Position advice

[HunnyBee18]

I need help with positions... There are several positions out there that are good for those with bad knees, and then there are several that are good for a bad back.

But what do we do when I have a bad lower back, and my boyfriend has a bad knee?! Is there a position that will not be uncomfortable for either of us, and will still feel good?

Any advice greatly appreciated!

 

[Kitty_Schrödinger]

I'd say try cowgirl, you can either just stay totally elevated-upright- or lower yourself over him.

 

[tonythom]

I need help with positions... There are several positions out there that are good for those with bad knees, and then there are several that are good for a bad back.

But what do we do when I have a bad lower back, and my boyfriend has a bad knee?! Is there a position that will not be uncomfortable for either of us, and will still feel good?

Any advice greatly appreciated!

I've always like spooning.... especially waking each other up in the middle of the night and finding out that we have "found" each other.... mmmm or I have found myself inside warm and wet hehehehe

 

[tonythom]

I need help with positions... There are several positions out there that are good for those with bad knees, and then there are several that are good for a bad back.

But what do we do when I have a bad lower back, and my boyfriend has a bad knee?! Is there a position that will not be uncomfortable for either of us, and will still feel good?

Any advice greatly appreciated!

You could try alternative locations as well.... you on a table or dresser... leaning back...he standing

 

[SweetErika]

It might help if you tell us what doesn't work for you currently.

 

[HunnyBee18]

It might help if you tell us what doesn't work for you currently.

Cowgirl is hard for me, because I lack the stamina to keep it going for long enough. Which is too bad, because cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are both awesome otherwise. Anything where he's on his knees is great for me just because I love when he's in complete control - but his knee quickly becomes painful for him. I'm fine on my knees from the back- it'll make my back hurt, but not until the next day. Unfortunately this too tends to make his knee hurt after a while. I'm not really petite, so he can't lift me over long periods, so the more athletic positions are tough.

Kitchen counter is too high, but the bed isn't too bad if I keep my bottom up high enough in the air (has to be from the back, or the bed's too low.

We don't really use a lot of furniture, so there's no kitchen table to use. We're considering one of those wedge-type pillows (or one of the rounded ones) - anyone have opinions on those?

Between my spinal stenosis and his cartilage damage, we're a mess Too bad our sex drives don't care how the rest of our bodies are feeling!

 

[SpiritRider]

Can think of two right now...

You on your back at the edge of the bed. Him standing between your raised legs.
You on all fours with stomach area supported by pillows with knees near edge of bed. Him standing behind.

 

[kingmike60]

Hi HunnyBee,

Here's one for you, called Lady Sitting On A Bench. My wife likes this a lot because it allows her to apply vibrator to clit during penetration. Hold on, here we go.

You lie on the bed, head on pillow, with knees pulled up. He lies crossways on the bed and scootches up so that your genitalia are in close proximity. Lift your feet over his body and let your legs open. He rolls up on his side and slides it in. Ta Daa! Now he's inside and your clit is available for rubbing or vibrating.

Enjoy! And please report. I'd love to know I've helped your love life.

Mike

 

[fuckmeat]

This one might work.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/cm/cosmopolitan/images/iF/niagara-falls-sp_md.jpg

You can have him sit up in the bath or against the headboard of the bed. Having him behind you will make this less taxing than reverse cowgirl. He can keep his leg straight and you can keep your back straight.

 

[KoPilot]

Welp, I've got a bad knee and I know that being on top usually makes it hate me. (I guess that's good, because I don't like being on top anyways. :B)

Curious as to what other people say~

 

[BertrandRussell]

Between the wife and I we have enough bad joints that we couldn't put together one healthy body between the two of us. But 'scissors position' works for us even when we are feeling our worst. ( Do a google image search on the term ) It is sort of like KingMike's suggestion but with a slightly different positioning of the legs.

 

[Kikori]

Snuggle-fuck.

He gets behind you in a spooning position, essentially spoons with you, and slides inside. The only movement required is that he bumps his hips. This is assuming your back isn't bad enough that spooning is painful, or that his knees would take the brunt of his thrusting motions.

 

[talismania]

I also have a bad knee, which makes cowgirl a bit challenging, especially on hard surfaces like the floor. My husband and I use platforms and wedges/ramps made by a company called Liberator. We've used them for years and they're top quality.

You could use a platform (accommodates the whole body) on the bed to give you that extra lift so he could perform standing up. I've used a ramp (larger than a wedge) on a sofa to lift his pelvis so I could mount him with my good knee straddling him and me standing on my bad leg. Your experience, like your sofa and bed, may vary.

One of our favorite pieces of joint/back stress-free sexual furniture: a weight bench. No kidding, this thing is the best. The person lying on it is at just the right height and when his back is acting up, it's the way to go. I can straddle him and go to town because my feet and legs, not my knees, bear my weight. It's just as good when I'm on the bottom.

Thing is, these items can get a bit pricey, so maybe it would be better to invest in a new, higher bed and mattress? Just thinking out loud. But there are ways to get around creaky joints and backs!

 

[anasnkiller]

some time depned on wife.which postion she like

 

[SpiritRider]

This one might work.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/cm/cosmopolitan/images/iF/niagara-falls-sp_md.jpg

You can have him sit up in the bath or against the headboard of the bed. Having him behind you will make this less taxing than reverse cowgirl. He can keep his leg straight and you can keep your back straight.

Tied this but couldn't figure out how to stop the water from soaking the mattress...lol
Sorry...couldn't resist.