Question and answer chain....

[Bellatrixie]

Okay the rules are simple. Answer the question asked by the person in front of you on the chain and ask a question for the next person in line. You must also answer your own question.


My question...what is your best feature?

Mine is definitely my legs.

 

[Chaingun]

Mine might be my eyes. I like that they work and at 44 that's not bad. I can still read things that are close and see distant objects too. (Hey they tell me the sun is 93 million miles away and I can see that!!!)

What's your worst feature?

Mine is my knees. I played catcher on the baseball team until I was 12 when I asked to be moved to second base. Twelve year olds shouldn't have knees that hurt.

 

[Bellatrixie]

What's your worst feature?

Oh dear god in heaven my nose. I hate my nose. Always have. I have my father to thank for that. Some family gifts are better left unshared

What was your most embarrassing moment when you were growing up?

Mine was getting caught counting my ribs in a darkened music class while we were viewing some stupid film or other. Honest to Christ that was all I was doing unfortunately that isn't what the people who caught me though I was doing. Nothing like having the entire sixth grade thinking you were feeling yourself up in class. Especially when you weren't.

Of course now I think nothing of adjusting "the girls" in public lmao. Guess I got a thick skin about that early on.

 

[Azuldrgon]

What was your most embarrassing moment when you were growing up?

singing Puff the Magic Dragon in front of the whole school in fifth grade.

What is the strangest quirk that you have?

Mine is the fact that I am always desiring the best for people. I have a hard time dealing with the negatives people have to a fault. The truth is I want the best for everyone....makes me feel like one of those old black and white movie stills sometimes.

 

[Bellatrixie]

What is the strangest quirk that you have?

I have no filter that says when I am giving way too much information until I see that look of horror cross someone's face IRL and realize I may have crossed that social boundary line again. In all fairness no one in my family seems to have this filter to much extent but I think I have the worst case of it.

Luckily it is also accompanied by a fairly thick skin and the ability to laugh at myself so it alls evens out I guess.

What one sexual thing did you never expect to like until you tried it?

For me it was anal sex. It's a fairly recent entry (hahaha) sorry for the double entendre lmao to my sexual experience...last two or three years or so. I was terrified of the thought of it forever not helped by fissures during early explorations (so not sexy)...which probably held me back about 5 years....

Anyway suffice to say, lots of lube, lots of patience oh-my-fucking-god.... Yeah wish I could call a do-over on the last 20 years just for that reason alone....

 

[Azuldrgon]

What one sexual thing did you never expect to like until you tried it?

Domming someone.......I'll leave it at that.

Have you encountered a hard no and found that it had become appealing?

I found that when I was younger...the thought of phone sex was a hard no because I was very vanilla and I thought of it as cheating on my so....nowadays I get so turned on hearing the other person cum over the phone.....

 

[Bellatrixie]

Have you encountered a hard no and found that it had become appealing?

Probably the whole Lit experience. Even a couple of years ago I wasn't at the place where I could appreciate the beauty and chaos that resides here in this place. I would not have understood the bliss in being able to be myself...without holding back or being correct or being polite and just allow myself to be.....

To be comfortable in my own skin....
To accept and embrace my own wants and wishes....
To own my experiences and desires....
To truly and once and for all lay aside those ghosts with their should be's and mustn'ts and don'ts....

Yeah...this place is scary and amazing and wonderful and weird.

What is the one thing you have done in your life which you regret the most?

Mine is letting fear dictate my actions for so much of my life. Fear of being alone, fear of being thought weird, fear of being thought deviant. The longer I live the more I realize that fear is irrelevant. I can survive being alone and I can survive what others think of me. What I cannot survive is the thought of going to my grave never having been true to myself or standing up for what I need in life.


....yeah in an introspective kind of a mood tonight I guess.