Rape, I can't believe.................

[SleepingWarrior]

It is sad that rape happens, it is (most likely) the worst thing you could do a person. What is even worse is that it will never end, there will always be rape and that is what sickens me because it never really mattered to me until I knew someone who was raped.

She would hardly ever talk about it because after she did she would have the nightmare replay through her sleep. Something she will never know is how many times I stayed up at night, laying beside her watching her toss and turn and occassionally talk it out throughout her sleep. God, so many times I wanted to wake her up when she was going through that and try to help her but the whole situation made me feel helpless even though it didn't happen to me. I could only imagine what pain she felt inside because it pained me so much just to see her go through it in her dreams over and over. I never did help her and it made me feel worthless.

But my feelings shouldn't matter as much as those that went through an experience like that but I just wanted you to know that there are people out there who care even though they never (and probaly will never) have gone through something like that.

 

[Wolf_Song]

I have talked to many rape victims in my life time and none of them ever reported it to legal officials. The reasons for not reporting were many, mostly due to the trauma and not wanting to deal with it more than they already had.

Most of them didnt have some one they could comfortably talk to about it. And in the instances where they talked to family about it there was to often the disgusting cliche of " you dont want to ruin that boys life by saying any thing ".

They werent thinking of their daughter whom had gone through that. Then these girls were betrayed by family whom sought to and were able to cover it up to the public eye. Yet the victims usually end up with bearing the guilt and the trauma.

The problem isnt just with the rapists, its a societal issue that needs addressed in every ones lives. Where people communicate more about it and things are set up better to help the victims. Not the all to often of some one being to ashamed to say any thing or where they or others attempt to cover things up.

One possible solution that may help womens rights in this issue and many others would be for equal representation of men and women in governments. As this and many issues women are more informed of than most men I have met in life.

People need to talk more and make each other aware of things as this thread and all of Lit does. Where more things are openly talked about. Which is a definite progression from where certain things arent talked about in past societal beliefs.

And as seen by the catholic churches recent scandals it isnt just the female gender that are the victims. I havent met as many male rape victims as female ones. But of those I did, the trauma was still there and will always be in changing degrees.

There are still those in society that teach some one whom engages in intercourse before marriage is "dirty". Yet they dont take in to consideration those that dont have a choice in this. And in there generalized judgements they hurt many that dont deserve it.

There is so much that causes rape and so many ways to prevent or deal with it when it happens. First step in this like many things is.. communication.

Hearts blessings to all and for those that need it.. ( a hug )

 

[70/30]

People are glorified animals, if not an unrelenting bacteria. Expect the worst and you won't be disappointed. We aren't demiGODs, we are demagogues.

 

[Wolf_Song]

<snip>
Iwmggw you mention talking to your kids about this. Now my question is when do we start talking to our kids about such issues? My son is three years old, and pretty much from the time he was born I have been constantly wondering 'what if' this happens to him. It scares the living shit out of me. I scared that my paranoia will rub off on him.

Purrde Flower, have thought about putting my son into self defense classes and now you have sparked that idea into my head to take classes as well.

Since no one else took a shot at your questions.. will share my opinions.

First question of when to talk to children is to be that person you wanted to talk to as a child. The cool adult that they can talk to about any thing with talking to them as you would a friend. If there is a spouse then should get the communication train happening with them in this and all issues. And whether a spouse or not is good idea to seek second or more opinions, whether personally, professionally or literature.

By five years old children should be talked to about strangers and positively reinforced that can talk to you about any thing. As well is good time to start sharing chores to learn responsibility. With explaining that the more they help it helps to free time up for mom/dad to have fun with them. It is often said that the first five years of a child is when they are most impressionable.. which on the average is true to me.

By ten years old the birds and the bee's talk should already be started. This may seem a bit early to some, but were a lot different than generations past. And will leave three of many possible reasons in this;

- One area being of how much sexuality is presented in entertainment industry and children are exposed to it earlier. With out proper guidance in this or other issues the likelihood of unpleasant circumstances increases.

