Questions for ladies: stories of your sexual past

[dr2brd]

I really love to hear my wife’s stories about her sexual experiences with other men. And I’m by far not alone with this kink. So I have some questions for you, dear ladies. Do you yourselves enjoy telling such stories to your partner? Or do you do this just to please him? Are your stories always true? And if you don’t like to tell such stories, why? Are you ashamed of your sexual past? Or you’re afraid your stories could hurt your partner and your relationships with him? Or some other reasons perhaps? Thanks in advance, I’m sure your answers would be really important for a lot of guys here.

 

[jedclampet69]

I have read your post and must say I am male .. My ex girlfriend told me of a few of her past sexual exploits and much admit I still think of them. . If on a weekend she met a similar aged man who was polite and clean she would have sex with him that night . One that comes to mind more than occasionally was giving a local mechanic a bj to receive a big discount on car parts and repairs. She is one hot bit of gear for sure.

 

[Noor]

No, I’m not all that interested in telling them. I’m not ashamed . My stories are true. It doesn’t seem right to me to talk about other, even past, lovers while I’m with someone so I try not to.

 

[dr2brd]

No, I’m not all that interested in telling them. I’m not ashamed . My stories are true. It doesn’t seem right to me to talk about other, even past, lovers while I’m with someone so I try not to.

Thanks. Couldn't say I understand your position completely but I do respect it anyway

 

[Lovealippy]

I'm with Noor - my past experiences are my past experiences.

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

I am not ashamed. I like talking about it all. Turns me on knowing someone else is turned on by it

 

[dr2brd]

I am not ashamed. I like talking about it all. Turns me on knowing someone else is turned on by it

Thanks!

 

[gtnlynn]

I enjoy telling my husband about my sexual past, although I was hesitant to do it at first. All of it happened when I was committed to him, so I suppose all of it was cheating when I was in college. Once I found out that it turned him on to hear the stories, I began to tell him more and more. The stories are true. Do I tell him about all of my sexual adventures? Excellent question.

 

[dr2brd]

I enjoy telling my husband about my sexual past, although I was hesitant to do it at first. All of it happened when I was committed to him, so I suppose all of it was cheating when I was in college. Once I found out that it turned him on to hear the stories, I began to tell him more and more. The stories are true. Do I tell him about all of my sexual adventures? Excellent question.

Just one more evidence your husband is a lucky man! Thanks

 

[gtnlynn]

Just one more evidence your husband is a lucky man! Thanks

You are welcome.

 

[Noor]

I think it also might matter if your former lovers are still friends.

 

[dr2brd]

I think it also might matter if your former lovers are still friends.

Well, yes, in this case I could understand you much better

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I don't have a partner to tell. I tell men I cyber fuck or fuck as friends with benefits.

They get so horny hearing about me being fucked by a guy 30 yrs younger than me. He is also younger than my daughter.

 

[Recooter]

In my experience, it has always been better not to dig up the past. Be happy where you are.

 

[GoodnessO]

I really love to hear my wife’s stories about her sexual experiences with other men. And I’m by far not alone with this kink. So I have some questions for you, dear ladies. Do you yourselves enjoy telling such stories to your partner? Or do you do this just to please him? Are your stories always true? And if you don’t like to tell such stories, why? Are you ashamed of your sexual past? Or you’re afraid your stories could hurt your partner and your relationships with him? Or some other reasons perhaps? Thanks in advance, I’m sure your answers would be really important for a lot of guys here.

I enjoy telling to anyone, LOL. Definitely mot ashamed. For the most part, my husband doesn't seem very interested, but he's a good listener.

 

[Justfantasies]

Very surprised your husband isn't interested. Do you think most women enjoy talking about their sexual histories?

 

[GoodnessO]

Very surprised your husband isn't interested. Do you think most women enjoy talking about their sexual histories?

