Hi! I am a bit bi-curious and living in China. I met this guy at a local gym and he is a china man. I have a feeling that he might be gay or at least bi. We often met by looking at each other but never talk to him (since my chinese is still poor). I want to know how do you know if someone is gay or bi, since a lot of cultural and ethical pressures for gay people in this country makes it very hard for chinese to come out. Any suggestion or advice? Thx.
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I really don't know enough about homosexuality in China to give any advice.
I'd urge other people to be cautious about it as well. I wouldn't want to tell someone in another culture that they ought to just go up and approach someone openly when, in some places, that sort of conduct might result in very serious legal repercussions.
I'd urge other people to be cautious about it as well. I wouldn't want to tell someone in another culture that they ought to just go up and approach someone openly when, in some places, that sort of conduct might result in very serious legal repercussions.
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I wouldn't do anything.
If you really are in China there are some very strict laws that you wouldn't like to learn about up close.
But since you said "China man" and are a newbie I'm thinking hoax. And unless your gym is in a western hotel, China isn't known for their gyms.
If you really are in China there are some very strict laws that you wouldn't like to learn about up close.
But since you said "China man" and are a newbie I'm thinking hoax. And unless your gym is in a western hotel, China isn't known for their gyms.
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I'm with politesuccubus on this one.
You can do what you want with your dick, but don't let him hear you calling him a 'China man'.
To be fair, I feel these things are best revealed in time. As has been said, if you were to ask him outright, he'd probably deny it even if he was. The more you have this silent bond, the closer you'll get to knowing.
Other than that, and I know it's kind of a western thing, but can't you just get talking to him and ask him if he fancies going for a beer???
Or ask him if he prefers Eminem or The Village People?
You can do what you want with your dick, but don't let him hear you calling him a 'China man'.
To be fair, I feel these things are best revealed in time. As has been said, if you were to ask him outright, he'd probably deny it even if he was. The more you have this silent bond, the closer you'll get to knowing.
Other than that, and I know it's kind of a western thing, but can't you just get talking to him and ask him if he fancies going for a beer???
Or ask him if he prefers Eminem or The Village People?
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