- Number two reason being that with scientific tests done last century that conception can happen gradually with generations at a younger age.

- Number three being that in one case several years ago a ten year old boy and some of his friends raped a thirteen year old girl. When the police came he laughed in their faces and point blank told them he knew they couldnt do any thing to him.

As well would add that I agree with Purrde Flowers mentioning self defense classes as often give that same advice . It is good for any one at all ages physically, mentally, emotionally, well being and promotes confidence. With as well the discipline that is taught by a good instructor is good for both children and adults alike.. especially in focus.

 

[Nomadic Lady]

SleepingWarrior, you did the best you could do for her and that was be there for her.

You said: I never did help her and it made me feel worthless. You never know you may of helped her more than you think.

Of course your feelings matter. You went through some of her pain with her.
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Wolf_Song you said: Most of them didnt have some one they could comfortably talk to about it. And in the instances where they talked to family about it there was to often the disgusting cliche of " you dont want to ruin that boys life by saying any thing ".

That sickens me to the core. Again the child/girl/woman is the victim again.

It'll be many, many year before you get that 'what did she do to provoke this' attitude from many peoples minds.

You also said: There are still those in society that teach some one whom engages in intercourse before marriage is "dirty". Yet they don't take in to consideration those that don't have a choice in this. And in there generalized judgements they hurt many that don't deserve it.

As my mother always told me "why buy the cow when the milk is free" Gee mom, thanx.

My parents do not know and will never know what happened to me because I know what they will say, "you must have done something to provoke this".

Hearts blessings to all and for those that need it.. ( a hug )

Thanx for that.
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Wolf_Song you said: First question of when to talk to children is to be that person you wanted to talk to as a child. The cool adult that they can talk to about any thing with talking to them as you would a friend. If there is a spouse then should get the communication train happening with them in this and all issues. And whether a spouse or not is good idea to seek second or more opinions, whether personally, professionally or literature.

Well I would have to say that is my sons uncle, who is a Ontario Provincial Police Officer, my son adores him, and I know he would be more than willing to talk to him when the time comes. Thanx for pointing my head in the right direction, and Thanx for all that you listed, it will help.
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70/30 you said: People are glorified animals, if not an unrelenting bacteria. Expect the worst and you won't be disappointed. We aren't demiGODs, we are demagogues.

Don't think many folks want to live their lives expecting the worst. Even if they do always expect the worst, like rape, you are never prepared.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

sad..

Yeah, this is a sad but true situation. Sucks that people would be so forceful.

The other thing to look at is how many men are raped. Most men that are raped don't even talk about it, because society either 1. won't ebelieve it or 2. Would think only whimps could be raped.

Crazy thing.

PowrDragn

 

[intrigued]

There's no reason to thank me intrigued, but your welcome all the same. By the way your not rambling. Talking about it, as you know, is good.

Oh yes, agree with you guys about educating yourself as well as others.

Iwmggw you mention talking to your kids about this. Now my question is when do we start talking to our kids about such issues? My son is three years old, and pretty much from the time he was born I have been constantly wondering 'what if' this happens to him. It scares the living shit out of me. I scared that my paranoia will rub off on him.

Purrde Flower, have thought about putting my son into self defense classes and now you have sparked that idea into my head to take classes as well.

I am enclosing a few links with regard to the symtoms of sexual molestation in hopes of educating and enlightening us to both prevention, and how to help....

http://www.ncvc.org.Infolink/info39.htm

http://www.gov.calgary.ab.ca/police/kids/rapedrugs.html

http://www.darkness2light.org/generic.jhtml?pid=60

I hope those work, for some reason I can't copy and paste anymore, and had to type these manually...

