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Darkenz

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I have a few questions for those of you who do this In no particular order,
does your significant other know?
Where do you find your chat partners?
what do you get out of this?
what makes you good at it?
what do you chat about, details?
 
I don't make the first move. People ask me questions about my wife or our sex life. She joins in chats when someone has questions for her. We enjoy sharing as long as it is anonymous.
 
I chat with numerous men and have for years.

My spouse know- it's a factor, after the fact, of our permanent separation. I tried to include him. He didn't care to chat with others. He wouldn't chat with me. Only had phone sex once and I used to travel 15+ weeks per year.

My chat partners usually approach me to chat. Some come from here. Usually when I reply on a comment board - just like this.

Periodically, I get companionship or a friend. Sometimes I get off chatting. And sometimes I meet men from here for either a quick BJ or more. The first guy I met from here who lived close enough to meet I still text or talk to 3.5 years later. And he is not the only one.
Some I have cyber sex, some phone sex, and some video sex. (Right slave?)

What makes me good is that I have a good ability to write creatively. Keep the chat moving forward. Be enticing. Sometimes we add pictures.

Here is an excerpt from a recent one so you know what we talk about.

How I wish you weren't an ocean away.
Maybe the lust is stronger because the likelihood of consumating our passion is so far fetched. Stepping off the plane, i see you holding a sign with my name.
Running to you, embracing, kissing, listening to the applause around us.

Someone following me off the plane yells, "get a room." You smile over my shoulder and respond to the man, "we plan to."

It's so hard not to kiss and touch you.
I noticed my desire isn't the only thing hard at the moment.

Thank heavens I only have a carryon bag. The faster we get out of here, the faster we finally share what we have desired for so long.
 
Private messages can be a real double edged sword.

Years ago a story I wrote generated a comment from a lady, then some follow up private messages that turned into the most intimate, loving relationship I have ever had. It lasted two years, guilt led to a stay in us talking for a few months, then a resurgence. That relationship ended, but it was a real mistake on my part. I should have actively pursued the gem that she was, even if she was miles and miles away.

We never had physical sex, but we shared so much; not just idyllic sexual pleasures via the written word, but presents sent to one another, and just secrets and intimacy in so many other ways. Like anything that did not happen, I am so regretful, but know my letting the relationship lapse hurt her to her core, and I am so, so, so sorry for that. I am sure it is unrepairable at this point, and fully understand her disgust for me. It was all my fault, and I own that. We had THE PERFECT relationship.

My only hope is, someone has met her, married her, and appreciates all that she is. She deserves that...
 
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gtnlynn said:
I don't make the first move. People ask me questions about my wife or our sex life. She joins in chats when someone has questions for her. We enjoy sharing as long as it is anonymous.
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So your wife and you work as a team, does she find chat partners to bring to you?
 
Bigboobbabe said:
I chat with numerous men and have for years.

My spouse know- it's a factor, after the fact, of our permanent separation. I tried to include him. He didn't care to chat with others. He wouldn't chat with me. Only had phone sex once and I used to travel 15+ weeks per year.

My chat partners usually approach me to chat. Some come from here. Usually when I reply on a comment board - just like this.

Periodically, I get companionship or a friend. Sometimes I get off chatting. And sometimes I meet men from here for either a quick BJ or more. The first guy I met from here who lived close enough to meet I still text or talk to 3.5 years later. And he is not the only one.
Some I have cyber sex, some phone sex, and some video sex. (Right slave?)

What makes me good is that I have a good ability to write creatively. Keep the chat moving forward. Be enticing. Sometimes we add pictures.

Here is an excerpt from a recent one so you know what we talk about.

How I wish you weren't an ocean away.
Maybe the lust is stronger because the likelihood of consumating our passion is so far fetched. Stepping off the plane, i see you holding a sign with my name.
Running to you, embracing, kissing, listening to the applause around us.

