Pick Your Label(s)

BiBunny

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In response to the half-dozen Daddy/girl threads we've got going in this forum, I think it's time we let everyone else identify themselves.

We use PYL and pyl here a lot to refer to others. So, I'm asking y'all to go ahead and pick your label. If you have more than one, tell us about all of them.

I'll go first. I'm a switch with more emphasis on the bottom end. As a pyl, I'm B.'s pet. I'm there to entertain him, and I'll jump through whatever hoops I have to in order to make him happy in that way. As a PYL, I'd be probably be more of a pet Owner if/when the day comes that I have a submissive type of my own.

Feel free to discuss the dynamics of your relationship if you like. I may come back and do it myself later, but I'm being lazy at the moment.
 
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I'm having a personal label Identity Crisis right now.

I first and foremost identify as a "Chelsea" = ) 'Cause that's what I am. And any weird foibles I have or whatnot fall within the category of a Chelsea! Whenever anyone tries to pull me down with a label or challenge a label I've referred to myself as, I just shrug and say "I'm a Chelsea."

I actually Identify as a Submissive Masochist with Sadistic, Toppy Tendancies. Long enough?
 
Chicklet said:
I'm having a personal label Identity Crisis right now.

I first and foremost identify as a "Chelsea" = ) 'Cause that's what I am. And any weird foibles I have or whatnot fall within the category of a Chelsea! Whenever anyone tries to pull me down with a label or challenge a label I've referred to myself as, I just shrug and say "I'm a Chelsea."

I actually Identify as a Submissive Masochist with Sadistic, Toppy Tendancies. Long enough?

Perfect. I have an even longer description of myself, but I figured I wouldn't post it and annoy everybody, LOL.
 
I am a switch woman.

I submit to those who inspire it, and I dominate those who inspire it.

I have a serious love for the Daddy/little girl relationship. I've been fortunate enough to end up as a loving little girl more than once.

I have a serious sadistic streak, and I'm also masochistic.

*shrug* I can't label better than that.
 
Well mine is pretty simple. I'm a slavish submissive, becoming more and more slave-like as days go by.
 
Right now, I can't pick out a label.

I guess I am a bottom, who loves to be spanked! :D
 
Whatever my relationship matrix may look like, I remain Dominant. Flexible with one particular person, but Dominant. If that person were not in my life, I don't think anyone else would fill that role.
 
I started out in a Sir/subbie relationship. It sort of melded into Owner/subbie, then Owner/slave. For a while I called him Master.

I've related to Master/slave, Master/kitty, Master/pet, and Sir/pet.

I do love the floor pet stuff, but I also love service oriented slave stuff just as much.

My tital changes with my mood and the mood of the person I'm with. *shrug*

Oh I've also done the Big sis/lil sis thing, with me being big sis. Not my favorite for a number of reasons, but I did it for a while anyway.
 
Chicklet said:
I'm having a personal label Identity Crisis right now.

I first and foremost identify as a "Chelsea" = ) 'Cause that's what I am. And any weird foibles I have or whatnot fall within the category of a Chelsea! Whenever anyone tries to pull me down with a label or challenge a label I've referred to myself as, I just shrug and say "I'm a Chelsea."

I actually Identify as a Submissive Masochist with Sadistic, Toppy Tendancies. Long enough?

OMG You're a Chelsea? That's like way extreme. :eek:
 
Overall i consider myself a submissive.

i am LC's littleone/slave.

i relate to the non-sexual ageplay parts of D/g relationships. i feel i differ from a lot of "littles" in that i am very much a masochist and becoming moreso as time goes on. Hence, the dual dynamic of my current relationship. He is both Daddy and Master and that works quite well for the both of us.
 
Paradox

In my real-life now, I am a princess-domme (just made that up...I mean dominant by cuteness, charm and wit. Oh, and modesty. I forgot modesty ;) ). It's a role I don't like and one that makes me feel unloved, unworthy and unguarded.

But in my mind and heart, for as long as I can remember having sexual feelings, i've had deep masochistic / submissive tendencies and fantasies. And a heartfelt desire to serve with humility, love and respect.

That's what i aim to be/do, the direction my heart is tugging me in.

Don't know what that makes me for purposes of this thread, Ms. Bunny...
 
myinnerslut said:
im a young (not inexperienced) sub, im a light to medium masochist (leaning towards heavier pain once in a while when im really in that mood), i crave thuddy pain and avoid stingy pain if possible. i am A's puppy, in name and then some. i can be niave in things that arent sex related, i want to be loved, protected, trusted, i feel at home in A's arms, and would do anything i can to make him happy

I relate to your description, mis, with just a few exceptions (not so young, lol, and cannot relate to being someone's puppy as I don't understand what that really means).

I’m a service-oriented, masochistic, submissive. I am not slave material, though (in the regimented, protocol-driven way). I will admit that sometimes I wonder what it would be like to be the dominant partner in a relationship. However, those thoughts have a more comfortable place in my fantasies and stories, than in my personal reality.
 
"v" calls me Sir or Master, depending on whim. I call her whatever I feel like at the time. We are married, and have 24/7 dynamic, but I don't consider her my slave. That implies a level of micromanagement that I am bored by. She is my lady, my property, my slut, etc. I plan to get a small placard engraved and will mount it on her collar. It will say simply "mine".

"w" calls me Sir or Master as well. I generally refer to her as "princess" and we have something between a D/g and a Master/pet relationship.

I am a Sensual Dominant insofar as style is concerned.
 
I'm not currently with a Dom. I've had 4 over the last 20 years. I have been kitten, slut, darling, and pet. I was never slave. I always liked kitten the best. The way he would say it just about made me cum without him even touching me. The Dom was usually Sir or Master.
 
:rose: I am with my Sir and have been now for almost 5 months and I am his Slut... recently he started calling me CumSlut.. but I dont mind, although the first time he called me that I was like Im not slut. but when i relized what it meant I was okay.. But he is MY Sir.. MyD.... :rose:
 
Apparently I'm missing the difference between calling Him "Sir" or "Master", because they're the same thing to us. I call Him either one depending on the moment.

I would say that I am submissive ONLY to Him. I found out after becoming His sub all my friends (that it was safe to tell this to) thought I was a Domme in secret. <falls off her chair laughing> We'll see what this leads to in the future. :D
 
I'm a little gurl submissive with slave qualities and a fondness for topping. :)
 
Velvet Bubbles said:
Apparently I'm missing the difference between calling Him "Sir" or "Master", because they're the same thing to us. I call Him either one depending on the moment.

I would say that I am submissive ONLY to Him. I found out after becoming His sub all my friends (that it was safe to tell this to) thought I was a Domme in secret. <falls off her chair laughing> We'll see what this leads to in the future. :D

I got pegged as a domme at some of the clubs the shop that sold my costumes in would visit, because I used to walk the modles around on leashes.
 
subkitty72 said:
Don't know what that makes me for purposes of this thread, Ms. Bunny...

lovely thing about it not being a poll is you can choose however many labels you feel comfortable with! :rose:
 
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