Rimming (analingus) in the real world

[UtilityCurve]

I assert that more men than women are ready to tongue a lover's last frontier.

But why is that?

I'm not trying to put girls on the defensive, any more than I would be about anything else. Just really wonder what restrains you.

I'm 1-3 in the count, BTW. I love doing it, and having it done to me drives me absolutely fucking crazy like nothing else (I could only take it briefly before I had to fuck HER ass--pussy simply wouldn't do!).

 

[HampshireBoy]

Funnily enough I had never thought about doing it myself, despite fingering and fucking a couple of women in the arse before. Then two different women did it to me as part of a blowjob and I absolutely loved it. Even then I hadn't thought of doing it myself until I was going down on a friend and kinda slipped lower down, she loved it and held my head there so I couldn't stop.

Obviously there is the whole "cleanliness" issue to deal with first but if a lover wants me to now I'm straight in there, just more waiting to be asked rather than initiating.

 

[zphude]

i definitely eat more female ass then they eat mine. and i've had more men eat my ass then women. so, checks out so far

 

[Yesok1]

I love giving and receiving. Anal play forms a big part of my sex life. Although my partner is not so keen giving analingus, I make up for the both of us.

 

[MidnightRyder007]

A true form of art.....

 

[OldGoodPup]

As my Miss rides her lover, cowgirl, there is nothing I like better than to crawl up behind her and tickle her rosebud and that special space between rosebud and vagina with my tongue. I can feel her quiver as I do. Knowing Ive added to her pleasure is my perfect reward.

 

[Turnedonbysharing]

It's true of my experience that I've been keener / more willing to give analingus than female partners have to give it to me. Although that said I am happier to give than receive as receiving doesn't really do anything for me but giving turns me on.

I wonder if men having hairier cracks is off putting. Although that said I don't think I would be out off if a woman had a hairy arsehole.

It's a good question. I dunno.

 

[LMWM321]

I do it to my wife every time we fool around, which is 2-3 times/wk. ..And she's alway prepared. If not from having recently showered then from cleaning the area with an anti-bacterial wipe after she does her pre-game pee,.

She doesn't do it to me b/c it's not something I've ever really wanted. As to why more men are naturally inclined to do it? Well, I think the tidiness of the area is a big part. Most women are completely or nearly hairless down there and that makes it more visually and hygienically inviting. Men by comparison... not so much. I you want it from your partner and aren't getting it, consider getting waxed and - for god's sake - always shower before asking for it.

The other possibility is some woman think a guy wanting it is somehow feminizing. A redic notion of course. But so it goes with sex, a lot of rediculous notions persist out there.

 

[Yesok1]

I do it to my wife every time we fool around, which is 2-3 times/wk. ..And she's alway prepared. If not freshly showered then thoroughly cleaned off with an anti-bacterial wipe after she does her pre-game pee,.

She doesn't do it to me b/c it's not something I've ever really wanted. As to why more men are naturally inclined to do it? Well, I think the tidiness of the area is a big part. Most women are completely or nearly hairless down there and that makes it more visually and hygienically inviting. Men by comparison... not so much. I you want it from your partner and aren't getting it, consider getting waxed and - for god's sake - always shower before asking for it.

The other possibility is some woman think a guy wanting it is somehow feminizing. A redic notion of course. But so it goes with sex, a lot of rediculous notions persist out there.

I never considered doing it with a man. I never gave a bj when I was straight. It's obvious now why I never did. Ha ha

 

[Morton81]

I love it both ways. Receiving drives me wild. I can tongue my wife forever. She almost orgasms from it. Also, my tongue is the only thing going in her back door. Love to finger her pussy at the same time.

 

[cdstefi]

My wife's very particular about how clean and prepared she feels before she'll let me near her butthole, but when she does feel like it, it gets her off like nothing else being rimmed while fucking herself with a thick dildo. Turns me on too of course so by the time I've brought her off I'm ready to finish myself on her ass.

 

[cdstefi]

The other possibility is some woman think a guy wanting it is somehow feminizing. A redic notion of course. But so it goes with sex, a lot of rediculous notions persist out there.