Someone following me off the plane yells, "get a room." You smile over my shoulder and respond to the man, "we plan to."

It's so hard not to kiss and touch you.
I noticed my desire isn't the only thing hard at the moment.

Thank heavens I only have a carryon bag. The faster we get out of here, the faster we finally share what we have desired for so long.
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What is it you find in the partners you keep for years that keep you coming back to them?
 
Darkenz said:
What is it you find in the partners you keep for years that keep you coming back to them?
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Our relationships are deeper than just the sexting.
One of my on line partners reaches out 5 out of 7 days to say good morning. He wakes up at 4AM and is at work before my alarm.
We know each other's family by name, and each other's body and mind intimately. True friendship, friendly love, compersion.

One of the other's is more private about his personal life, but not about his desires. He lives 2 hours away. We have committed to not crossing the physical line, but chat as if it's imminent.
He has done more with me online than his wife IRL. We mesh.
 
Darkenz said:
I have a few questions for those of you who do this In no particular order,
does your significant other know?
Where do you find your chat partners?
what do you get out of this?
what makes you good at it?
what do you chat about, details?
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Darkenz said:
I have a few questions for those of you who do this In no particular order,
does your significant other know?
Where do you find your chat partners?
what do you get out of this?
what makes you good at it?
what do you chat about, details?
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I find chat partners randomly. Sometimes on web forums, sometimes in naughty chat rooms.

My wife knows to some degree. I don't really share the chat room discussions with her because once those discussions end, I never see the other person online again. Out of sight, out of mind.

I get aroused and eventually get off. Not really any different than reading erotica, only in chats/DMs I get to be an active participant.

Well, when I conversed regularly, I was good because I am a writer at heart and so chat/DM roleplaying kept those skills sharpened plus I had a passion for it.

Chat discussions ranges from the mundane, every day stuff to the deepest, darkest fantasies.
 
Does your significant other know?
> No. She is unaware of my activities.

Where do you find your chat partners?
> They usually find me. I never initiate chat and I never send pictures or videos unless asked. Once asked, I will send them just because.

What do you get out of this?
> Friendship, chat, sexy photos or videos. I have found quite a few good friends who I originally started swapping pictures with that turned into platonic friendships.

What makes you good at it?
> I am never rude, I never expect anything out of it, and I appreciate everything that is sent my way.

What do you chat about, details?
> Nunya. I don't kiss and tell.
 
Darkenz said:
I have a few questions for those of you who do this In no particular order,
does your significant other know?
Where do you find your chat partners?
what do you get out of this?
what makes you good at it?
what do you chat about, details?
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None of my girlfriends ever knew. I have had a naughty partner for 7 years. We were having a lot of fun messaging eachother amd masturbating making sexy scenarios or exchanging naughty pics. I don't know if I'm good or not but thw feeling i was getting was perfect. We've had some great orgasms too.
 
Darkenz said:
I have a few questions for those of you who do this In no particular order,
does your significant other know?
Where do you find your chat partners?
what do you get out of this?
what makes you good at it?
what do you chat about, details?
Click to expand...
My SO knows I'm on Lit, she knows my password, she can access and see what I'm up to if she chooses. She hasn't for years, she's just not interested.

I find my chat partners on Lit, It's the only "adult" site I frequent. Mostly I'll send a personal message expressing an interest in a post they've made on the forum, some respond, others don't, probably about 50/50. Occasionally I'll get a PM from someone in response to one of my forum posts and I'll respond to that.

I guess it is the exhibitionist in me that gets the gratification of exposing myself, not in a "Flashing" sense but in exposing all my secrets. Also stimulated by the voyeurism element as well. And I love learning about others experiences, I'm nosey.

Not sure I am good at it, I tend to exchange several emails and things peter out, but I enjoy it while its happening.

