Phone Sex

[TN_Vixen]

God, I love phone sex and just experienced it a few years ago... never even knew what a booty call was either until a coupla years ago.... I'm so naive, hmm? *grin* *wink*

but, I've found that there are some men who can give GREAT phone sex and some that have no fucking clue at all.

Being a guy answering this thread, what is YOUR turn on with phone sex...

And, on the converse, Females... answer me please, what would you prefer the guy to say, how to say *it* over the lines to get you off?

 

[Bobtoad777]

I have only had one phone sex in counter but for me i like just a nice voice sounding like she is enjoying what ever she is doing

 

[TN_Vixen]

but but but.. see Toady..

I'm asking here for specifics, what made you think she WAS having a good time? What did she say, not say, do.. not do, etc?

 

[Bobtoad777]

well she asked for one of my fanatasies and went through with it in great deal. I guess its the rollplaying. and the voice sounded like she was really interested in it not like she was doing it as a service and wanted to get it over with.

 

[TN_Vixen]

Bobby

that's very interesting. Y'know I was married to a man for 7 years who claimed that he NEVER fantasized. Just hearing a man tell me his fantasy is enough to get me started.

Thanks for responding. I think there are a lot of people out there who won't admit to being able to release their deep dark fantasies even to someone over the phone and if I feel like a guy I'm talking with is able to do it, I'm totally gone!

*smiling* thanks!

 

[Skibum]

Phone sex, as well as cybering, seems just a little sad to me. I don't believe I would be very turned on by either one. A well written story is more apt to do it for me. Anyone else think that way, or am I a minority of one?

 

[Bobtoad777]

Tn I am able to do it usually there a first couple of minutes of nervousness then its over with its all good, i am willing if any gals are to play there fantasy or mine. I carry lots of fantasies and am generally open to most in word play nad probably on phone play as well

 

[lilfrk]

I have never had phone sex. But once a few months ago I listened to someone get off. He had asked to see something I wrote and I sent it to him. After he read it he told me he was really turned on and that he wanted me to hear the affect my words on him. So I gave him my number and he called. I told him I didn't want to say anything to him or touch myself I just wanted to hear him. He agreed and just talked to me a little telling me what he was doing. I liked listening to him breath and I could hear the sound of his hand stroking himself. It didn't last too long maybe 10 minutes. After he came he talked to me a few more minutes and then said "Thank You for that. Good bye." And that was it.

 

[TN_Vixen]

Ski-person

Phone sex, as well as cybering, seems just a little sad to me. I don't believe I would be very turned on by either one. A well written story is more apt to do it for me. Anyone else think that way, or am I a minority of one?

Sweetheart, if you like a well written story, my thoughts are... think about those novels that are recorded for those people who cannot read.. either the elderly or the blind. They listen to the story recorded in volumes and actually experience it in the same manner as someone who reads a very well-written story.

Imagine being on the phone with someone who can very effectively, convey their excitement.. their intonation to the story being told as well as hearing that person's breath increase, the moans and little pants that escape while sharing the experience and tell me then that it isn't something that you'd be interested in??

*kiss*

 

[teresafannin]

The only person I have or ever will have phone sex with is my fiancee. I don't give my home number to anyone, if someone needs a phone #, I give them my voicemail at work. My fiancee & I are only together on the weekends, so during the week, we talk about everything. Occasionally he meets me in a chat room that a friend owns & we have a lovely time. He has an awesome voice & just hearing him say hello is sexy.

 

[Juliangel]

God, I love phone sex

Having just hung up my phone 30 minutes ago I have to say phone sex is awsome.

AS for what I like him to say, I love the way he says my name and his voice is so sexy that hearing him say Hello Julia can make me wet.

Anything he says is perfect for me but I love when he tells me how........... well never mind that is between me and him.

 

[Mustang Sally]

I'm very reluctant to have phone sex, only because I know I'm not good at it. I stumble over words like "cock" and "pussy" - silly, I know. Also, I'm not even vocal during real sex. Hey, I have the voice of a 12 year old.

I've kind of stumbled into it once or twice with someone I really like, but it just didn't work. I just felt self-conscious and foolish.

Then, recently, I tried it with someone else, and WOW he was so good at it! He was very descriptive, generous with his own moans, and encouraging to me. I found myself moaning louder than I ever do, even during real sex. I actually talked dirty back to him! It was a good feeling.

 

[Weinergirl]

I have tried both and I really must say it wasn't all that much fun. The phone sex episode was with my then boyfriend and the cyber did give me a tingle at first. I find it hard to believe people actually have orgasms this way. I guess it's more about who you're with. Hey whatever works I suppose.

 

[WriterDom]

I like for her to put the phone down near her pussy and rub her wet lips together..

 

[insideShiraz]

The Voice I'm Looking for...

