Preparing for anal intercourse

[Raybies93]

Yes it is...!

We are 70 years old, and we have enjoyed a great sex life without anal. No need to start now.

I tend to agree

 

[nsa69kink]

We are 70 years old, and we have enjoyed a great sex life without anal. No need to start now.

I tend to agree, that pussy n all is just soooooo much more enjoyable, esp when u trigger it, but then again, evry1 2 their own

 

[Burstplayer]

Pretty fail safe method for me is:

Bulb enema 30 minutes before play to clean throughly.
Boy Batter Coconut Oil Lube
Good sized Plug inserted for about 10 minutes to stretch and warm up muscles and rectum
Apply generous lube and almost any size will work. This one is 9" and over 2" thick and goes in to the hilt like a breeze.
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All of this plus time and patience and practice...

 

[Britva415]

Why dont u walk us thru the three hours of prep? I’d love to know what it involves

I’m not saying don’t take as much time as one needs, but some of us only need like 2 minutes.

And lube, natch

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

I like to bathe very throughly and I rely on my partner to help get me ready. Their tongue, a finger or thumb and then some lube and a cock.

I find that I really need to be aroused and some home having fun with me back there helps make me ready, and excited!

I used to "prepare" my partner with my tongue most nights of the week, and that was fun. Also, lots of hot erotic spankings, and licking her pussy in the face down, ass up position.

She had never had anal sex before and I was happy just to give her ass pleasure with my hands or my tongue or with a toy and some combination.

After several years of being together, she took the plunge and tried anal with me. She had an incredible time, she fucked me for hours. She was wild, really into it. It turned her on in some way that nothing else has.

Well.... I know people's first time experiences with anal can be uncomfortable, but, I'd heard about them, and I knew what to avoid.

A caring, considerate, experienced, confident partner who is focused solely on her pleasure, can be a hot experience when it comes to anal.

 

[Raybies93]

I used to "prepare" my partner with my tongue most nights of the week, and that was fun. Also, lots of hot erotic spankings, and licking her pussy in the face down, ass up position.

She had never had anal sex before and I was happy just to give her ass pleasure with my hands or my tongue or with a toy and some combination.

After several years of being together, she took the plunge and tried anal with me. She had an incredible time, she fucked me for hours. She was wild, really into it. It turned her on in some way that nothing else has.

Well.... I know people's first time experiences with anal can be uncomfortable, but, I'd heard about them, and I knew what to avoid.

A caring, considerate, experienced, confident partner who is focused solely on her pleasure, can be a hot experience when it comes to anal.

SO HOT

 

[Spiraleyes34]

Ive had anal 3 times, 2 of them were planned so i cleaned and shaved, both were lubed, one with a condom (1st time) and one bare. 1st time had me absolutely hooked, we fucked in like 3 positions. Second time was lubed but he was huge. It was a mix of pleasure and discomfort but he finished inside me either way. 3rd time wasnt planned, he was about average but i wasnt mentally prepped for it and i ended up bleeding for like a day or so after.

 

[Raybies93]

Ive had anal 3 times, 2 of them were planned so i cleaned and shaved, both were lubed, one with a condom (1st time) and one bare. 1st time had me absolutely hooked, we fucked in like 3 positions. Second time was lubed but he was huge. It was a mix of pleasure and discomfort but he finished inside me either way. 3rd time wasnt planned, he was about average but i wasnt mentally prepped for it and i ended up bleeding for like a day or so after.

But it was worth the pain?

 

[Spiraleyes34]

But it was worth the pain?

Absolutely

 

[EmilyMiller]

3rd time wasnt planned

Unplanned anal is not a good thing - I love sodomy, but it has to be treated with respect.

 

[EmilyMiller]

But it was worth the pain?

No! A little discomfort at first as you acclimate, sure. But bleeding .

 

[Raybies93]

Unplanned anal is not a good thing - I love sodomy, but it has to be treated with respect.

I love it when you say “sodomy” its fucking sexy as hell

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

I’d recently come across these sex-ed comics that seem helpful—and they’ve got SNAILS in them!!
https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/buttsex/
https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/anal-sex-preparation/

This was incredibly cute and informative for newcomers.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

Lube
Plugs
Training
Practice, practice, practice

Yes.

I did lube and trained on myself and practiced until I could take rather enormous toys.

While I only had one relationship where that came in handy for myself, a woman who enjoyed strapon sex play and trading anal experiences back and forth with me....

It did personally prepare me for what any partner I might have in the future would experience if she tries anal sex with me for the first time.

It made me into an experienced, gentle, knowledgeable, comfortable partner for her first time.

Because if I wouldn't do that to myself, I wouldn't do it to my lady partner either.

And I talked her through it. I am an excellent first time partner, because I have experience doing it and doing it to myself and having it done to me, by a woman with a toy.

So.... I have a fair idea how to communicate and work with my partner until her anal experience curls her toes, makes her flush in the face, and enjoys the amazing primal experience that is being taken by a lover up the ass.

It is quite the submissive experience, you really feel like they're claiming you as their own, and you surrender to them.

It is also amazingly kinky. And your genitals are still there to be played with, fingers, vibrators, toys, another partner touching there, for some, a reach around experience is also fun.

Missionary, you can touch yourself rather easily while feeling your partner inside you. That can be fun.

Preparation is important, I would emphasize practicing solo and masturbating with a toy inside you.

Get used to the sensations of sexual acts while being filled anally.

If you like it, or better yet, have an inexplicable desire to be fucked anally by that toy, or by your partner, and have that toy pounding your ass or sliding in and out, well... anal sex may in fact be for you.

So, preparation beforehand to avoid accidents, as others have instructed and provided materials for.
Lube, lube, lube.
Condom changing and also, no anal to vaginal, ever, not even if you've seen it done in porn, that causes infections. Never never.
And, practice. Always practice. Anal solo masturbation and toys. I highly recommend.

If you're using a toy that is bigger than your partner's penis or strapon, and you're very comfortable and enjoying it, chances are, you can handle the experience of a partner taking you anally.

If they are a good listener and go at the pace you desire, and the depth as well. An ass is not a vagina, it does not self lubricate, and bottoming out and going all the way to the hilt, may in fact not feel as good for some couples.

Just be careful and gentle until you're very comfortable and trust each other and know you can be more energetic without hurting each other.