prostate stimulation *help*

[steve_uk83]

myself and my girlfriend are looking into anal play and so far even though she really enjoys it at the moment we are a little stuck....we have been experimenting in trying to find my gspot as we have read online that it can give really intense orgasms and have read that she should be able to stimulate it with a finger as its only supposed to be about 2 inches inside but its just doesnt seem to be happening haha, we've read plenty of stuff about where to find it and i feel relaxed enough now and ive even tried myself but alas it seems to be eluding us. has anyone got any techniques or tips that could help

 

[christian1971]

A little help.

i have the same problem sometimes so I got this toy the grey toy and it helps. And the buttplugs can also be fun too.

 

[Mr.G]

You should have all the info you need

here:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=98657

Some great advice. Fun stuff. First off though it is NOT your GSpot. It's your prostate and it's a GLAND. Poke it too hard and it will FEEL like a gland!!

Combined with this:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

The GSPOT is a clump of nerves that are pushed up & hardened by vaso-congestion. Poke this too softly and nothing will happen.

You kids should have a blast.

 

[steve_uk83]

cheers mr G, much appreciated

 

[midwestscribe]

Steve, are you sure she's "looking" in the right spot?

First, you need to really relax and let her take her time...the exploration can be fun, you know.

Is she using enough lube to make her finger wiggling around comfortable for you? If you're comfortable, she can take more time.

Is her finger "pointed" the right way? The pad of her fingertip must be turned upwards in the direction of your scrotum and penis.

She needs to use just the lightest pressure as she "hunts" for something no bigger than an almond (most likely smaller, if you're a young guy). And, if you're young, it's not going to be that hard and obvious when she touches it. Also, if you're over 35 or so, if it's very hard to the touch, you may want to see a physician and get it checked.

And, once she does find it, you're done yet. While you can reach orgasm just from prostate massage, that's really not the point.

The real pleasure from prostate massage is experienced as an adjunct to building up to an orgasm. Whether she's on top riding you or she's giving you great head, after you're good and hard and beginning to work toward orgasm, she should slip her finger in and start massaging firmly. The closer you get, she should stop massaging and just hold light pressure on your prostate. When you signal or tell her you can hold back your ejaculation not one second more, she should release the pressure. You'll definitely experience an unbelievable sensation - like a dam bursting.

But, when she releases the pressure, she shouldn't remove her finger just yet. She should leave it inside you until you've finsihed ejaculating - no pressure, just there. Otherwise, you'll be distracted and unable to enjoy what should be a longer orgasm than you've ever had.

A bit of practice - and, yes, some more patience - will get you there.

You're a lucky guy to have a lady willing to do this for you and even luckier she's willing to keep trying.

Oh, a final word of caution: Does she have fingernails? If so, have her use a heavy-duty condom to blunt their effect on your internal tissue - unless, of course, she's willing to clip them down. Nicking your tissue could result in infection and severe problems. But, with that bit of protection, it's a safe technique and well worth the practice and time.

 

[baltcpl4fun]

It is an UNBELIEVABLE feeling when done right...hopefully she's found that spot for you so you can find that out!! Good luck with it all

 

[Josty]

have her apply pressure while giving oral or a handjob, as you get close to orgasm you'll KNOW when she hits the right spot.