Rosylady's and Cookiejar's Broken Heart's Club

[rosylady]

Well listening to people talking I realize that alot of us have "fallen in love" online and lost that "love".

This thread is a place where you can come in and tell your stories about any past or present "lost loves", whether they are online or offline ones. Which is your greatest "love lost"? Which was the easiest? How many times have you loved and lost?

Please feel free to post stories, poems, jokes or pictures.

We also welcome people to come in and tell about happy love stories. (gives the rest of us hope) This is a place where I hope we can all comfort someone who needs comforting. Too protect everyone, if you are uncomfortable you don't need to name names. Just use he or she instead.


So everyone come on in and lets see what happens.

 

[rosylady]

Ok someone needs to start us off.


My first love lost offline would have been a guy I met through mutual friends when I was in college. He was in university in another city so it was also a "long distance" relationship.

I saw him on weekends and some holiday's. (I only went home for Christmas and summer).We talked on the phone alot. We dated for a year before he told me he wanted to see other people, particulary this one girl in one of his classes.

I cried for a week over him. Than decided to stop crying and move on. Almost a year later I got a phone call from him saying he had been a fool to let me go, that he still loved me and wanted me back. But at that point I had met someone else. To this day I still wonder if he was the one I was suppose to be with. You never know and you can hardly ever go back.

 

[vladyofmysteryv]

Love and lost Love

I remember one I dated for a long time. I still think of him to day. He was sweet, honest, loving, caring and romantic. He was one of those hard to find kinda guys. The Gentleman in every way.
He wanted to take me away and marry me. He and I would sit talk for hours on end. We would go all over do so much together. I felt the Love he had for me. I had a lot of love for him, I still do even after 12 year. When he asked me to runaway and marry him, I had to say no, no matter how much I wanted to go with him. I was separated from my ex husband at the time. I didn't want to leave one for the other. I thought at that time it would have been bad thing to do. " To leave one for the other even though I was separated. I felt at the time, I would do the same to him if I did it then." After that day I never seen nor heard from him. I do wonder what ever happen to him.

 

[cookiejar]

My first true love I met through mutual friends , we were together over a year before I realized he was cheating. I buried my head in the sand and pretended like everything was fine , till the day I saw him in a mall with someone laughing and holding hands. What hurt the most was he had just left my bed , I decided then and there I was thru. I dumped him and I have never looked back. The last I knew he was still going from girl to girl....I'm glad to be out of it.


cookie

 

[rosylady]

bump

 

[biggbear8]

lost loves one

my first true love didnt last long she was a very sweet girl i was 24 she was 22 worked in the same restaurant and started going out been together for three four months then she went to visit her mom on her vacationand was taking a bath when the radio fell into the tub. a couple day after the funeral i got a card from her saying ill see u soon.

 

[biggbear8]

lost love two

ok this on was in spokane washing i was 28 she was 35

thought she was a wonderful woman very beautiful god had a body on her started going with her then found out she had a son no problem in fact great went together for three yrs rented a house together everything well i fond out that while i was at work she was playing around with other guys well then the kicker came walking in her ex husband wasnt an ex she was still married to him but also to a couple other guys and i would have been the forth , then i found that she was writing to a guy in austrilia someone her brother introduce her to while going with me great family huh.

 

[rosylady]

Re: Love and lost Love

I remember one I dated for a long time. I still think of him to day. He was sweet, honest, loving, caring and romantic. He was one of those hard to find kinda guys. The Gentleman in every way.
He wanted to take me away and marry me. He and I would sit talk for hours on end. We would go all over do so much together. I felt the Love he had for me. I had a lot of love for him, I still do even after 12 year. When he asked me to runaway and marry him, I had to say no, no matter how much I wanted to go with him. I was separated from my ex husband at the time. I didn't want to leave one for the other. I thought at that time it would have been bad thing to do. " To leave one for the other even though I was separated. I felt at the time, I would do the same to him if I did it then." After that day I never seen nor heard from him. I do wonder what ever happen to him.

Welcome Lady, that is a sad story. But thank you for sharing. I think it feels good to share with others.

