Seeking Male sex toy advice

[The3Ps]

I'm a guy in his early 50s. Sadly porn and masturbation are about all my sex life amounts to. I'm sure no guy on here can relate. LMAO

But recently I've been wanting a Fleshlight or pocket pussy. I'm wondering if any men or women can offer up any good, user based, first hand knowledge of which is better? Also any specific brands or models? Can post in thread or PM. Just please be respectful. Thanks in advance.

 

[live4thebj]

I looked at those pocket pussies and they look nothing more than a piece of plastic wrapped around your cock.

Now the Fleshlight is a whole different ball game. First you have tons of choices of the insides. Really tight ultra stimulation etc.

Now what I really like about the Fleshlight is after you stroke it for a bit and get yourself as hard as possible tighten that end cap really tight and it will feel just like a woman sucking really hard on your cock and will make the same popping noise that woman do.

Now if you want the ultimate orgasm nothing is better than a prostate orgasm. That is easily achieved by the Aneros Vice. Put it in turn it on lay back and let the multiple orgasms come. Take a bit for them to get there but once they start holy shit!!!

 

[Treeview]

A Lover gave me a cock-sleeve made from the flesh-like material similar to Fleshlight. They're sold with mouth/pussy/ass molded in.

The one I got is short.I got alittle too rough and pushed out the end LOL It still works and actually feels better.

Keep it well lubed.

 

[curl4ever]

I highly recommend the Fleshlight. Recently I purchased a second one with a clear insert, but I definitely prefer my older one with the original pink material.

 

[impresso]

A lot of people praise the Japanese brand Meiki pussies. There's some particularly delicate material, but I guess they can start to tear pretty quickly, especially if the penis size is much larger than average

 

[The3Ps]

Thanks for all the advice! Seems like a well lubed Fleshlight is the way to go.

 

[ffdan]

You can’t go wrong with any of the Lovense brand. Bluetooth controllers for hands free fun.

 

[The3Ps]

You can’t go wrong with any of the Lovense brand. Bluetooth controllers for hands free fun.

Wow, Bluetooth controlled. It reminds me of the line in the The Big Lebowski. Jacky Treehorn says, "Wave of the future Dude, 100% digital..." To which the Dude say, "Yeah well I still jerk off manually...." LMAO Thanks for the advice. I have to get some toy!! That or I'm going to have to buy my right hand dinner and a engagement ring!

 

[The3Ps]

I highly recommend the Fleshlight. Recently I purchased a second one with a clear insert, but I definitely prefer my older one with the original pink material.

Thanks, I do like the idea of clear to see the cum perhaps. But the pink sounds wonderful too.

 

[Greytruck]

Bought a silicon sleeve at a local shop. Just great.
lube it up and you think you were in a women again..

 

[The3Ps]

I looked at those pocket pussies and they look nothing more than a piece of plastic wrapped around your cock.

Now the Fleshlight is a whole different ball game. First you have tons of choices of the insides. Really tight ultra stimulation etc.

Now what I really like about the Fleshlight is after you stroke it for a bit and get yourself as hard as possible tighten that end cap really tight and it will feel just like a woman sucking really hard on your cock and will make the same popping noise that woman do.

Now if you want the ultimate orgasm nothing is better than a prostate orgasm. That is easily achieved by the Aneros Vice. Put it in turn it on lay back and let the multiple orgasms come. Take a bit for them to get there but once they start holy shit!!!

I've had prostate massages before and enjoyed them. And the idea of a toy to stimulate my prostate to orgasm just seems wonderful. Thanks for the advice!! Will post as soon as I make the decision.

 

[The3Ps]

Bought a silicon sleeve at a local shop. Just great.
lube it up and you think you were in a women again..

Another option, thank you!

 

[albertaboy]

Tenga eggs are pretty great if you are looking for a lubed up wank and they are really cheap.

They say single use, but not true. I turn them inside out, rinse and wash and they last quite a while. Come with different patterns on the inside.

 

[Volk359]

Any recommendations for a hands free toy that won’t break the bank?

 

[Bbl87]

Thanks for all the advice! Seems like a well lubed Fleshlight is the way to go.

Fleshlight is the industry standard for a reason, for sure.

I've actually read surprisingly good reviews of the Hello Cake stroker sold at alot of Walmarts as well.

For fleshlight, if you want some good information regarding your options, reviews, etc. this is a great resource.

https://fleshassist.com/en/guides

I have the Mia Malkova fleshlight myself, and I do enjoy it. I do have to keep the cap unscrewed for the most part because my girth combined with the design creates a bit too much suction and makes it hard to use. Nice change of pace from my hand though.

Wow, Bluetooth controlled. It reminds me of the line in the The Big Lebowski. Jacky Treehorn says, "Wave of the future Dude, 100% digital..." To which the Dude say, "Yeah well I still jerk off manually...." LMAO Thanks for the advice. I have to get some toy!! That or I'm going to have to buy my right hand dinner and a engagement ring!

I really want a Lovense Max 2. Like, REALLY want to try one. However, their listed max girth (5.7") is smaller than I am. It may still work, but I don't want to spend $100 on what might end up being an awkward Bluetooth paperweight if it doesn't work.

Which brings up a point, if you differ from "average" in length and girth, bigger or smaller, that is something to be aware of when shopping. If you're approximately in the average range the world is your oyster. If not, you may need to do a little more research to make sure you'll get something you like.

Any recommendations for a hands free toy that won’t break the bank?

The Lovense Max 2 is probably the best inexpensive option, though it's not completely hands free. You can use it like a regular stroker, but it also has the the whole air bag system inside to stimulate as well.

 

[curl4ever]

One more observation from personal experience. The Fleshlight (with its rigid plastic case) is very well suited for propping between a mattress and box spring. This puts it at a nice height for simulated doggy-style. I almost always use it in this hands-free way.

 

[trevorness]

I highly recommend the Fleshlight. Recently I purchased a second one with a clear insert, but I definitely prefer my older one with the original pink material.

I got the clear one and like being able to see my cock slide in it. And man it is is a good step up from your hand! Feels great.

 

[thefireman73]

Definitely a fleshlight. I liked to fill up the container with really warm water and let it sit for a while. Then drain and lube up. It felt so warm pushing my cock into it.

 

[The3Ps]

Definitely a fleshlight. I liked to fill up the container with really warm water and let it sit for a while. Then drain and lube up. It felt so warm pushing my cock into it.

Sounds like a wonderful feeling!

 

[The3Ps]

One more observation from personal experience. The Fleshlight (with its rigid plastic case) is very well suited for propping between a mattress and box spring. This puts it at a nice height for simulated doggy-style. I almost always use it in this hands-free way.

Very ingenious you are...

 

[Britva415]

In my opinion the must-have accessory for a Fleshlight is the Liberator Missionary mount. Not cheap, but, so satisfying. Still way cheaper than any but the worst "get-on-top-and-fuck-it" dolls.

They make a doggystyle type of mount as well but for that, the between-the-mattresses thing is just fine.

 

[The3Ps]

Well, This morning I finally tried out my new Fleshlight Torque Go. Wow!! With the water based lube, I slipped in and began stroking. It felt so realistic, like being inside a soft vagina. Or like my first blow job. Which I love remaining in a willing woman's mouth as I cum. Something so intimate about that to me. I loved seeing my cock inside the clear plastic. It's wasn't long before I came! Why didn't I get one sooner??? Thanks to all who provided advice. It's much appreciated!