Now, with regard to talking with young children, I think it needs to start with teaching them that their body is private. Teach body parts and names, explain that they are private and that no one has the right to touch them there. Tell them what to do if someone does. Talk and talk until you are certain they completely understand. I think its terribly important to hone their instincts, to speak with them about that little voice inside that tells them when something is right or wrong...that is what will guide and protect them when you aren't there, therefore, it is so very important. We all need to listen to that little voice so much more than we do...
Go easy with children. I have found that its best to start a topic, and them allow them to guide and control how far it goes. If they need more, they will ask, and the type questions they ask will give you a great deal of insight into their development, and you can use this as a guide as to how far you can go. Get the basics out, and then see what they make of it. In time, you will be able to talk a little more.
It tore me up to speak to my son about this. He was in boy scouts and the handbook they had contained an insert about sexual molestation that was required for me to address with him. Thats the only reason I was able to muster the courage to do so, because I dreaded having to shatter that beautiful, trusting innoncence with such talk as the evil/sickness/threat that exists.
But I would much rather give him a talk about it, than ever have him experience it....

This thread has come to be a tool, I thank you, each of you.




70/30....I can make no sense of your thinking, I'm sorry. One should expect to be raped, mugged, abused, killed...correct???

 

[Lightning]

To Save Insanity...

70/30....I can make no sense of your thinking, I'm sorry. One should expect to be raped, mugged, abused, killed...correct???

...I've just blocked 70/30's comments from being displayed. I don't care to listen to loose-mouth thoughts.

 

[intrigued]

Re: To Save Insanity...

...I've just blocked 70/30's comments from being displayed. I don't care to listen to loose-mouth thoughts.

I'm hugging you, dear.

 

[weed]

I remember growing up and the kiss and chase games played on the playground in grade school. Knock the girl down and you can kiss her. What a set up for rape/daterape. Although not as frequent, it still happens on playgrounds today.

And how about ass squeezes and titty grabs in middle and high school. Often dismissed with a boys will be boys attitude or a slap on the hand.

Not to mention the crudest of humor we see in movies made for an adolescent crowd.

All these kinds of things set up our kids to not take rape as seriously as they should.

We have to be able to show our children how disrespectful the attitudes that go with these kinds of games and humor are at a very young age, as it comes up. We have to be there, involved in their lives, to see it come up.

It is just as important to teach boys not to rape as it is to teach girls that their body is their own. I know I'm stereotyping here. I'll say vice versa as well.

 

[gotdatmony]

Immediate castration/sterilization for convicted rapists and child molesters....this..."I'm gonna post your picture in the paper with your address"...shit just don't cut it......

Oh yea...I support the death penalty also...let's use that one too

 

[bluespoke]

Immediate castration/sterilization for convicted rapists and child molesters....this..."I'm gonna post your picture in the paper with your address"...shit just don't cut it......

Oh yea...I support the death penalty also...let's use that one too

And when you have castrated them, where does all their anger go? All you do is create a bigger monster than before.

Exclusion from society is preferable.

 

[gotdatmony]

Castration and expulsion ....works for me...

 

[intrigued]

Castration and expulsion ....works for me...

Well, the problem with this is that the rape has to have already occured. Sure, it stops that rapist, and may possibly be a deterrant to others, though I doubt it. The key here is in learning (and teaching) how to protect yourself.

 

[DustyWolfe]

Re: To Save Insanity...

...I've just blocked 70/30's comments from being displayed. I don't care to listen to loose-mouth thoughts.

I did that as well... Thank you Lightning, I will tell Jen not to do evil things to you anytime soon

 

[DustyWolfe]

I really do swear that my life sounds so unbelievable and like a bad movie..

From the ages of 4-7 I was molested by my neighbor (whom was my best friend's uncle) I really couldn't escape it. I was sent out to play and it would happen. I never told.. I was too scared. He made feel dirty and told me that if I told that my parents would hate me. Hell, I was little, I didn't know the truth.

Then, I made a huge mistake when I was 19. I was dating a guy that seemed pretty charming. I went to gaming place with him and he slipped something in my drink. I never reported him. He raped me numerous but I was too stupid to report him. I did go for a rape kit one time, but a male cop came into the room and demanded to watch it. I got dressed under a blanket and walked out.

