pain slut

[MasterPhoenix]

I love dishing out pain... it gets me off.

 

[AndyS_uk]

Do you really enjoy pain?Many of those I've spoken to talk about the feeling of submission it gives them or enhancing stimulation with adrenaline but very few seem to truely enjoy or be arroused solely by pain. Whats your take on this?

To me mild pain can be stimulating but too much can be a turn off as it takes the mind totally away from the stimulation. It's definitely a personal thing and a couple of ladies that I used to know tried to increase, gradually, the level of pain that they administered which does seem to help to build up tolerance. This didn't do very much for their immediate pleasure though and, being ever conscious of the person that I'm serving, this was something that was a long-term investment for them. On a personal level restraint and the act of submission are far more enjoyable but the thought of being able to take more pain in order to please someone is, for one who doesn't enjoy pain, strangely exciting.

 

[eroticspank]

Pain vs pleasure

This one is hard for me to describe, but I will certainly try.


I like pain when it involves pain for one person and pleasure for the other. And I like it from either or both sides!

For example: I loved the look of pain on the face of my girlfriend when I would enter her before she got really lubed up. It was always a tight fit but okay if she was really wet. However, if she was not really wet and I just pushed into her with my lubed condom, I could tell it hurt and it really turned me on even more. She would struggle against me as I pushed into her and that turned her on so she was wet after I got inside her. It still hurt a bit for the first few strokes. It was great seeing her groan in pain and scream sometimes if I did it really fast as I pushed on her shoulders for leverage.

ES

 

[eroticspank]

Pain vs Pleasure

The other side, since I did mention I like both sides, would be this example:


My Domme has me naked standing up facing the wall tied with my hands over my head on a rack. She whips me with a flogger, paddle, and if I can make that far a cane.

This has got her so wet that she has me lay on the carpeted floor face up and mounts me. My ass is so sore that it hurts very bad as every down stroke forces my ass into the carpet from her body weight. The more I struggle in pain and begin to scream the more it turns her on and soon she has an orgasm. Several orgasms later, I am allowed to get up and I look at my very bloody ass.

This has never, happened yet just a fantasy as I have not found someone interested in this, or that I could share this with yet. It is a major turn on.

ES

 

[NomadLady]

The other side, since I did mention I like both sides, would be this example:


My Domme has me naked standing up facing the wall tied with my hands over my head on a rack. She whips me with a flogger, paddle, and if I can make that far a cane.

This has got her so wet that she has me lay on the carpeted floor face up and mounts me. My ass is so sore that it hurts very bad as every down stroke forces my ass into the carpet from her body weight. The more I struggle in pain and begin to scream the more it turns her on and soon she has an orgasm. Several orgasms later, I am allowed to get up and I look at my very bloody ass.

This has never, happened yet just a fantasy as I have not found someone interested in this, or that I could share this with yet. It is a major turn on.

ES

In this second scene....do you have an orgasm?

 

[eroticspank]

Good Question

In this second scene....do you have an orgasm?

Well it is a fantasy and never happened but I would say if it did happen I think I could easily cum that way if she wanted me to. I have been spanked to orgasm and been in other situations where the pain pleasure mix becomes one and it can be a very intense orgasm.

I hope that answers your question?

ES

 

[NomadLady]

Well it is a fantasy and never happened but I would say if it did happen I think I could easily cum that way if she wanted me to. I have been spanked to orgasm and been in other situations where the pain pleasure mix becomes one and it can be a very intense orgasm.

I hope that answers your question?

ES

It did....I was wondering where the pain/pleasure mix would illicit the orgasm or not!!!

 

[eroticspank]

But....

It did....I was wondering where the pain/pleasure mix would illicit the orgasm or not!!!

Yes it can cause very strong orgasms in me. But it is kind of confusing because the main turn on for me in both scenes is that the Dominant has an orgasm because of the pain of the sub. (Or gets really turned on by it.)

So in the second scene, the main turn on for me is the fact that she is getting more and more turned on by the pain I am enduring beneath her. So I try to endure it for her because I know she is getting off on it. The more pain I feel the harder it is for me to endure but the more important that I do endure so she can enjoy herself or cum and continue to do so. That turns me on knowing she is getting turned on but the pain may prevent my own orgasm. Eventually it gets to a point where my pain and pleasure become one and I may have a very intense orgasm as I mentioned above.

It is not an easy thing to describe but I think I did it.

ES

 

[NomadLady]

Yes it can cause very strong orgasms in me. But it is kind of confusing because the main turn on for me in both scenes is that the Dominant has an orgasm because of the pain of the sub. (Or gets really turned on by it.)

So in the second scene, the main turn on for me is the fact that she is getting more and more turned on by the pain I am enduring beneath her. So I try to endure it for her because I know she is getting off on it. The more pain I feel the harder it is for me to endure but the more important that I do endure so she can enjoy herself or cum and continue to do so. That turns me on knowing she is getting turned on but the pain may prevent my own orgasm. Eventually it gets to a point where my pain and pleasure become one and I may have a very intense orgasm as I mentioned above.

It is not an easy thing to describe but I think I did it.

ES

Oh, I understood what you meant earlier but since you didn't include your own orgasm from the your pain/her pleasure mix I was curious to whether it happened in the fantasy or not. BUT, thanks for the further explanation.

 

[switchbitch]

The other side, since I did mention I like both sides, would be this example:


My Domme has me naked standing up facing the wall tied with my hands over my head on a rack. She whips me with a flogger, paddle, and if I can make that far a cane.

This has got her so wet that she has me lay on the carpeted floor face up and mounts me. My ass is so sore that it hurts very bad as every down stroke forces my ass into the carpet from her body weight. The more I struggle in pain and begin to scream the more it turns her on and soon she has an orgasm. Several orgasms later, I am allowed to get up and I look at my very bloody ass.

This has never, happened yet just a fantasy as I have not found someone interested in this, or that I could share this with yet. It is a major turn on.

ES

there is a specialdark pleasure in having the your submissive scream for you while they are still intent on performing to the best of their ability. It's what gives me the biggest thrill when I am in dominant mode.

 

[vidmin]

Yes it can cause very strong orgasms in me. But it is kind of confusing because the main turn on for me in both scenes is that the Dominant has an orgasm because of the pain of the sub. (Or gets really turned on by it.)

So in the second scene, the main turn on for me is the fact that she is getting more and more turned on by the pain I am enduring beneath her. So I try to endure it for her because I know she is getting off on it. The more pain I feel the harder it is for me to endure but the more important that I do endure so she can enjoy herself or cum and continue to do so. That turns me on knowing she is getting turned on but the pain may prevent my own orgasm. Eventually it gets to a point where my pain and pleasure become one and I may have a very intense orgasm as I mentioned above.

It is not an easy thing to describe but I think I did it.

ES

You did a very good job explaining things, I enjoy that the other person enjoys.

 

[eroticspank]

Yes!

there is a specialdark pleasure in having the your submissive scream for you while they are still intent on performing to the best of their ability. It's what gives me the biggest thrill when I am in dominant mode.

Yes! Well said!

ES

 

[eroticspank]

That helps

You did a very good job explaining things, I enjoy that the other person enjoys.

Thanks....that uses less words and makes the point!

ES