 

[rosylady]

My first true love I met through mutual friends , we were together over a year before I realized he was cheating. I buried my head in the sand and pretended like everything was fine , till the day I saw him in a mall with someone laughing and holding hands. What hurt the most was he had just left my bed , I decided then and there I was thru. I dumped him and I have never looked back. The last I knew he was still going from girl to girl....I'm glad to be out of it.


cookie

Cookie your better off without the creep. You are a wonderful person.

 

[rosylady]

Re: lost loves one

my first true love didnt last long she was a very sweet girl i was 24 she was 22 worked in the same restaurant and started going out been together for three four months then she went to visit her mom on her vacationand was taking a bath when the radio fell into the tub. a couple day after the funeral i got a card from her saying ill see u soon.

OMG BEAR, hugggggs I am really sorry for your lost. Thank so much for sharing that tragic story.

 

[rosylady]

Re: lost love two

ok this on was in spokane washing i was 28 she was 35

thought she was a wonderful woman very beautiful god had a body on her started going with her then found out she had a son no problem in fact great went together for three yrs rented a house together everything well i fond out that while i was at work she was playing around with other guys well then the kicker came walking in her ex husband wasnt an ex she was still married to him but also to a couple other guys and i would have been the forth , then i found that she was writing to a guy in austrilia someone her brother introduce her to while going with me great family huh.

What Bear you didn't like the idea of a Polygamy relationship? LOL

Good thing you got out of there.

Hugggggggggs.

 

[rosylady]

bumping again

 

[rosylady]

Oh well I guess no one has any sad or hilarious "lost love" stories. (Maybe its because I started this thread that no one is posting.)

 

[STUDDOG]

OH ROSY

Oh well I guess no one has any sad or hilarious "lost love" stories. (Maybe its because I started this thread that no one is posting.)

Rosy

I sat here and read them all Rosy and I wanted to post my heart breaker...maybe before the days out I will..It's hard because I almost lost my life over her...but by the grace of God and my sons I'm still here .......but It's something I haven't really talked about for a long time...

Maybe a funny one or a happy one....had them.....smile

Hey Rosy AND Cookie....You are two beautiful people and good friends....any man that lost you two was either not sane or truly insane...but clearly not deserving of your loves....

Cookie ...I know girl!!!! I can't do limericks.....sigh


proud to be your friend
STUDDOG

 

[rosylady]

Re: OH ROSY

Oh well I guess no one has any sad or hilarious "lost love" stories. (Maybe its because I started this thread that no one is posting.)

Rosy

I sat here and read them all Rosy and I wanted to post my heart breaker...maybe before the days out I will..It's hard because I almost lost my life over her...but by the grace of God and my sons I'm still here .......but It's something I haven't really talked about for a long time...

Maybe a funny one or a happy one....had them.....smile

Hey Rosy AND Cookie....You are two beautiful people and good friends....any man that lost you two was either not sane or truly insane...but clearly not deserving of your loves....

Cookie ...I know girl!!!! I can't do limericks.....sigh


proud to be your friend
STUDDOG

Stud if its to painful don't post it. Please only do what you feel comfortable posting.
And thank you for your comment about Cookie and I. Unfortunately People see the outside before they see whats inside.

 

[emerald_a]

lost loves..........

A few years ago....
Met a man from the States online. We talked for monthes and he flew to Canada to meet me. We spent a wonderful weekend before he had to go back home to work.
A couple of days later I got an email from someone I didn't know requesting me to tell her who I was and how I knew him. Turns out he forwarded something with my email addy on it. We went on to messanger and during our talk I found out it was his "other" girlfriend....from back east........the further we dug the more we found out..... Including 3 more women and a wife.....
She contacted everyone...including his wife to inform them what he was up too...
He called me and tryed to make up some foolishness........"BYE,BYE"

 

[vladyofmysteryv]

Hi

I have to say I have loved and lost. I guess it goes on and on like a never ending story. There are many I have cared for, and many I still do. What do you consider Love. Is it True Love? Love of where you really cared for some one and they or you left?
Define the meaning of Love. I have seen many kinds of Love?

