Question

[yourbigdaddy]

I know there are a lot of guys (myself included) who love the bigger women (BBW). But why is it that I never hear of any ladies who enjoy the bigger men? I am a bigger guy, so please, ladies clue me on this please.

 

[fillmup]

I know there are a lot of guys (myself included) who love the bigger women (BBW). But why is it that I never hear of any ladies who enjoy the bigger men? I am a bigger guy, so please, ladies clue me on this please.

By big I interpret FAT!

 

[shynsexy]

i am considered (by my doc) to be above average in weight and height, but below obesity level. I find men who are pudgy in the tummy to be sexy.... my money has a "beer belly" . I am sure alot of women are "chubby chasers" but are scared to admit it. Just like men are....

 

[Allexus_TN]

Define Big

Do you mean slightly overweight? Obese? Very muscular? Big has many definitions, and I think more so for a man. Big can be interepreted so many ways. So what exactly do you mean when you say "big"?

 

[plasticman33]

Re: Re: Question

By big I interpret FAT!

Probably what he said.

Unfair and biased!

 

[Allexus_TN]

Re: Re: Re: Question

Unfair and biased!

Well, that is why I asked for the definition of "big." I want to be able to answer the question fairly.

 

[BamaNicki]

I love men that are a little over weight.... and by a little i mean 25 to 50lbs over their ideal weight. To me when a man is buffed he is to concerned about himself then about anybody else....

 

[Wiggles]

Here is my opinion, not to be confused with the general female populations opinion.

I don't understand the attraction to bigger men/women. That is not to say that I don't find some attractive. My feeling is, that a person can lose weight, gain weight, grow a mustache, whatever, they are still the same person inside. So, basing an attraction on just one aspect baffles me.

Secondly, it's not healthy. To say that I only prefer big people, or bony people, would be saying that I prefer the person unhealthy.
That seems to give the impression that it is a good thing, and it's not.

I'm not really comfortable stating this opinion, because it could make some people feel down on themselves, but it is my opinion. If you'd like to dissent, go ahead, but please don't flame me! My flame retardent suit hasn't been returned from the dry cleaners yet.

I'd also like to say, that I find fillmup's statement unneccesarily cruel, and irrelevent.

 

[Allexus_TN]

I'm not really comfortable stating this opinion, because it could make some people feel down on themselves, but it is my opinion.

There is nothing wrong with your opinion Wiggles. It makes sense to me. I think I straddle the fence on this one. One on hand...too much attention to the body is vain, and not enough isn't good either. To me it depends on what "big" is and the perosn himself.

 

[Ree]

YourBigDaddy... I don't tend to label the type of men I am attracted to. I have been with a wide variety of men and each one was attractive to me because of what they had to offer. I tend to be more attracted to men who stimulate my mind and my body. That is just my way of viewing men, can't speak for other women.

 

[yourbigdaddy]

Re: Define Big

Do you mean slightly overweight? Obese? Very muscular? Big has many definitions, and I think more so for a man. Big can be interepreted so many ways. So what exactly do you mean when you say "big"?

I mean overweight. Like a guy version of the BBWs. (is there an acronyme (sp?) for guys?)

 

[Aphrodisiac]

There is nothing wrong with a big man.
I see nothing wrong in that ...

Rock on big daddy.

 

[Allexus_TN]

Well, like I said earlier and in another thread..looks are not everything. At least not to me.
A guy could be gorgeous, but if he can't carry on coversation I'm wasting my time. It also a matter of him being comfortable with himself I think.