Please gentleman...

Will you (men) have sex with your partner while she has her period?

  • Yes, it does not bother me.

    Votes: 16 39.0%
  • No, Its gross.

    Votes: 5 12.2%
  • Maybe, depends on how horny I am.

    Votes: 3 7.3%
  • Ill do it but I wont like it

    Votes: 1 2.4%
  • Other..I am a woman and I just want to see the results.

    Votes: 16 39.0%

  • Total voters
    41

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If you would kindly answer this poll...

I know it has been done before but I cant find it...

How do you feel about having sex with your partner while she has her period?


Thanks!
 
Other:

Depends on her period. Is it a heavy flow or light flow?

It can be gross, you just have to know her. Condoms are nice to have around for easier clean up. Sex in the shower is a possibility.
 
Condoms do help with clean up... I guess I just never saw the issue some guys have with it...
 
I remeber one time when I was with the ex.. We were having sex and I started my period.. It was just.. ick.. I don't think I could ever do that again with a man even if he wanted to.
 
No.


Her period can be a sign of when it's time for us to have "non sex" intimacy. We can play scrabble or something.
 
I dont have to worry about that as my wife doesnt have periods anymore...but besides being unsafe, especially if you dont know the girl very well, its gross.

I wont do it. I clicked No.
 
Kitte said:
Condoms do help with clean up... I guess I just never saw the issue some guys have with it...

Some women require a man to shave before sex, others like the 5 o'clock shadow.

Really not an issue, just a preference.
 
From a females perspective on this..

During that time I am very turned on, more than usual that is, and I know that for myself mine slows way down after a hot shower or bath. So I have a time frame of an hour or so to play, that's when I'll do it.

I will not however allow oral sex to be performed on me during this.

But to say that you'd never have sex during a woman's mensa.. lol that's just rather silly. It isn't catching, it's a natural part of being a woman. There are things that you can do to make the experience just as pleasurable as it is at any other time.
 
His Kitty, excellent post.

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In my expereince its often the woman that is hung up on it. DOnt let it become a 'secret'. A simple discussion of the fact that she is having her period and the few extra steps that may be involved in sex can easily overcome any stigma.

Yes, it might be a little messy. But its nothing that everyone shoulndt be able to deal with. if its a particularly heavy flow but both parties are still jonesing to fuck, the shower is a good alternative.

If its a lgith flow or as His Kitty wisely suggest after a shower/bath, then a simple towel underneath you both makes for a lickety split clean up.

Jump in the shower and freshen up and spend some time with each other.

This is, of course, all dependent on her feeling well. Sometimes the cramps, etc of the time dictate that sex isnt sucha good idea.
 
Thank you Modest Mouse and Kitte.




I've just never understood why some are so hung up about it. I don't know why we would want to limit ourselves to certain dates when we want to be intimate.

If the sight of blood bothers you, just don't look! Feel and enjoy. lol
 
Well I for one don't really care about that period time. I am careful (on those very rare occasions that sex does occur) because I know that cramps, and 'stuff' can take away some of the 'fun', but for the most part...whats the big deal? Oral sex is a bit...constrained...but everything else is great. (oral bothers her more than me.)
 
Kitte said:
If you would kindly answer this poll...

I know it has been done before but I cant find it...

How do you feel about having sex with your partner while she has her period?


Thanks!

I voted for the first option
 
when my wife still had her period, we still had sex. Just put down a towel and take a shower after. It's just another body fluid, no big deal. Guys want a woman to swallow their cum, but can't make love to her because she's flowing a little? Not fair.
 
I've got no problem with sex, and as far as oral sex...I can't just dive in there, but if I am careful, I can avoid getting too messy.
 
Hi

I can stand the mess if she can, my darling wifey is so horny when she's got the rag's on.


pops...............:D
 
His_kitty nailed it on the head - again!


I find that during ovulation (approx. 2 weeks prior) and during my cycle are the times when my libido skyrockets and I'm all but accosting him at the door when we get home.

Because this is such a sensitive time for women, and we're prone to mood swings, I think I'd either pummel him into the ground or ball my eyes out if he said he wasn't comfortable with it. I would NEVER expect or even allow him to preform oral sex during this time, but regardless I'd have to respect HIS feelings on the matter.

HOWEVER, one thing to keep in mind for those reluctant few - everything is TIGHTER. *wink*
 
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