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Stormystarr
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sorry, I'm not a dom...
but I love to be on the receiving end of pain, although not too much. It's that little shiver it sends right through my body when I'm being spanked or whipped, mmmmmmm it just gets to me.
but I love to be on the receiving end of pain, although not too much. It's that little shiver it sends right through my body when I'm being spanked or whipped, mmmmmmm it just gets to me.
Stormystarr
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well well well, once again, I have stopped all people from posting,lmao...you should all know by now that if I post on your thread that it'll die fast.
AliceNJulie
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Doms are fun
Me (Julie) finds that if the guy is into it makes for some really exciting sex!!
You build up for an hour and then..... Wam!!! OUCH1 Yes! OH FUCK! and cum is ALL over the place!
Lots of guys will do it if their "buddies" don't find out about it!!! hehehe
Me (Julie) finds that if the guy is into it makes for some really exciting sex!!
You build up for an hour and then..... Wam!!! OUCH1 Yes! OH FUCK! and cum is ALL over the place!
Lots of guys will do it if their "buddies" don't find out about it!!! hehehe
Hecate
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Being the "resident Domme" of Lit *winks*
I was thinking about ansewring when I first read the thread when it was opened, but wasn't really sure if what I would have to say was of any help/interest. Nevertheless, since the topic still seems to be of interest I can't keep my big mouth shut (as usual) and will try an attempt.
I do - as stated on several occasions - enjoy the delightful mixture of pleasure and pain (usually giving but I support the theorie you have to be "on the receiving side" some times to know what it is like). I for one have found though that the "pattern" of D/s behaviour is very different when dealing with a male sub as when being with a female sub. The "triggers" are different - the reasons and thus the ways the submission manifests itself.
Sure, there are common means to put to use as are spanking, whipping and different forms and degrees of bondage and I would assume they do "the trick" for most.
I myself do not like the pain for the sake of pain - I rather only have a tiny little bit of it involved - but inflicting a punishment is part of the "game" and thus it has to be felt that way (although the "threshold" for each person is very different in that respect). Much more though I like to own a sub not only physically but mentally too. Humiliation, which is a big turn on for some is not achieved by pain, as well as surrender to a Mistress and the delight in being allowed to serve has nothing to do with pain. There is no more delightful because complete "owning" of a slave than him/her acknowledging this submissive side of themselves and admit to it - something that isn't easy in our society and takes a lot of courage!
Very efficient in the process though is the withholding of pleasure. The power it holds to be the one to decide about your sub's release in a climax ... so yes, I think erotic torture would be the right word *chuckling* ... and it can be a damn torture (again, close to pain) to be kept on the brink of orgasm for a prolongued period of time.
As for any "specialities" .. well, I sure won't give any away - and what I may or may NOT do is something that very much depends on the situation and the person. And as with all good love making - routine kills passion eventually. So even when being involved with D/s relations it doesn't mean to just toss a few pieces of rope on the bed or, heaven forbid, simply thrashing your partner to bruises - I strongly would recommend loving, caring creativity and fantasy as in every relation to keep the sparks flying
One question for you Julie .. you got me a little confused there ... what were you refering to when you said: Lots of guys will do it if their "buddies" don't find out about it!!! was that playing Dom or sub ... sorry if I am a little slow in understanding (as stated above already)
*sighs* must be having a blonde day today
I was thinking about ansewring when I first read the thread when it was opened, but wasn't really sure if what I would have to say was of any help/interest. Nevertheless, since the topic still seems to be of interest I can't keep my big mouth shut (as usual) and will try an attempt.
I do - as stated on several occasions - enjoy the delightful mixture of pleasure and pain (usually giving but I support the theorie you have to be "on the receiving side" some times to know what it is like). I for one have found though that the "pattern" of D/s behaviour is very different when dealing with a male sub as when being with a female sub. The "triggers" are different - the reasons and thus the ways the submission manifests itself.
Sure, there are common means to put to use as are spanking, whipping and different forms and degrees of bondage and I would assume they do "the trick" for most.
I myself do not like the pain for the sake of pain - I rather only have a tiny little bit of it involved - but inflicting a punishment is part of the "game" and thus it has to be felt that way (although the "threshold" for each person is very different in that respect). Much more though I like to own a sub not only physically but mentally too. Humiliation, which is a big turn on for some is not achieved by pain, as well as surrender to a Mistress and the delight in being allowed to serve has nothing to do with pain. There is no more delightful because complete "owning" of a slave than him/her acknowledging this submissive side of themselves and admit to it - something that isn't easy in our society and takes a lot of courage!
Very efficient in the process though is the withholding of pleasure. The power it holds to be the one to decide about your sub's release in a climax ... so yes, I think erotic torture would be the right word *chuckling* ... and it can be a damn torture (again, close to pain) to be kept on the brink of orgasm for a prolongued period of time.
As for any "specialities" .. well, I sure won't give any away - and what I may or may NOT do is something that very much depends on the situation and the person. And as with all good love making - routine kills passion eventually. So even when being involved with D/s relations it doesn't mean to just toss a few pieces of rope on the bed or, heaven forbid, simply thrashing your partner to bruises - I strongly would recommend loving, caring creativity and fantasy as in every relation to keep the sparks flying
One question for you Julie .. you got me a little confused there ... what were you refering to when you said: Lots of guys will do it if their "buddies" don't find out about it!!! was that playing Dom or sub ... sorry if I am a little slow in understanding (as stated above already)
*sighs* must be having a blonde day today