Stupid cops is one of the reason's why women don't tell.

They don't want to go trial

They don't want to face their rapist because most of the time it is someone they know.

Women often feel guilty.

There are so many emotions.

And yes, the numbers are higher than 1 in 4. Over half the women who are raped never report it. That makes it 1 in 2.

It gets worse.

In the UCR (Uniform Crime Report) when the police stations are reporting they can only report one crime. A man might rape 6 women but only the worst is reported. Kinda throws statistics off wouldn't you think?

 

[Lightning]

Thank You...

I did that as well... Thank you Lightning, I will tell Jen not to do evil things to you anytime soon

I'll keep that in mind.

 

[Nomadic Lady]

PowrDragn you said: The other thing to look at is how many men are raped. Most men that are raped don't even talk about it, because society either 1. won't ebelieve it or 2. Would think only whimps could be raped.

Wouldn't doubt if there it was only 2% (it's probably less) of the men reporting a rape or even talking to someone for that matter.
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intrigued, Thanx for the links. It is greatly appreciated.

Crap! No looking forward to when his uncle talks to him, and I plan on being there if my son needs me. Which I hope will be alright. Just hope I don't start crying.

When you talked to your son did he have many questions to ask or did he basically listen? Did you find that he may have been paranoid after your talk? I want my son aware but do not want him paranoid of all the people around him. Damn this is hard and confusing.
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Thanx Lightning and Dustygrrl
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Weed, that's a tough one. Not sure if that is just kids goofing around or what. If it continues after mid teens then I think it is a big problem. It may just be a phase kids go through when they start noticing the opposite sex, and their bodily differences (in other words their reasoning for it may be "I'm gonna cop me a feel and see what the big deal is about"). But then again the way I am thinking is probably a little screwed up.

You said: We have to be there, involved in their lives, to see it come up.

OH YES. That's for sure.
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Gotdatmony you said: Immediate castration/sterilization for convicted rapists and child molesters....this..."I'm gonna post your picture in the paper with your address"...shit just don't cut it......

Have to agree with what Bluespoke said: And when you have castrated them, where does all their anger go? All you do is create a bigger monster than before.

As much as I would love to see that happen it would probably lead to even more violent rapes or murder.
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Dustygrrl you said: I did go for a rape kit one time, but a male cop came into the room and demanded to watch it. I got dressed under a blanket and walked out.

How idiotic to send a male cop in the room. Now where the hell was the brain matter there.

You also said: In the UCR (Uniform Crime Report) when the police stations are reporting they can only report one crime. A man might rape 6 women but only the worst is reported. Kinda throws statistics off wouldn't you think?
What the heck are they thinking! So that mean it is okay to rape as long as you don't use a weapon or such. SICK! Reading that makes one go beyond anger. Can't even tell you the feeling it left me in the pit of my gut, but then again you probably do.

 

[DustyWolfe]

You also said: In the UCR (Uniform Crime Report) when the police stations are reporting they can only report one crime. A man might rape 6 women but only the worst is reported. Kinda throws statistics off wouldn't you think?
What the heck are they thinking! So that mean it is okay to rape as long as you don't use a weapon or such. SICK! Reading that makes one go beyond anger. Can't even tell you the feeling it left me in the pit of my gut, but then again you probably do.

Yes, I know... But if the worst crime was the use of the weapon, then it will count in the crime statistics as 1 forcible rape, not 6.

The UCR is very screwy that way. I don't fully understand. There is also a VCR, Victims Crime Report. The counts in it are way off too because very few victims participate in the crime report. So really in all actuality. Think about it this way. The stats really and truly should be 1-2 or 1-3 meaning that anywhere from 1/2 to 1/3 of them women on this board have been raped or molested. Or both...

