Questions for ladies: stories of your sexual past

[whatahoot]

I've never been shy about my past and never been one to hide it, but I also never made it a point to overshare. My husband always liked that I was sexual, but wasn't too keen on hearing details about some of the things I had done. More "broad strokes" so he knew what I would be up for and what I wouldn't. I do enjoy sharing details though. It's kind of like showing off for me.

 

[Justfantasies]

I've never been shy about my past and never been one to hide it, but I also never made it a point to overshare. My husband always liked that I was sexual, but wasn't too keen on hearing details about some of the things I had done. More "broad strokes" so he knew what I would be up for and what I wouldn't. I do enjoy sharing details though. It's kind of like showing off for me.

Have you been consistently adventurous or were there special periods of "sluttiness."

 

[whatahoot]

Have you been consistently adventurous or were there special periods of "sluttiness."

Pretty consistent. Settled down when I got together with my husband but my sluttiness all came back when we started swinging and continued even after we stopped

 

[ZOEOHZOE]

that was a question that came up when my I ran into an ex-lover with my current bf. he just wouldn't let it go Did he do this to you, was he better at this LOL Okay, he was and does lack self confidence and not everyone reacts that way, but all in all I like to keep my past my past.

 

[Justfantasies]

Pretty consistent. Settled down when I got together with my husband but my sluttiness all came back when we started swinging and continued even after we stopped

yes my first wife was like that. She was monogamous for a while but then it seemed she went back to her state of nature. She said she was special, I suppose you must be too.

 

[lil_jenni]

When I was first with my husband (before we were married), he knew the general arc of my sexual experience but not the full picture. We were then apart for about a year and a half after I cheated on him (this was also before we were married), and when we got back together, I told him everything. He didn't really want details, but I he got the full summary.

Occasionally, something will come up where I talk about a particular experience in more detail. I wouldn't say it turns him on, and I don't think he really needs or wants the details, but he knows I sometimes need to tell them.

 

[conquen]

I’ve heard some but desperately want more. There’s nothing she could tell me that would make me love her any less.

 

[dr2brd]

I’ve heard some but desperately want more. There’s nothing she could tell me that would make me love her any less.

Same for me

 

[conquen]

What is the most extreme she has told you?

 

[dr2brd]

What is the most extreme she has told you?

What do you mean by extreme? It could be way too different for different people and relationships

 

[Valendon]

No--definitely not ashamed, but I do try to be appropriate.

I don't like talking about past lovers out of some obligation to protect their privacy (unless, of course, we're having a nice orgy with past partners present!) I'm usually OK with sharing either broad hints or lurid details of what I've enjoyed--if it's likely to make things hotter in the present. It really depends on the circumstances. In a new relationship (not that I have many of those anymore) I'm pretty careful to stay in the present. I never lead with the 70s wife-swapping parties or the sib threesome.

 

[Carolina843]

I enjoy telling my husband about my sexual past, although I was hesitant to do it at first. All of it happened when I was committed to him, so I suppose all of it was cheating when I was in college. Once I found out that it turned him on to hear the stories, I began to tell him more and more. The stories are true. Do I tell him about all of my sexual adventures? Excellent question.

When I first got married I did the same thing. My husband, at the time, wanted to hear about of stuff, and so I told. But now, I’m divorced and almost every man I talk to whether it be on a dating app or on real dates, most are the same and want to hear my past.

 

[gtnlynn]

When I first got married I did the same thing. My husband, at the time, wanted to hear about of stuff, and so I told. But now, I’m divorced and almost every man I talk to whether it be on a dating app or on real dates, most are the same and want to hear my past.

Do you tell everything? I keep a few secrets.

 

[Carolina843]

Do you tell everything? I keep a few secrets.

I’ll answer questions if they ask but if they say things like tell me your secrets then no.

 

[gtnlynn]

I’ll answer questions if they ask but if they say things like tell me your secrets then no.

My husband knows most of my secrets, but not all.

 

[Sexysally1234]

I've got one involving my teacher

 

[Treeview]

I've got one involving my teacher

Ohhh…are you going to share the story

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

In our case, we have both told each other about our sexual past. I enjoy hearing about his former experiences with women, and in turn he enjoys hearing of mine with both sexes. It has come up while we were fucking and added to the intensity. I don't embellish my past experiences, but knowing he loves erotic details, I am very explicit about it. Once while giving him a blowjob, he asked if there was a particular guy in my past before him I loved sucking. It was easy to remember the first guy who I let cum in my mouth. We didn't have sex that many times, but after the first experience he always ended shooting his spunk down my throat.

My husband told me to suck his cock like I was sucking my past lover. He actually told him to pretend it was him. I ended with a large nearly choking load from my guy that night.

 

[Justfantasies]

When I was first with my husband (before we were married), he knew the general arc of my sexual experience but not the full picture. We were then apart for about a year and a half after I cheated on him (this was also before we were married), and when we got back together, I told him everything. He didn't really want details, but I he got the full summary.

Occasionally, something will come up where I talk about a particular experience in more detail. I wouldn't say it turns him on, and I don't think he really needs or wants the details, but he knows I sometimes need to tell them.

Why the need to tell him? It intrigues me

 

[Zosofan1000]

I suspect most women have little desire to hear about their men's sexual history so they feel weird about discussing their own.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I have a friend with a super-hot wife. I asked him about what stories he had told his wife. He told me his wife's stories blew his out of the water. I've always wondered what her stories were like. There is nothing sexier to me than a sexual woman. Almost all the women I have ever talked to refuse to divulge very much. I think they are concerned about their reputations. Too bad for me, I guess.

 

[MerWilh]

I really love to hear my wife’s stories about her sexual experiences with other men. And I’m by far not alone with this kink. So I have some questions for you, dear ladies. Do you yourselves enjoy telling such stories to your partner? Or do you do this just to please him? Are your stories always true? And if you don’t like to tell such stories, why? Are you ashamed of your sexual past? Or you’re afraid your stories could hurt your partner and your relationships with him? Or some other reasons perhaps? Thanks in advance, I’m sure your answers would be really important for a lot of guys here.

Very good question.

 

[SexyAruna]

I have to say, sharing my sexual past is something I kind of accidentally discovered as a great way to turn on men. I can definitely feel a dick pulse in my pussy and on time during sex I felt my then partner react to something I said in a way that pushed me over the edge. I don’t think he even realized but from that point forward I knew hearing about my lovers is a great go-to to spice up sex!

 

[Justfantasies]

I have a friend with a super-hot wife. I asked him about what stories he had told his wife. He told me his wife's stories blew his out of the water. I've always wondered what her stories were like. There is nothing sexier to me than a sexual woman. Almost all the women I have ever talked to refuse to divulge very much. I think they are concerned about their reputations. Too bad for me, I guess.

I’ve never had much problem getting women to tell all. Perhaps they do it because they can see it arouses me so much or maybe I am just good at hearing confessions. The “super hot” women are the best because they always seem to cheat a bit

 

[Vivian251]

I don't intentionally hide it, but I don't like to bring up my past.