This isn’t just jerking off anymore… who else gets lost in it?

On occasion I have read or watched something so hot that I start to shake while I’m jerking off. I loose control and when I cum it’s so intense, so powerful that I nearly pass out!
 
I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself ;)

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.
The first part of this is on the noise, but I think I’m fortunate that I’m just starting my solo journey looking into way to sexually satisfy myself solo.

I love masterbating but some times it is just too quick and over way to fast. I’ve promised myself that I will find times and ways to make it last, edge, build up etc and then explore as I love it when I do build up and then go over the edge.

I’m looking into solo toy options and have started to explore myself anally too and I’m exited about this. I feel a new world ahead of me.
 
Wow there is a club for men that are into self pleasure. Very similar to @Mr. Briggs original post I have the time to truly enjoy my self pleasure. I'll find a story or an author and read the submissions. Recently this author hit a button that caused several self pleasure sessions.
https://www.literotica.com/s/like-minded-neighbors-ch-01

Other times I am fantasizing about the Instagram gals or Tiktok ladies that are pure thirst traps. I'm such a sucker for a lady flashing panties on Insta.
 
I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself ;)

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.
I am in the exact same position. Being kinky but staying faithful. Chatting and camming get me through.
 
Wow there is a club for men that are into self pleasure. Very similar to @Mr. Briggs original post I have the time to truly enjoy my self pleasure. I'll find a story or an author and read the submissions. Recently this author hit a button that caused several self pleasure sessions.
https://www.literotica.com/s/like-minded-neighbors-ch-01

Other times I am fantasizing about the Instagram gals or Tiktok ladies that are pure thirst traps. I'm such a sucker for a lady flashing panties on Insta.
Dropped many loads to this story.
 
I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself ;)

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.
I am in a similar situation with my wife she is no longer interested in sex. My thing is now meeting people on line swapping fantasy’s and in doing so connecting. I also like to exchange intimate pictures. I am also into wearing panties.
 
The stuff that gets me going most is...all the stuff that isn't "me." At least, not the IRL me. I'm a big man, broad shouldered, strong, masculine. People throughout my life have expected me to fit a certain mold: Decisive, commanding, forceful.

So my fantasies, the ones that keep me awake at all hours, are ones where I lay all of that down. I'm submissive, surrendered, vulnerable, and for all of that, I'm taken advantage of, even abused. I revel in having it all stripped from me, being used by stronger, better men and commanding women. The particulars of what they do to me is hot, but nowhere near as much as the powerlessness (and lack of will) I have to resist them.

Impossible dreams, to be sure, given the realities of my marriage to a woman who has no real interest in her own sexual fulfillment, and even less in mine. Nonetheless, the fantasies persist.
No one would blame you for living some out your fantasies then.
 
No one would blame you for living some out your fantasies then.
Im sure you could find someone on this site to role play on DM about tying you face down to the bed and spanking your big, manly hairy ass and make you whimper like a little pussy. You try to hide your stiffening cock as he slides a finger up your back door entrance…oh, wait…sorry
 
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