 

[intrigued]

PowrDragn you said: The other thing to look at is how many men are raped. Most men that are raped don't even talk about it, because society either 1. won't ebelieve it or 2. Would think only whimps could be raped.

Wouldn't doubt if there it was only 2% (it's probably less) of the men reporting a rape or even talking to someone for that matter.
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intrigued, Thanx for the links. It is greatly appreciated.

Crap! No looking forward to when his uncle talks to him, and I plan on being there if my son needs me. Which I hope will be alright. Just hope I don't start crying.

When you talked to your son did he have many questions to ask or did he basically listen? Did you find that he may have been paranoid after your talk? I want my son aware but do not want him paranoid of all the people around him. Damn this is hard and confusing.
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Thanx Lightning and Dustygrrl
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Weed, that's a tough one. Not sure if that is just kids goofing around or what. If it continues after mid teens then I think it is a big problem. It may just be a phase kids go through when they start noticing the opposite sex, and their bodily differences (in other words their reasoning for it may be "I'm gonna cop me a feel and see what the big deal is about"). But then again the way I am thinking is probably a little screwed up.

You said: We have to be there, involved in their lives, to see it come up.

OH YES. That's for sure.
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Gotdatmony you said: Immediate castration/sterilization for convicted rapists and child molesters....this..."I'm gonna post your picture in the paper with your address"...shit just don't cut it......

Have to agree with what Bluespoke said: And when you have castrated them, where does all their anger go? All you do is create a bigger monster than before.

As much as I would love to see that happen it would probably lead to even more violent rapes or murder.
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Dustygrrl you said: I did go for a rape kit one time, but a male cop came into the room and demanded to watch it. I got dressed under a blanket and walked out.

How idiotic to send a male cop in the room. Now where the hell was the brain matter there.

You also said: In the UCR (Uniform Crime Report) when the police stations are reporting they can only report one crime. A man might rape 6 women but only the worst is reported. Kinda throws statistics off wouldn't you think?
What the heck are they thinking! So that mean it is okay to rape as long as you don't use a weapon or such. SICK! Reading that makes one go beyond anger. Can't even tell you the feeling it left me in the pit of my gut, but then again you probably do.

He was very uncomfortable the first time, and when I tried to explain what he was to do if he was touched and his demand to stop was ignored, he kept giggling as I demonstrated where he was to kick them. He was sad, confused, yet he understood my concern, but at that age, he truly did not understand what the full extent of what could happen to him was. I had not yet talked to him about sex, and tried approaching it from the angle of "this person could try to hurt you physically on your penis or your bottom" and that concerned him plenty enough that I felt I could leave it at that. After a couple weeks, I asked him if they had talked about it in Scouts and he said said that they said pretty much what I did, and emphasized what to do as far as always telling an adult, no matter how they were threatened.
We developed a secret password that was to be used any time a stranger might try to convince him to go off with them under the guise of having my permission. The stranger would have to use that password, or my son could not go. We talked about listening to his gut/instinct/inner voice and, eventually we had the sex talk and that made it all come together for him. In that talk, I told him of my rape, and that changed everything for him. He then took it upon himself to start talking to other children in school about staying safe, and I am a very proud Mommy.
My daughter, on the other hand was a bit more difficult, in that at age 4, she had really gotten into touching herself while taking a bath. I really had to work at getting her to understand that it was OK for her to, but not for anyone else too. Things take time, I suppose....but now at 5.5 she knows that her body is very private and that no one should touch her privates, that she is not to go off with someone offering her some little treat, and that she is not to believe anyone that tells her "your mommy said it was OK." Oh hell no!
Im sorry, I get a little worked up over her...
I'm rambling again, let me know if I addressed it all, Nomadic Lady?

This thread is touching me to no end.

Dusty, you are one beautiful and strong woman, and I am so very sorry for your pain. What I admire about you is that you are one hell of a survivor, and you seem to be hell bent on helping others to survive. I am deeply impressed.