Ridiculous notions indeed, like pegging being a feminising thing too. I mean it can be if people want it to, but for me it feels like just another delicious sex act, and I actually feel quite dominant if I'm riding cowgirl on my wife's Feeldoe with my cock fully erect for her to play with.

 

[Turnedonbysharing]

in my case, it is not an attractive place for the simple reason of hygiene. Maybe if I am certain of the cleanness, I could try.

Is it something you ever discussed with close friends? If so how many enjoyed or liked the idea of rimming a man? Was hygiene concerns the

 

[Turnedonbysharing]

Issue for everyone?

 

[Uncut1969]

I started to eat my old girlfriends ass she tensed up butt then opened up and loved it and became our regular thing! Love here her say lick my booty and hold it open ! Then one day she returned the favor it was unbelievable I loved it

 

[Giftboy]

I just love to feel that wet tip lick my hole. It makes me all fluffy and ready for a good hard penetration by some big (especially of colour) fat long cock that will make my eyes water.

 

[LarryTee50]

....love to point my tongue and stab it up into my lover's hot earthy tangy asshole....so primal!....so good!.....

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I've only been rimmed once by my male personal cocksucker. He was playing with me on the floor and I was lifting my ass off the carpet. I was trying to get him to lock my asshole. He did a little bit, but I don't think he was too interested and proceeded to do what he did best, which was suck my cock til I exploded in his mouth.

I tried it a couple of times with my wife while we were in 69 and she kept moving away from me. I think she thought licking an asshole was gross even if she wasn't the one doing it.

 

[van_delay]

The only time my wife is ever vocal is when I tongue her asshole.

 

[LMWM321]

I tried it a couple of times with my wife while we were in 69 and she kept moving away from me. I think she thought licking an asshole was gross even if she wasn't the one doing it.

The first time I asked to do it to my wife, she said the same thing - "Ick! That seems gross." I pointed out that it's just skin and can be made clean with soap and water like any other part of the body. And I said the appeal is that it's "kissing you in the most intimate place possible. And I'll be enjoying you in a way no other man ever has before - I'll be the first and only to do it!" That went over well enough for her to let me do it the first few times. ..Now, she she's well over the "ick" factor and really loves the feeling. She'll even let me kiss her on the mouth after I've done it - which is something she wouldn't do the first 10 times or so. No, she doesn't orgasm from it, but it's a great foreplay activity.

Good luck! I hope your wife has a change of heart on the matter.

 

[Giftboy]

I've only been rimmed once by my male personal cocksucker. He was playing with me on the floor and I was lifting my ass off the carpet. I was trying to get him to lock my asshole. He did a little bit, but I don't think he was too interested and proceeded to do what he did best, which was suck my cock til I exploded in his mouth.

I tried it a couple of times with my wife while we were in 69 and she kept moving away from me. I think she thought licking an asshole was gross even if she wasn't the one doing it.

Keep trying. If I was with you I would lick, suck and kiss your hole until you ejaculated. Believe me, you would.

 

[sftopbottom]

I love giving and receiving. my last wife loved to eat my ass. I had a fwb guy who I'd visit weekly. I'd lay on his belly sucking his cock slowly, while he tongue-fucked me. it was a blast...would love to find such a friend again.

 

[UtilityCurve]

well, it seems to be true, but I would like to investigate the reason(s) why. Do you think men go there as a secret desire of receiving the same favor?

Absolutely not in my case. My sole motivation was to be "a first" at something they might like. I can tell you that I am certain there was often reluctance to let go and enjoy because they thought I'd ask. No way around that if you're looking (as I was, I admit) for the elements of surprise and shock. Perhaps I should have forgone them in favor of a "this is what I'd like to do, no obligation" convo?

 

[Uncut1969]

First time I did it to a women she tensed up and the more I did it the more she relaxed and enjoyed it! I diddnt tell her I was going to do it. But soon it became part of our sex and she would hold open her ass and say lick my booty! And then one day she returned the favor it
Was great I miss it!

 

[anniebaby10]

I love having it done to me and love doing it to my husband. I like having him on all fours so I can get my tongue in his asshole while stroking his cock and he cums so loud and so hard it is amazing. Now that being said, we both get very very clean before doing anything related to the butt.