I enjoy exchanging views on assorted sexual experiences, how and why they happened, what was good and why, what was bad and why. My chat focuses on personal experiences. I find it erotic and stimulating to hear others experiences and why they decided to try living out fantasies or explore their limits, I enjoy recounting my own experiences, I like telling other people what a dirty little pervert I was, am. I am not interested in trying to make love to someone, tell them what I'd do to them if we ever met, or what I'd like them to do to me, all the while wanking away in the background. I can't be bothered with all that malarchy.
 
My wife has very little interest in sex. She does not want to know about what I do to keep myself satisfied.
I chat in the Lit chat rooms. Mostly 'Women Who Love Porn'.
I get some excitement chatting with a female who has an interest in sex.
If I am good at chat it's because I can express myself in words and think about sex constantly.
I chat about whatever the woman would like to chat about. I try to steer the chat toward explicit descriptions of sex.
 
Bigboobbabe said:
I chat with numerous men and have for years.

My spouse know- it's a factor, after the fact, of our permanent separation. I tried to include him. He didn't care to chat with others. He wouldn't chat with me. Only had phone sex once and I used to travel 15+ weeks per year.

My chat partners usually approach me to chat. Some come from here. Usually when I reply on a comment board - just like this.

Periodically, I get companionship or a friend. Sometimes I get off chatting. And sometimes I meet men from here for either a quick BJ or more. The first guy I met from here who lived close enough to meet I still text or talk to 3.5 years later. And he is not the only one.
Some I have cyber sex, some phone sex, and some video sex. (Right slave?)

What makes me good is that I have a good ability to write creatively. Keep the chat moving forward. Be enticing. Sometimes we add pictures.

Here is an excerpt from a recent one so you know what we talk about.

How I wish you weren't an ocean away.
Maybe the lust is stronger because the likelihood of consumating our passion is so far fetched. Stepping off the plane, i see you holding a sign with my name.
Running to you, embracing, kissing, listening to the applause around us.

Someone following me off the plane yells, "get a room." You smile over my shoulder and respond to the man, "we plan to."

It's so hard not to kiss and touch you.
I noticed my desire isn't the only thing hard at the moment.

Thank heavens I only have a carryon bag. The faster we get out of here, the faster we finally share what we have desired for so long.
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Friendships are life-enhancing.
It doesn't matter how we happen to meet.
It could be in a Club, or at the bus-stop, or in the Supermarket Check-out queue, it could be through an online dating site... or it could be within the Literotica Forum, what matters is that we click...
 
My wife doesn't know that I come/cum here. She would not approve..I meet most of my chat "partners" through either the Erotic Chat or Bulletin Boards on Lit.

I'm from the US and met a UK couple in one of the chats before COVID. Somehow, the chat sparked an interest in doing some role playing, but instead of doing it in a room, I suggested that we correspond by email.

I get a good deal of sexual stimulation from chatting. And I can explore sexual areas that are more taboo in my real life experience.

I'm not bad at it because I have vivid sexual thoughts and when chatting I throw in a lot of double entendre and pay attention to detail/spelling, etc. However, I'm a horrible typist, so response is slower than I'd like.

The guy was into Hotwife/Swinging, so we made a scenario where I was her cousin and went to the UK for a visit. The focus was her, and we both had sex with her and also others whom we met while they were showingme around the EU. Each would answer the emails of the others with their take on the sexual situations we were describing. It was a bit challenging to keep up continuity, because it was quite extended, but it was very erotic.
 
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I am not trying to play the "woe is me" card but over the past few years my wife's health has devolved to the point where we very rarely can have sex. (She is on SS disability) It's mostly due to the meds she is on and not because she doesn't want to because when the stars align we do have sex even though we can no longer have intercourse.

That said I enjoy chatting with both bi guys and especially women my age about sex. I'm not going to meet any of them in person so it's their mind that will excite or titilate me. People can be sexually exciting regardless of age or body size. Those are the people with whom I want to strike up an online correspondence.
 
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