 

[DustyWolfe]

He was very uncomfortable the first time, and when I tried to explain what he was to do if he was touched and his demand to stop was ignored, he kept giggling as I demonstrated where he was to kick them. He was sad, confused, yet he understood my concern, but at that age, he truly did not understand what the full extent of what could happen to him was. I had not yet talked to him about sex, and tried approaching it from the angle of "this person could try to hurt you physically on your penis or your bottom" and that concerned him plenty enough that I felt I could leave it at that. After a couple weeks, I asked him if they had talked about it in Scouts and he said said that they said pretty much what I did, and emphasized what to do as far as always telling an adult, no matter how they were threatened.
We developed a secret password that was to be used any time a stranger might try to convince him to go off with them under the guise of having my permission. The stranger would have to use that password, or my son could not go. We talked about listening to his gut/instinct/inner voice and, eventually we had the sex talk and that made it all come together for him. In that talk, I told him of my rape, and that changed everything for him. He then took it upon himself to start talking to other children in school about staying safe, and I am a very proud Mommy.
My daughter, on the other hand was a bit more difficult, in that at age 4, she had really gotten into touching herself while taking a bath. I really had to work at getting her to understand that it was OK for her to, but not for anyone else too. Things take time, I suppose....but now at 5.5 she knows that her body is very private and that no one should touch her privates, that she is not to go off with someone offering her some little treat, and that she is not to believe anyone that tells her "your mommy said it was OK." Oh hell no!
Im sorry, I get a little worked up over her...
I'm rambling again, let me know if I addressed it all, Nomadic Lady?

This thread is touching me to no end.

Dusty, you are one beautiful and strong woman, and I am so very sorry for your pain. What I admire about you is that you are one hell of a survivor, and you seem to be hell bent on helping others to survive. I am deeply impressed.

Intrigued, you have some very good ideas. I would love to talk to you about them. I'm going to be a mommy soon Not pregnant, but my gf has kids Unfortunately, the oldest has already been through this.

*blushes* Thank you for your kind words. I'm trying to survive, I guess I'm doing a good job of it. I've learned to be much kinder to myself lately. I guess I have Jenj to thank for most of it. She's helping me to learn to love myself again, and that is important. I've stopped blaming myself and I've actually forgiven my two ex's. The neighbor man though, I don't think I can ever forgive him for taking away part of my childhood. Yes, I am hell bent on helping others to survive. There just isn't enough help out there for people.

Keep healing, keep working through what you have been through. Never stop talking about it when you feel the need through, because that is how our minds process what happens.
*steps off her soapbox and tries to take her own advice*

 

[intrigued]

Intrigued, you have some very good ideas. I would love to talk to you about them. I'm going to be a mommy soon Not pregnant, but my gf has kids Unfortunately, the oldest has already been through this.

*blushes* Thank you for your kind words. I'm trying to survive, I guess I'm doing a good job of it. I've learned to be much kinder to myself lately. I guess I have Jenj to thank for most of it. She's helping me to learn to love myself again, and that is important. I've stopped blaming myself and I've actually forgiven my two ex's. The neighbor man though, I don't think I can ever forgive him for taking away part of my childhood. Yes, I am hell bent on helping others to survive. There just isn't enough help out there for people.

Keep healing, keep working through what you have been through. Never stop talking about it when you feel the need through, because that is how our minds process what happens.
*steps off her soapbox and tries to take her own advice*

