This isn’t just jerking off anymore… who else gets lost in it?

[Mr. Briggs]

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

 

[mrdiscreetshh]

Right there with you! I need a friend that'll share his cock whenever I desire it. Everything you listed gets old when you don't have someone to share the energy with. Im hoping the right person will come my way

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Right there with you! I need a friend that'll share his cock whenever I desire it. Everything you listed gets old when you don't have someone to share the energy with. Im hoping the right person will come my way

You are 100% right

 

[stargame]

You are 100% right

There are several things that get me going. I absolutely love going shopping for myself. I find that extremely arousing.
New panties and lingerie are so fun. Nonetheless I do need to keep renewing and reinventing what keeps me going. The female form still intrigues me very much, as does the masculine.

 

[LustyScribe]

The stuff that gets me going most is...all the stuff that isn't "me." At least, not the IRL me. I'm a big man, broad shouldered, strong, masculine. People throughout my life have expected me to fit a certain mold: Decisive, commanding, forceful.

So my fantasies, the ones that keep me awake at all hours, are ones where I lay all of that down. I'm submissive, surrendered, vulnerable, and for all of that, I'm taken advantage of, even abused. I revel in having it all stripped from me, being used by stronger, better men and commanding women. The particulars of what they do to me is hot, but nowhere near as much as the powerlessness (and lack of will) I have to resist them.

Impossible dreams, to be sure, given the realities of my marriage to a woman who has no real interest in her own sexual fulfillment, and even less in mine. Nonetheless, the fantasies persist.

 

[Erosfan]

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

You have described a life that I have lived. This is my first marriage. I have been fortunate enough to have moved on and discovered better things. What was left, is the ability, and maybe habit to fulfill my desires myself. Even in much better relationships, I am always reminded of times when it was me that was responsible for my sexual happiness and fulfillment.

 

[Idyll]

The lack of sex and or denial becomes a turn-on in itself. Scrolling through some clips of regular couples playing with chastity, "Slut wife puts hubby in cage" sorts of titles. That's never happened in my life, but it feeds into the sex desert fantasy.

Humiliation plays a part in a long edging session. Here's a kinky note: Pinterest is hot! Like, all these everyday women, modeling their outfits. Some are conventionally sexy, but there are so many who are just "neighbor lady" plain janes showing off their skirts or blouses. Good lord...that can distract me from a whole day's work.

They KNOW I'm hopelessly frustrated...some like to tease me in kind of a sexy mean way. Others feel sorry for me, but know I want the agony prolonged. Some are masturbatrixes who tie me up for an hour or so. Others, model their outfits to see my response.

Growing up when I did, no guys admitted to masturbating. And "being caught" was the ultimate humiliation. I think that heightens the arousal of this kind of kink. All those Pinterest women know what I get up to.

 

[perturbedmusic]

You have described a life that I have lived. This is my first marriage. I have been fortunate enough to have moved on and discovered better things. What was left, is the ability, and maybe habit to fulfill my desires myself. Even in much better relationships, I am always reminded of times when it was me that was responsible for my sexual happiness and fulfillment.

This really hits home for me, as this was my first marriage as well. My sexual frustration and boredom led to a practically non existent sex life. I have much healthier sex life with my wife now, but can still get frustrated with her closed-mindedness. So I often have to give myself gratification through self pleasure and fantasy.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

The eternal hope that there are some ladies on Lit that enjoy voyeurism and would like to get off while watching me get off watching or hearing them.

 

[Imperfect_Guy]

This really hits home for me, as this was my first marriage as well. My sexual frustration and boredom led to a practically non existent sex life. I have much healthier sex life with my wife now, but can still get frustrated with her closed-mindedness. So I often have to give myself gratification through self pleasure and fantasy.

It's nice that you have the freedom to do that.

 

[Erosfan]

This really hits home for me, as this was my first marriage as well. My sexual frustration and boredom led to a practically non existent sex life. I have much healthier sex life with my wife now, but can still get frustrated with her closed-mindedness. So I often have to give myself gratification through self pleasure and fantasy.

I hear you. I am fortunate to have found some one that is open to trying new things. So far, we are doing pretty well. I still find the occasional need to take care of myself, and for the most part, I enjoy doing that.

 

[BDA73]

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

Right there with you...lately my outlet is posting pics of my cock..and chatting with willing beautiful ladies on here