I can only say, with my women friends, we do share back & forth. But I'm not sure if they like telling their lovers. I think they might like to, but a lot of guys (the ones not on Lit, LOL) get jealous or feel put down when hearing of their woman's sexual past. Men can have very sensitive egos & they like to think they're more sexually experienced than their female lovers... otherwise she's a whore... you know, the stereotyping. That's not my husband, though. He knows I have a high body count, & doesn't mind that at all... but it also isn't a particular turn on for him... other than that my experience has surely helped make me a better lover.

 

[GoodnessO]

I can only say, with my women friends, we do share back & forth. But I'm not sure if they like telling their lovers. I think they might like to, but a lot of guys (the ones not on Lit, LOL) get jealous or feel put down when hearing of their woman's sexual past. Men can have very sensitive egos & they like to think they're more sexually experienced than their female lovers... otherwise she's a whore... you know, the stereotyping. That's not my husband, though. He knows I have a high body count, & doesn't mind that at all... but it also isn't a particular turn on for him... other than that my experience has surely helped make me a better lover.

Dammit, responding to myself... just want to clarify, these women friends I refer to are only my besties & are sex positive (of course). And mostly we share stories about our past lovers & don't necessarily mention names, & its often about men we don't both know. But since I'm in a long-term marriage now, I do talk some with my closest friends about sex with my husband.

 

[Justfantasies]

I can only say, with my women friends, we do share back & forth. But I'm not sure if they like telling their lovers. I think they might like to, but a lot of guys (the ones not on Lit, LOL) get jealous or feel put down when hearing of their woman's sexual past. Men can have very sensitive egos & they like to think they're more sexually experienced than their female lovers... otherwise she's a whore... you know, the stereotyping. That's not my husband, though. He knows I have a high body count, & doesn't mind that at all... but it also isn't a particular turn on for him... other than that my experience has surely helped make me a better lover.

I suppose you are right about all this. I suspect that women are often more experienced than their husbands. They are more selective for sure, but after they lose their virginity they seem to go through a slutty period? Most guys find it harder to find sex partners

 

[GoodnessO]

I suppose you are right about all this. I suspect that women are often more experienced than their husbands. They are more selective for sure, but after they lose their virginity they seem to go through a slutty period? Most guys find it harder to find sex partners

?? Well, there are young women losing their virginity every day, & if they all (or most) then go through a slutty period, there should be plenty of sluts to go around. Maybe these guys can't recognize a slut unless she sits on their lap, lol. And those virgins that are sucking cock, are they not already sluts? Fact is, some % of women are just sluts by nature, right?

 

[Justfantasies]

Right they are for sure

 

[Seeking4wife04]

I enjoy telling my husband about my sexual past, although I was hesitant to do it at first. All of it happened when I was committed to him, so I suppose all of it was cheating when I was in college. Once I found out that it turned him on to hear the stories, I began to tell him more and more. The stories are true. Do I tell him about all of my sexual adventures? Excellent question.

Yes, please tell him all the details. It’ll blow his mind like it does for me.

 

[YourSecretSanta]

I’m not a lady, but I have enjoyed hearing stories in the past. The context, like anything, matters. But it can be done well.

 

[strongnsensual]

a lot of guys (the ones not on Lit, LOL) get jealous or feel put down when hearing of their woman's sexual past. Men can have very sensitive egos & they like to think they're more sexually experienced than their female lovers... otherwise she's a whore... you know, the stereotyping. That's not my husband, though.

It's not me either. I love hearing my wife's stories. I have almost have 'bookmarked favorites.' She's an amazing woman, and I've seen conversation pause and all the heads turn when she walks into a room. Her past brought her to me!

 

[ShamBaLa]

I'm one who LOVES to hear for my wife's exploits. I don't care if she is making them up. Wife #1 was adventurous to say the least. Even though we were young, she had a inventory of her sexual exploit stories. Current wife I make up stories about her exploits because she is so guarded about them. The few I got out of her were wicked. Stuff of masturbation sessions. I think women are missing an opportunity to awaken a sex partner if they DON'T share their stories. Even funny stories when sex didn't go quite right are hot.