Question for Senior Men….

[docisin]

Maybe see your doctor and get a PSA test. you should be having them fairly regularly anyway. An enlarged prostate can cause that (did for me).

I’m up to date on all of that…thanks…

 

[docisin]

Just a little PSA (public service announcement) about PSA (prostate-specific antigen) testing (pun semi-intended)....

the old digital rectal hey-diddle-diddle exam has been replaced by a much more accurate PSA blood test that was introduced in the late 1980s. By 2000, most digital rectal exams as "front-line screening" had ceased entirely, with two exceptions:

• A diagnosis of prostate cancer in your immediate family history (brother, father, possibly grandfather)...you get both the blood and digital tests
• An examination conducted in the UK (the only first-world country still routinely ordering them). Feel free to insert your own Royal Navy "rum, sodomy and the lash" quip here.

not entirely true, sorry. The digital rectal exam is still the most accurate way to diagnose. Blood test can be, and often are inaccurate and skewed…

 

[docisin]

New PSA guidelines also now recommend NO PSA tests given to men over age 69 who have never had prostate issues in the past. This might seem counterintuitive, but evidently the number of "false positives" in men over age 69 tends to draw attention away from other more serious issues.

I guess it depends on what you mean by “prostate issues.”

 

[TruthSeeker12345]

All the senior men: I’m a healthy, nearly 70 year old. I use Cialis which is awesome, love sex with my s/o it’s amazing, she’s incredibly orgasmic, and very open to really anything. The issue is, over the past few years I’ve found it more an more difficult to cum. Now, the last few times we’ve had sex, the fucking and sucking is amazing, but again, no cumming. I’ve given up watching porn, but does any other guy have this issue, and any suggestions? (please serious responses only). Thanks for the help!

You might look into low dose daily Cialis. The low dose approach is good for penis health, also, because it encourages nocturnal erections. Nocturnal erections are critical to penis health because the penis needs the additional blood flow from the erections. Without the erections, the blood just does not get there. You could also look into edging and Kegels exercises. Kegels trains the fast twitch muscle fibers in the penis and pelvic floor that are responsible to throb and produce the ejaculation. For more info, you can find the link to my non-profit, information only website in my Literotica member information. Just choose "Ejaculating Too Soon" from the menu in the website for info about Kegels and edging.

 

[docisin]

You might look into low dose daily Cialis. The low dose approach is good for penis health, also, because it encourages nocturnal erections. Nocturnal erections are critical to penis health because the penis needs the additional blood flow from the erections. Without the erections, the blood just does not get there. You could also look into edging and Kegels exercises. Kegels trains the fast twitch muscle fibers in the penis and pelvic floor that are responsible to throb and produce the ejaculation. For more info, you can find the link to my non-profit, information only website in my Literotica member information. Just choose "Ejaculating Too Soon" from the menu in the website for info about Kegels and edging.

thanks so much for such a helpful answer. Really great. However, as I said in the. op, NOT ejaculating is the issue, not “too soon.”. in my case, my. s/o is highly orgasmic, and even though your 13 mintues stat might be some kind of an average, it certainly isn’t with my partner. The sex is great, she could not be more satisfied, but it’s a male ego “caveman” thing, that I want to cum too….the Cialis idea is a good one, I generally take one a day. Thanks again for the thoughtful post…

 

[TruthSeeker12345]

I understand your issue about not being able to cum. The reason why I recommended the "Ejaculating Too Soon" menu item is that it is the area of my website with the information about Kegels. The videos by Michelle Kenway referenced there are very good. Training your fast twitch muscle fibers, the ones that allow you to cum, might help. Also, the daily Cialis is a low dosage. Note that the "once before sex" dosage (not daily) is higher.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Just a little PSA (public service announcement) about PSA (prostate-specific antigen) testing (pun semi-intended)....

the old digital rectal hey-diddle-diddle exam has been replaced by a much more accurate PSA blood test that was introduced in the late 1980s. By 2000, most digital rectal exams as "front-line screening" had ceased entirely, with two exceptions:

• A diagnosis of prostate cancer in your immediate family history (brother, father, possibly grandfather)...you get both the blood and digital tests
• An examination conducted in the UK (the only first-world country still routinely ordering them). Feel free to insert your own Royal Navy "rum, sodomy and the lash" quip here.

They are now saying that has lead to many misdiagnosed patients and unnecessary surgeries so word of caution get multiple opinions.
PSA isn't everything they said it was either.

 

[Lucien_Al]

You might look into low dose daily Cialis. The low dose approach is good for penis health, also, because it encourages nocturnal erections. Nocturnal erections are critical to penis health because the penis needs the additional blood flow from the erections. Without the erections, the blood just does not get there. You could also look into edging and Kegels exercises. Kegels trains the fast twitch muscle fibers in the penis and pelvic floor that are responsible to throb and produce the ejaculation. For more info, you can find the link to my non-profit, information only website in my Literotica member information. Just choose "Ejaculating Too Soon" from the menu in the website for info about Kegels and edging.

I have been on a daily dose of 5mg Cialis and find it has been very beneficial.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I think it’s common as we age to cum less and for it to take a little bit longer. I am 57, and the older I get the longer it takes.

But here’s an idea… maybe lean into it a little bit. We have learned that sex isn’t always about ejaculation, but feeling good and helping your partner get off.