 

[Blue Dolphin]

only one problem with broken heart poems
they are sad

so very very sad

and

they cime from deep within my friend


Despair

by Blue Dolphin ©


Scudding clouds of pain
Invade my lonely mind
Seeking out the memory
Of love there left behind

Was I the toy

That she destroy

Her sharpened axe to grind

My fantasy is lost
I live to no avail
The sunshine of our love
Replaced by driving hail

Today she weds

And then, she beds

My dreams have all set sail


Where once there was love
Does sad sorrow reside
Small bottle of pills
Lay down by my side

Kiss her goodbye

Lay down to die

Wherefore now can I hide?

 

[rosylady]

Bump

 

[biggbear8]

ROSY

GOOD MORNING ROSY HUGSS AND KISSES

BEAR

 

[cookiejar]

This song of a love that has turned bad is so lovely....it definitely should be on a Broken Heart Club......

The Hungry Years

Girl we made it to the top
we went so high we couldn't stop
we climbed the ladder leading us nowhere
two of us together building castles in the air.
We spun so fast we couldn't tell the gold ring from the carousel
how could we know the right would turn out bad
everything we wanted , was everything we had.

I miss the hungry years
the once upon a time
the lovely long ago
we didn't have a dime.
Those days of me and you
we lost along the way.
How could I be so blind
not to see the door
closing on the world
I now hunger for
looking thru my tears
I miss the hungry years.

We shared our daydreams one by one
making plans was so much fun
we set our goals and reached the highest star
things that we were after
were much better from afar.
Here we stand just me and you
with every thing and nothing too
it wasn't worth the price we had to pay
honey take me home let's go back to yesterday.

I miss the hungry years
the once upon a time
the lovely long ago
we didn't have a dime.
Those days of me and you
we lost along the way.
How could I be so blind
not to see the door
closing on the world
I now hunger for
looking thru my tears
I miss the hungry years
I miss the hungry years

 

[biggbear8]

HI ROSY

SO TELL ME ROSY WHAT WOULD U DO


i have been talking to a woman for almost three yrs and i still havent met her the one time i was suppose to i was sickso how it seems that i have tos tart all over i was depressed for a few weeks with everything going on with me and dhe thinkds ive changed , she doesnt know if she wants to be with me , doesnt know when or if we are going to meet soon,

i would like ur advice

bear!

 

[CJS6]

Broken Heart

Rosy,

Have you ever heard the song by TOTO, " I'll Be Over You"?
It talks about getting over a relationship once there heart stops breaking!

My story starts back when I was in the military. I met and dated, a daughter of a sergeant that I worked with. Our relationship grew over a 6-month period to a point that we both thought the next step was marriage. I can still recall the evening I asked for her hand in marriage as if it just happened. On Christmas Eve, over a romantic dinner, I placed a silk scarf over her eyes and placed a small gift-wrapped box in her hand. Removing the scarf, her eyes became teary, opening the box she began to cry. I moved to in front of her, kneeled down on one knee and took the ring out of the box. With her hand in mine, I placed the ring on her finger and asked if she would marry me. With a kiss she said, “yes”! The devastating news came on New Years day, after a night of incredible lovemaking. I had to work, which is common being in the military, when I returned to my room at lunchtime, she wasn’t there, but a note was inside the ring. In less than a week, I was engaged and single again!

 

[RomanHans]

My first true love--who actually talked back to me

Seems like so long ago...I was an awkward late-bloomer at 20, working as a summer intern here in Washington, DC. Met a fellow intern, blond, blue-eyed, and unlike any other girl I had known. We went out a few times, but I was nervous, nerdy and over-eager...before we went our separate ways she made it clear that she thought that I was a "nice guy, but..."

So here's the weird thing--18 months later, I'm walking through the subway in Paris. I had gotten a letter that she was there as an exchange student, but had completely forgotten. Rounding the corner in one of the tunnels, I nearly walk right into her. It's her last day in Paris before returning to the U.S., while I was about to embark on my Great European Adventure. We spend a great, joyous afternoon bumming around Paris, until it's time for me to catch my train...

Was it just coincidence, or providence? I'll never know, as I've never heard from her again. But I still have the picture of her at the Eiffel Tower tucked away.

Roman