Question: When sex gets monotonous...

[enjoyingitall]

How do you shake things up when sex becomes routine? We have frequent sex and it's always satisfying, but it seems to be lacking in the spur of the moment, oh my god, DO that again kinda thing. .Just looking for some new ideas here...so, what is it that you do?

Suggestions?

 

[Dhalgren]

Take him to a titty bar and buy him a lap dance?

 

[CarolineOh]

Take him to a titty bar and buy him a lap dance?

Or take HER to a titty bar and buy her a lapdance. Woohoo!

 

[Ishmael]

How do you shake things up when sex becomes routine? We have frequent sex and it's always satisfying, but it seems to be lacking in the spur of the moment, oh my god, DO that again kinda thing. .Just looking for some new ideas here...so, what is it that you do?

Suggestions?

Get the Kama Sutra, work your way though it.

Call me when your dead.

Ishmael

 

[Rubyfruit]

I vote titty bar too. But, the woman should get the lap dance and try to get some tongue action in with the stripper. That'll turn him on for weeks to come.

 

[BustyTheClown]

I vote tittie bar too. But, the woman should get the lap dance and try to get some tongue action in with the stripper. That'll turn him on for weeks to come.

Lol that too. I don't know what it is with men and other women being kinky, but they love it.

Maybe try having sex spontaneously someplace you'd both fantasized about before but have never been able/had the guts to try.

 

[CarolineOh]

I vote titty bar too. But, the woman should get the lap dance and try to get some tongue action in with the stripper. That'll turn him on for weeks to come.

Oh Hell yes. I got my first lap dance Friday. I'm writing a story about it now. Whooooo.

 

[Nomad4112000]

Try getting this book I've had freinds say it's alot of fun.
101 Nights of Grrreat Sex: Secret Sealed Seductions for Fun-Loving Couples

 

[c.fey]

Try getting this book I've had freinds say it's alot of fun.
101 Nights of Grrreat Sex: Secret Sealed Seductions for Fun-Loving Couples

*dials on to amazon and orders the book*

Have your s/o join you here on Lit! Read some stories together.....then act them out.....
mmmmm

 

[LukkyKnight]

sex gets monotonous?

 

[MissTaken]

sex gets monotonous?

Balderdash!

 

[LukkyKnight]

Thanks, MissT, I was having trouble believing this, but there were so many who seemed to accept the premise it was causing me to wonder.

 

[MissTaken]

Thanks, MissT, I was having trouble believing this, but there were so many who seemed to accept the premise it was causing me to wonder.

*whispering in LK's ear*

psst! Those are the people who actually get it....

 

[Ice Cold]

Plenty of different things to do to spice it up, role playing... or trying something you haven't tried together... Heck you can pick up a lot of new idea just by browsing some of these threads, or reading the stories...

 

[xMorganx]

try to go a while without sex, and if it is possible without seeing each other. trust me it worked wonders for my relationship when we met up in DC

 

[Zamdrist]

Got out to a local park after midnight on a weekday...get nasty under the slide, or hoist her up on the jungle gym and give her a good licking...

But tell her you're going out...don't let on...be mysterious about it...

 

[MechaBlade]

How do you shake things up when sex becomes routine? We have frequent sex and it's always satisfying, but it seems to be lacking in the spur of the moment, oh my god, DO that again kinda thing. .Just looking for some new ideas here...so, what is it that you do?

Suggestions?

Put it in your butt.

 

[badasschick]

Go to a building, my favorite is a parking structure at certain theme park.
find out where the security cameras are and give the kiosk workers a good show. then disappear. Trust me they won't interrupt, they enjoy the break up in monotony.

Other places I enjoy at this theme park....the elevator with the most ridiculous character insignia, and the restroom with the attendant near the valet parking structure....stalls have doors that go all the way down, and if you tip the attendant they won't say anything.

So much fun without having to enter the park.