quick question

[newlydevirgined]

i'm very new at sex and have been with my partner for a year, who is very knowledgeable and experienced. I'm looking for any suggestions to possibly learn something new to teach him. I live the literature for myself but i'd like to shock him. Any suggestions????

 

[VelvetDarkness]

But why??

Prostate massage is always shocking if a guy's not expecting it. Lube up a finger and push it into his ass just before he cums, pulling it out while he climaxes.

Are you sure that shocking him's a good idea though? He knows your inexperienced and is probably looking foward to exploring your new sex life with you. I'm sure he doesn't need you to get all vixen on him to keep his interest. He obviously likes you as you are.

Just a thought

Velvet

 

[JRaven]

My guess would be that his thoughts are thus:

Where did she learn that?!?
Who did she learn it from?
Who else is she seeing?!?!

Just my two cents. I'm not saying not to. Just be sure to let him know you learned it Literotica. For that matter, post your pic here. Then surprise him by showing your profile to him. Or maybe enlist his photography skills to help you out. If you've never done anything like this before, it'll surprise him without him wondering who else you were with.

Jenny

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Good point, well made. I should keep my deviant thoughts to myself.

Not that I will

 

[Chicklet]

i'm very new at sex and have been with my partner for a year, who is very knowledgeable and experienced. I'm looking for any suggestions to possibly learn something new to teach him. I live the literature for myself but i'd like to shock him. Any suggestions????

I'm far from a virgin and have been trying extremely hard to think of something to do with my current partner that he's never thought of, never experienced, etc, etc, and I'm still having trouble doing that.

I finally decided it wasn't extremely important to shock him and flatter him with my talents, and I just do what feels good when it feels good. I get no complaints.

An example of ideas I have had, however, were things like skinny dipping (my partner's never had sex in water!) - maybe instead of worrying about improving technique and talent through reading, you could just suggest some more "kinky" activities - like doin' it in a lake or swimming pool. Or just take him out, get him naked in the water, and do your thing. Little perks like that can add to your experience

Even small things like being the one to initiate sex early in the morning. Waking him up with a blowjob. Showering with him and soaping him up then going down on him there. Etc, etc.

Good luck.

 

[SubNebGuy]

rent a porno, and do whatever they do in the porno. then you're not making him wonder if you're getting ideas from another lover.

 

[witch_baby]

I think we need a better idea of what you guys HAVE been doing...Umm no I'm not pervy at all...

Obviously he knows about your history (or lack of) and that's no issue, so I agree you don't need to go nympho on him. Don't try too hard. Relax.

That said, start slow... Sexy underwear, a hot email/phone call to let him know you're thinking of him, initiating sex, waking him up with a blowjob...etc...etc..

 

[LadyJeanne]

Try standing behind him in front of a full-length mirror, wrap your arms around him, and stroke his package with both hands as you both watch in the mirror.

Actually, doing anything in front of the mirror together can be really cool.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Try standing behind him in front of a full-length mirror, wrap your arms around him, and stroke his package with both hands as you both watch in the mirror.

Actually, doing anything in front of the mirror together can be really cool.

Great suggestion. We have this horrific wall of mirror tile that we intended to remove in our dining room. Well one day things get frisky and next thing you know she's bent over the table in from of the mirrors. It was awesome. The best part is her looking at me afterward and saying, "I had no idea I looked that hot when I came." Priceless!

Give it a try!

 

[silverwhisper]

kahuna, i'm deeply envious of you for that room.

bastard!

:>

ed

 

[LadyJeanne]

Great suggestion. We have this horrific wall of mirror tile that we intended to remove in our dining room. Well one day things get frisky and next thing you know she's bent over the table in from of the mirrors. It was awesome. The best part is her looking at me afterward and saying, "I had no idea I looked that hot when I came." Priceless!

Give it a try!

That's almost exactly what I said in front of the mirror..."Wow, I'm really hot."

Passion is a wonderful thing. Express your passion for your lover, and s/he'll enjoy whatever you do together.

 

[Lust Engine]

Try standing behind him in front of a full-length mirror, wrap your arms around him, and stroke his package with both hands as you both watch in the mirror.

Actually, doing anything in front of the mirror together can be really cool.

Gets me everytime!

What about video???

 

[nctoddmc]

since he's the experienced one, ask him what he likes. Then ask him what he wants. They might not be the same thing.