thread is going... I havn't been on for a while as a good friend of mine just died.. I've just about got my head around it now..Only just !

Thanks for all the replies

Louxx

I'll join in soon..Just not feeling that sexual just now!

 

[Oneeyedpete]

I'm really new at the whole toy thing, but I find that I prefer external stimulus to internal. I have a classic smooth vibrator, a silicone dildo and a personal massager. I find that while the vibrations of the vibrator help a bit, alone they aren't enough to get me to feel anything, but the shape is plain and utilitarian and I sorta like that. It's made of a hard plastic and I find that that can make any shifts in position a bit painful. The dildo is realistic looking, which actually bothers me a bit, but its neat to touch. It's soft and I find when I'm riding high I like to clench a bit and it can be (but isn't always) stimulating just to have something there to hold onto.

The personal massager is my favorite though and I find its the only toy that gets me anywhere near climax by itself.

 

[loveinflames]

I own a lelo gigi, and a lelo nea and I absolutely adore them. Especially the lithium ion battery, the silicone surface and and pulse settings

 

[StrangeSage]

Hi, I'm new to this entire forum (but not new to reading the stories) I decided to jump right in and this thread is where I landed.

I am a gold star lesbian and I don't really have a preference about a dildo looking like a cock. I know my partner (also a gold star) cannot stand the real looking ones. I just like penetration (cunt and ass) and find that silicone works for me. Um, curved on top. I'm not a big fan of crazy bumps or ridges. I like it smooth.

And now I want to look into this feeldo thingy. Whoa, and now I want. Sweet.

Question for Stella: this may seem like a stupid question, but wood is porous, so wouldn't wooden dildos be hard to keep clean? To answer question about dildos with balls, no thank you! I admit, balls gross me out. I don't doubt it would feel good..just. blech.

~Sage

 

[Etoile]

Huh, I never heard the term gold star lesbian before. Thanks for the education.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Hi, I'm new to this entire forum (but not new to reading the stories) I decided to jump right in and this thread is where I landed.

I am a gold star lesbian and I don't really have a preference about a dildo looking like a cock. I know my partner (also a gold star) cannot stand the real looking ones. I just like penetration (cunt and ass) and find that silicone works for me. Um, curved on top. I'm not a big fan of crazy bumps or ridges. I like it smooth.

And now I want to look into this feeldo thingy. Whoa, and now I want. Sweet.

Question for Stella: this may seem like a stupid question, but wood is porous, so wouldn't wooden dildos be hard to keep clean? To answer question about dildos with balls, no thank you! I admit, balls gross me out. I don't doubt it would feel good..just. blech.

~Sage

These dildoes are sealed with up to six coats of food-grade water based, diamond hard polyurethane. You don't want to run them through the dishwasher, but they can be washed. And now I am formulating a special wax finish that goes over that to give you a lot of slip and slide with lube....

The balls will not look like testicles on this line, any more than the dildoes will look like realistic penises-- they will look like jewelry-- like pendants or medallions.

 

[LizzyDark]

Huh, I never heard the term gold star lesbian before. Thanks for the education.

It's pretty common and not just for lesbians, although gay men don't seem to care as much about it.

 

[Etoile]

It's pretty common and not just for lesbians, although gay men don't seem to care as much about it.

Yeah, I just never heard it before. I had to go look it up.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Yeah, I just never heard it before. I had to go look it up.

You aren't alone, hon. I was married to one and I had to go look it up!

 

[infinity706]

I had to look it up, too, and I'm usually the one people come to for answers on sexual slang.

 

[sows_ear]

Hi, I'm new to this entire forum (but not new to reading the stories) I decided to jump right in and this thread is where I landed.

I am a gold star lesbian and I don't really have a preference about a dildo looking like a cock. I know my partner (also a gold star) cannot stand the real looking ones. I just like penetration (cunt and ass) and find that silicone works for me. Um, curved on top. I'm not a big fan of crazy bumps or ridges. I like it smooth.

And now I want to look into this feeldo thingy. Whoa, and now I want. Sweet.

Question for Stella: this may seem like a stupid question, but wood is porous, so wouldn't wooden dildos be hard to keep clean? To answer question about dildos with balls, no thank you! I admit, balls gross me out. I don't doubt it would feel good..just. blech.

~Sage

Gold Star... nice!!! Stay the course. If only I could turn back the clock.