Have you considered other ways of getting off? Sometimes my wife will use her Hitachi vibrator on the underside of my cock and it gets me right there.

This is a very nice response.
I had partners enjoy the encounter and not be able to close the deal.
I tell them - Good sex is about the journey not the destination..

 

[Dw313]

New PSA guidelines also now recommend NO PSA tests given to men over age 69 who have never had prostate issues in the past. This might seem counterintuitive, but evidently the number of "false positives" in men over age 69 tends to draw attention away from other more serious issues.

Tell that to my friend who is 73 and starts chemo next week

 

[blksoldier]

All the senior men: I’m a healthy, nearly 70 year old. I use Cialis which is awesome, love sex with my s/o it’s amazing, she’s incredibly orgasmic, and very open to really anything. The issue is, over the past few years I’ve found it more an more difficult to cum. Now, the last few times we’ve had sex, the fucking and sucking is amazing, but again, no cumming. I’ve given up watching porn, but does any other guy have this issue, and any suggestions? (please serious responses only). Thanks for the help!

Look on amazon there are a lot of semen supplement's out there that will help.

 

[subdudeme13]

All the senior men: I’m a healthy, nearly 70 year old. I use Cialis which is awesome, love sex with my s/o it’s amazing, she’s incredibly orgasmic, and very open to really anything. The issue is, over the past few years I’ve found it more an more difficult to cum. Now, the last few times we’ve had sex, the fucking and sucking is amazing, but again, no cumming. I’ve given up watching porn, but does any other guy have this issue, and any suggestions? (please serious responses only). Thanks for the help!

You might want to see a urologist. Just a thought.

 

[docisin]

You might want to see a urologist. Just a thought.

thanks, been there, done that ….

 

[docisin]

Tell that to my friend who is 73 and starts chemo next week

truth. Best of luck to your friend….

 

[docisin]

Look on amazon there are a lot of semen supplement's out there that will help.

what exactly would “semen supplement’s (sic)” be?

 

[Sgts19]

70 here and still going at it. It's shrunk, doesn't have the big loads anymore but sometimes when I do cum it feels like I need to take a knee, super intense. Yes sometimes the little fella suddenly isn't into it but I've always taken care of my wife, and others with my tongue. I sometimes take a half of Cialis which gets me harder and last longer. I think I've worn my cock out?? lol

 

[Dw313]

Know the feelings

 

[blksoldier]

what exactly would “semen supplement’s (sic)” be?

I may have read the posting wrong and i apologize for that but is the problem cuming or ejaculation.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

All the senior men: I’m a healthy, nearly 70 year old. I use Cialis which is awesome, love sex with my s/o it’s amazing, she’s incredibly orgasmic, and very open to really anything. The issue is, over the past few years I’ve found it more an more difficult to cum. Now, the last few times we’ve had sex, the fucking and sucking is amazing, but again, no cumming. I’ve given up watching porn, but does any other guy have this issue, and any suggestions? (please serious responses only). Thanks for the help!

I use the other stuff (viagra), and I've had the same issue on occasion. I don't actually mind that much, as I can enjoy prolonged sex and my wife can have a couple of orgasms. But, it bothered her, no matter how much I said I was enjoying it.
I found two things. First, I started taking just a little bit lower dose. In my case, about 20 mgs instead of 25, leaving a little extra from each pill. Second, if our sex is spaced out over 5 days or more, I can cum pretty reliably. And, after 50 years together, its not that mnuch of a challenge to have sex once a week.

 

[TruthSeeker12345]

what exactly would “semen supplement’s (sic)” be?

I have read that taking 1 mg of Folic Acid and 15 mg of zinc picolinate every day increases sperm production. It would seem that it would also be good to increase semen. Of course, my earlier comment about training the fast twitch muscle fibers with Kegels also applies.

 

[Lucien_Al]

70 here and still going at it. It's shrunk, doesn't have the big loads anymore but sometimes when I do cum it feels like I need to take a knee, super intense. Yes sometimes the little fella suddenly isn't into it but I've always taken care of my wife, and others with my tongue. I sometimes take a half of Cialis which gets me harder and last longer. I think I've worn my cock out?? lol

I take 5mg Cialis daily and zinc daily and thankfully still have nice size loads but have found that the quality of my erections are definitely not as good as they used to be. I do find spacing out my orgasms with 2 - 3 days in between improves both the load and hardness. I have also found that by not drinking alcohol during the week and just a few drinks over weekends my performance has been far better.

 

[TruthSeeker12345]

I take 5mg Cialis daily and zinc daily and thankfully still have nice size loads but have found that the quality of my erections are definitely not as good as they used to be. I do find spacing out my orgasms with 2 - 3 days in between improves both the load and hardness. I have also found that by not drinking alcohol during the week and just a few drinks over weekends my performance has been far better.

I find that the size of the loads tend to be larger if I edge for at least 10 minutes before letting loose. The climaxes are also much more intense. Although I do not imbibe, I agree about the alcohol. Alcohol tend to act as a depressant, which is no good for sex performance.

 

[Noor]

thanks, been there, done that ….

Try a different one ?

 

[Noor]

I know your generally healthy, but I’d be wondering if whatever makes you need cialis is progressing and causing the issue?

 

[TruthSeeker12345]

I know your generally healthy, but I’d be wondering if whatever makes you need cialis is progressing and causing the issue?

An article on the web says:

"Aging itself can also contribute to ED due to decreased testosterone levels."