Questions for ladies: stories of your sexual past

[ShamBaLa]

I crave hearing about former lovers. In the long term relationships I've had, I view myself as the beneficiary of all the experience with former lovers. Once, after a particularly excellent blow job, I asked, not expecting an answer; "Geezz, where did you learn to do that?" It was a compliment. She proceeded to tell me, in fabulous detail, about a lover about 20 years older, for whom she was a willing student. Very hot. I guess I've asked all lovers over the years about their sex lives. I've been fortunate that many, with little coaxing, opened up. The few that were guarded, I just made up a back story in my head. Not as good as the real thing no doubt.

 

[mrsgee]

My husband knows about some of my sexual past, but he doesn't know everything, and would be upset and hurt if he did.

I don't mind talking about it with an online friend. It can be arousing.

 

[vibes]

and would be upset and hurt if he did

I am curious, sorry: why would that be if it's before your relationship? would this past reveal you are a different person than the one he thinks he knows?

 

[EmmAgain]

My husband knows that I was promiscuous and did cam work before meeting him. He’s has also made it clear - nicely - that he doesn’t want to know the details. I’ve disclosed more on this forum than I’ve ever disclosed to him.

The moment he asks me to stop sharing, then it all stops - including the half-assed memoir I’m trying to compose between work and everything else.

 

[vibes]

including the half-assed memoir

Then switch to full-assed already, before he asks you to drop it

 

[JordynRose]

I will share only experiences I had that pleases my lovers to hear. There are secrets that will never be shared with them. They do not need to know all my torrid perverted activities I have been involved in.

 

[kneelingagain]

there are things that i share in chat that people around me will need know, but if they wanted to know then i would tell them.

 

[Kolejdayz]

My husband knows about some of my sexual past, but he doesn't know everything, and would be upset and hurt if he did.

I don't mind talking about it with an online friend. It can be arousing.

What do you NOT tell your husband? I am intrigued because the sexual histories of my wives and girlfriends have always been a turn on and because my wife tells me there are things she will never tell me and I wonder so what they are.

 

[bunny4med]

Don't have much. My wife knows about my hubby since we were in a polyamorous relationship until he died
and she was my first woman experience.