Bless you....
I would like to ask you to allow these children to become angels of hope and renewal for you. I truly believe thats what babies and children really are.
My gut is in pieces to read your words regarding her daughter! Damn it all, as much as I am so full of hope and support and survival, I am weary from this. It is breaking my heart to sit here and absorb the magnitude of so many victims, so much loss, so much pain and hell...lives right down the drain. Yes, that is what it is. I trashed my heart and mind with all the garbage that rape leaves you with, to the point that I basically threw away my life, with the exception of having two beautiful children that for whatever reason, God decided to bless me with. For 30 years, my life was absolutely nothing but wandering from one thing to the next, aimlessly and lost, from one man to the next. I gave all my energy to trying to stuff all the little holes inside, and thinking "this would be the man to make it all go away". I would have sex, an unbearable torture for me, with TOTAL STRANGERS, just to have someones arms around me. I had no self esteem, no self worth, and no desire to live. i had no dream, nothing to look forward to each day, other than meeting the next man...I tried to take my life too many times to even remember.
Listen to me...anyone reading this, in any kind of torture and struggle....no one can fill the holes but YOU. No one can fix you, but YOU. No one can give you back a damn thing that you lost, it is GONE. But you can dig down deep beneath all the garbage inside and you can take what is left of that spirit inside you and embrace it. Love it for what it is. It is YOU. You have made it this far, through it all, and you can go even further. You have but one reason to do so....and that reason is YOU. Can you think of any better reason???
You can do it. Even if you are alone in this world, if you have not a soul to talk to, no one to hold you or give a damn, get on the net and find a support group, even if it is online. Hell...PM me...I will listen to you. I have been listening to others all of my life...I can take it, I promise.

Be safe.

 

[70/30]

I know that everyone here has blocked me(regret consumes me) but the Erotic Stories branches of this very site has 1430 stories in the category of NonConsent Sex. I think that is a little worse than me saying in an abrasive manner, live your life without worrying about some fucking loser rapist. Kids are a different story I agree, but adults have a partial responsibility to learn how to defend themselves. If some dude tried to rape me up the ass, I'd fucking rip his eyeballs out and/or sever his cock. To me fighting back is worth the risk, people have died for a lot less noble reasons. The power is within you, not in some support group or sob fest.

 

[Frimost]

Yes rape...and not just rape, but even the brutalization of consenting women like prostitutes and others...

You know that thread I made the other day about the Saudis abducting women here for sex slaves? I mentioned that was just part of one article in a three article series of abuses against women forced into the sex trade, abused, raped, and sometimes killed.

Hell, not only have I never raped anyone but I haven't even had sex with one yet. But still, just reading all that pain and suffering inflicted upon women (and sometimes boys too) by so many men made me feel bad just to be member of the male gender.

Too be fair I do sometimes hear about women raping boys and girls and occasionally men. But still, so many seem to be occuring by men that it makes me wonder sometimes what's wrong with my fellow mankind?

 

[Wolf_Song]

Many women that perceive they are in danger think too much of themselves. A lot of them don't even have guys that will look in their direction because of the hideousness. Supercharged lights everywhere will alleviate most of the cases. That or carry a big knife and know how to use it, plenty of changes to impale someone while you are being penetrated with reckless abandon.

People are glorified animals, if not an unrelenting bacteria. Expect the worst and you won't be disappointed. We aren't demiGODs, we are demagogues.

I know that everyone here has blocked me(regret consumes me) but the Erotic Stories branches of this very site has 1430 stories in the category of NonConsent Sex. I think that is a little worse than me saying in an abrasive manner, live your life without worrying about some fucking loser rapist. Kids are a different story I agree, but adults have a partial responsibility to learn how to defend themselves. If some dude tried to rape me up the ass, I'd fucking rip his eyeballs out and/or sever his cock. To me fighting back is worth the risk, people have died for a lot less noble reasons. The power is within you, not in some support group or sob fest.

Every thing you have said can be refuted by the actions of one brave lady 70/30. None of your ideas would have worked in her scenario, thusly showing more of your lack of knowledge, objectivity and sensitivity to this threads basis. You have an opportunity here to learn.. hopefully you will see and make the best of it.

"People are glorified animals, if not an unrelenting bacteria. Expect the worst and you won't be disappointed. We aren't demiGODs, we are demagogues."

Wrong 70/30, people have more choices than animals. Including to improve as indivduals and as a whole even in the face of harsh adversity, which is shown in following;

Link to story of one brave lady

Hearts blessings and for all the brave ladies ( hugs )