My wife and I are just beginning to explore the idea of light bondage and sub play. She likes the idea. I was wondering if anybody had any recommendations for adult videos of bondage, sex, or toys. We're not really into pain. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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boss27 said:
not sure about video names i lent the few i had to a friend and they have since gone missing.
for toys hmm you could try cuffs. i suggest the velcro type also there are bondage kits you can buy. blindfolds and gags work as well. also whips come in a varity of shaps and sizes. start small and have fun.
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I'm sure if you do a google search on "light bondage" you'll find all sorts of fun things.
My advice- keep things safe. IE ALWAYS have a quick release type restraint (never know when a fire alarm will go off) and always keep a sharp eye on the person who's tied up. Never tie tight enough to stop circulation (can see this by hand/foot/etc/ going numb, blue, cold) and if you're tying in an unnatural possition, don't keep them there for long periods of time. Can cause some pretty nasty injuries that way.
Other then that, have fun, and welcome to the world of BDSM.
My advice- keep things safe. IE ALWAYS have a quick release type restraint (never know when a fire alarm will go off) and always keep a sharp eye on the person who's tied up. Never tie tight enough to stop circulation (can see this by hand/foot/etc/ going numb, blue, cold) and if you're tying in an unnatural possition, don't keep them there for long periods of time. Can cause some pretty nasty injuries that way.
Other then that, have fun, and welcome to the world of BDSM.
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boss27 said:
Hello and welcome to the board boss. i've attached some links from our Library which deal specificaly with bondage, toys, techniques, etc.
i hope your exploration is an enjoyable and safe one. Good luck.
lara
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a few home recipies
If you really don't want to spend too terribly much money until you and your wife are sure this is something you wish to incorporate into your lives together, here's a list of a few items that can be found around the house and put to good sinful use ...
hair scrunchies:
If it's you that is pondering the submissive side ... a clothed hair scrunchie can be used as a cock ring. Wrap it a couple of times around the base of your cock to help keep the longevity of your erection and it's washable.
If it's your wife, the larger ones can be used to wrap around a breast. And it's washable. You can also use them (the larger ones) to bind wrists together (make a figure 8 locking the wrists separately).
Got scarfs??? These can be used as blindfolds, gags, restraints, sensory play (running it along the body, over the penis, her pussy).
Is your shower head hand-holdable??? Why not try a bit of water play? Set your showerhead to pulsate, see how long it takes to bring her to an orgasm.
Take a look in your kitchen .. got a baster? How about a basting brush? The baster (suction thing with bulbous end) can be used for suction play without any long time application. The brush can be used over the body, again, sensual play.
What about feathers? Got a pastry paddle? Ice cubes are great fun when applied to a nipple, a clit, the head of a cock .. or if you are daring enough, one inserted into her just before sex.
Take a look around your home, everything can be turned into a toy of pleasure. Even a stuffed animal.
If you really don't want to spend too terribly much money until you and your wife are sure this is something you wish to incorporate into your lives together, here's a list of a few items that can be found around the house and put to good sinful use ...
hair scrunchies:
If it's you that is pondering the submissive side ... a clothed hair scrunchie can be used as a cock ring. Wrap it a couple of times around the base of your cock to help keep the longevity of your erection and it's washable.
If it's your wife, the larger ones can be used to wrap around a breast. And it's washable. You can also use them (the larger ones) to bind wrists together (make a figure 8 locking the wrists separately).
Got scarfs??? These can be used as blindfolds, gags, restraints, sensory play (running it along the body, over the penis, her pussy).
Is your shower head hand-holdable??? Why not try a bit of water play? Set your showerhead to pulsate, see how long it takes to bring her to an orgasm.
Take a look in your kitchen .. got a baster? How about a basting brush? The baster (suction thing with bulbous end) can be used for suction play without any long time application. The brush can be used over the body, again, sensual play.
What about feathers? Got a pastry paddle? Ice cubes are great fun when applied to a nipple, a clit, the head of a cock .. or if you are daring enough, one inserted into her just before sex.
Take a look around your home, everything can be turned into a toy of pleasure. Even a stuffed animal.
