Questions for ladies: stories of your sexual past

I've never been embarrassed about my sexuality and sexual history. It's actually why I ended up avoiding relationships for a bit when I was younger because men would end up feeling insecure or intimidated by how honest I was about my experience in history. My husband was the first man that I dated who not only didn't try to shame me for my sexual history, but genuinely seemed intrigued by it. I absolutely enjoyed sharing details and stories. Admittedly, there were times when I would embellish for the sake of the moment, but I never lied or made anything up.
Me too!
 
I love it when my wife and I are lying in bed and she's wanking me and I'm fingering her and I get her to tell me about her past sexual encounters. She is 12 years older than me. She was very sexually experienced when we met. She was married before. She worked in a pub for years and I know she got fucked by punters a few times. She doesn't hold anything back. She tells me my cock is a maggot compared to some she's had
 
I think, as long as one wants to hear them, that one should tell the other about their sexual past... it's a great way to learn about what your partner/lover wants and likes! :0)

"...and THAT'S how I figured out that I love to be spanked during sex!"
 
I think, as long as one wants to hear them, that one should tell the other about their sexual past... it's a great way to learn about what your partner/lover wants and likes! :0)

"...and THAT'S how I figured out that I love to be spanked during sex!"
Yes I love to share stories, Women like hearing them too it seems
 
At first I was very reluctant to talk about my past ( not too experienced but some different happenings) but seeing his reaction and his suddenly wanting to masturbate opening with me turned me on greatly. At first it was with my first experience with willingly giving myself to the guy I thought was the light of my life. Then reliving other situations such a a couple seducing me : the babysitting things !
If only more wives knew how many of their husbands would love to hear about thier wives sexual past.
 
I really love to hear my wife’s stories about her sexual experiences with other men. And I’m by far not alone with this kink. So I have some questions for you, dear ladies. Do you yourselves enjoy telling such stories to your partner? Or do you do this just to please him? Are your stories always true? And if you don’t like to tell such stories, why? Are you ashamed of your sexual past? Or you’re afraid your stories could hurt your partner and your relationships with him? Or some other reasons perhaps? Thanks in advance, I’m sure your answers would be really important for a lot of guys here.
To answer your question, I wouldn’t say I ‘enjoy’ telling him. It feels awkward telling him, but he does seem to enjoy hearing about it to some degree. I guess in the past I felt a little ashamed of my past, that it was private, and like you said that I assumed it would hurt a relationship or they would try to compare themselves to others. The first I really encountered a partner asking about my past was in a more casual fwb type of relationship, and I felt more open to sharing since it was less fear of hurting our relationship. Since my bf learning of my writing and a glimpse of some of past, he has been more open to my past than I expected. And from what I’ve learned on Lit I’ve been quite surprised how many men enjoy hearing of their partners past. I would think males are competitive in that area, but the opposite seems true 😂.
 
I have liked hearing about my lovers' past lovers. Sometimes it is just because I am an inquisitive sort of fellow. Sometimes because it turns me on -- personal porn if you like.

I am intrigued when a woman goes out of her way to tell me about her sexual past without any prompting or even knowing how I will take it -- is she just experimenting or does she secretly want to shock or hurt me?
 
IRL, I think there are just as many males who will be jealous if they hear too much about their female partner's past relationships... especially if you tell him "the sex was great!"
I've been seeing a younger guy (compared to me... he's 35). It's a casual sex situation (& the sex has been great!). But he asked me if I've been fucking other guys. Well, I didn't think there's any reason to not tell him the truth. Then he asked, how many?
Since then, he seems to be ghosting me. Maybe it's just coincidence, but I can't help but wonder. Even though I told him, those other guys, most of them were only 1x, none more than 2x, some were before I even met him, & none hold a candle to him sexually.
 
IRL, I think there are just as many males who will be jealous if they hear too much about their female partner's past relationships... especially if you tell him "the sex was great!"
I've been seeing a younger guy (compared to me... he's 35). It's a casual sex situation (& the sex has been great!). But he asked me if I've been fucking other guys. Well, I didn't think there's any reason to not tell him the truth. Then he asked, how many?
Since then, he seems to be ghosting me. Maybe it's just coincidence, but I can't help but wonder. Even though I told him, those other guys, most of them were only 1x, none more than 2x, some were before I even met him, & none hold a candle to him sexually.
Interesting. Women hold a great power in regards to men and it can be threatening in strange ways. I’ve felt like it’s something to overcome, to become bigger knowing we’re all here just to explore life and all equal soul wise. It can be challenging but it’s strangely intoxicating. I would say I do have bouts of pussy envy!! Yum. 😭
 
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