Iz So Unique, Only she could say...

I don't need the drummer's fantasy Bitch...

I just want that Big Bang Cum!!!!...

 

[Sammyjo]

I prefer for him to take control. If he's very forceful, or asks me to do something I wouldn't normally do, it gets me off right now...even if it's something I find icky...for some reason, the way he presents it has a lot to do with it.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

I have enjoyed phone sex......

And might again. But not too often. The reason? It's like window shopping with no cash. The fantasy can be intense and enjoyable - but when that's over - it's way over. You see, I want to hold, feel, and touch my lover - so baddely - that the aftermath of phone sex - no matter how good it may be - is somewhat depressing.

To each their own however.

 

[R Nitelight]

I agree with insideShiraz.

 

[Ambrosious]

I don't particularly care for phone sex or cybering, even though a couple of women here have tried to get it started. What I do like is to hear things that have really happened to you. Start telling me about your past sexual excapades, and I'll start purring.

 

[Guest]

Re: The Voice I'm Looking for...

Iz So Unique, Only she could say...

I don't need the drummer's fantasy Bitch...

I just want that Big Bang Cum!!!!...

Inside, babe, Shhhhh! I thought you weren't gonna share our phone conversation we had?!?! http://smilecwm.tripod.com/net4/128.gif

 

[NewEnglandBBW]

Same here Skibum

I've never been able to get into phone or cyber myself either. Some people like it, and that's fine, I can't judge them or make their decisions, there are LOTS of reasons for liking (and for that matter, disliking) it.

I do love great stories. Well worded, well thought out...and often times, less is more.. Some of the older romance novels, where they didn't dare use certain words or suggest certain acts, can be terrific, because your mind can go anywhere with it. The same can be said for a great movie. I hate porn, but love romance.


I prefer the "real" thing. If I can't or don't have it, I'll wait (or masturbate without using phone/cyber should the mood suit me).

Just my 2 cents!

NEBBW

 

[Guest]

It's interesting to see the people who have posted that a good story gets them more excited than phone sex or cyber sex does. It tells me you've been with the wrong people. What exactly is cyber sex or phone sex other than an interactive story? That's the part I question.

I have to tell you, I used to be just as skeptical on the subject as many of those listed above. When I first got my computer I played around with cyber sex just to find out what the attraction was, and never found it. After a few weak attempts I moved on to other forms of entertainment.

However, what I now realize is that MENTALLY, cyber sex and phone sex are no different from intercourse. I'm sure that might shock a few people, but that's what I discovered. What makes SEX great is being involved with someone in an intimate and trusting relationship. And what I've discovered over the past several months is that, being in a relationship of this sort, the phone sex in particular has been absolutely incredible. We have reached a point in our relationship that we know each other as well as we know ourselves. Each of us knows how the other wants to be touched, what the other is feeling, and by being in touch with our own feelings and the other's feelings, we can bring that all alive with our words. I have a great deal of actual physical sexual experience, but what I've experienced with my lover over the past several months has been far more intimate than all but one or two of the relationships I've experienced in the past.

Just this past weekend we started off our morning on Saturday with two amazing hours of love making over the telephone. When we met afterwards on the computer my lover asked how I was feeling and I responded by saying, "Live I've just spent the last 2 hours having great sex." And nothing could be truer.

I feel sorry for the people who view their explorations into phone sex as nothing more than enhanced masturbation. Nothing could be further from the truth when you take the time to find someone you care about, someone you can develop true feelings of intimacy, love and respect for. Remember, it's by knowing the mind and the heart of your lover that SEX becomes more than just an act. And I'm damn glad my lover was able to show me this.

 

[Golden]

good question TN_V ... Used to do this with the GF years ago when I travelled a lot for work. We don't talk much when screwing in RL, and she wouldn't masturbate for me in RL, but on the phone ...? I guess we both find the other's voice is sexy and it is great to get off on someone's own descriptions of what they are doing to themselves or - better still - when one of us tells what we are doing to the other; I tell her what my fingers are doing, her fingers do accordingly, and hey!!!

It is also a darned sight easier to jerk off when you aren't simultaneously typing!

voice from another room ...[i/]"Darling you aren't jerking off in the office are you"?
"Er, nope, just programming the new voice recognition software I bought today ...!"

 

[Earthgoddess]

Having worked as a phone sex operator-erotic phone actress(thank you very much) to help make ends meet-I can say that I have enjoyed a few encounters. But that overall I get more into the character developement and lose my own erotic edge. I am quite good at it and since I sound very young that seems to be a plus for some of those Doms who crave innocence-to each their own.

 

[Cyan BloodsBane]

Cyan picks his cell up and hits speed dial... Hello is this 1 - 800 - suck - me.... what its its 911... So you still charge by the minute...hehe