Oral sex- love it or hate it?

[sophia jane]

So, I've been thinking (way too much for this early on a Sunday morning). My ex had some major hangups about giving oral sex. He didn't really enjoy doing it, so it happened maybe once a year, briefly, and it was always followed by him wanting to go wash his face.
I probably don't have to tell you what that did to me, as the recipient. I felt like something must be wrong with me or that giving oral to a woman must be a really horrible thing or maybe a little of both. Since our split, I've been with a few men, all of whom have eagerly gone down on me and claimed to enjoy the experience. I sort of believe them, but there's still a little part of me that wonders.

What I want to know is- do you like oral sex? Giving? Receiving? Both? I want to hear from girls and guys, please. Also, why do you like doing it? What's the appeal?
I'm hoping I can put my hangups to rest once and for all.

 

[zeb1094]

Personnally I love doing it. I think it is the most intimate of all the sex acts. You get to be up close and personal with the most delicate and private part of your lovers body. The rose of all flowers, open and waiting for you to bring the pleasureable tingles that send her on the way to paradise.

As far as receiving, I enjoy it as a prelude to the final act of intercourse. I much prefer the woman to touch and stroke me and fondle my balls while we kiss each other or while I bring her to amazing orgasms with my tongue.

Ok, now you got me hard just thinking about it.

 

[impressive]

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[dizzylia]

I've never really enjoyed giving or receiving, either gender. I honestly don't know why, but I can tell you it has had nothing to do with my lovers. Just a personal preference. :/ I don't know if it's the same with your ex, but I've talked to other people who feel the way I do. Just one of those things, maybe.

 

[garbage can]

What I want to know is- do you like oral sex? Giving? Receiving? Both? I want to hear from girls and guys, please. Also, why do you like doing it? What's the appeal?
I'm hoping I can put my hangups to rest once and for all.

The way I see it.... is that licking and sucking your clit is no different than sucking your tongue, sucking your tits or licking behind your ear...

 

[sophia jane]

The way I see it.... is that licking and sucking your clit is no different than sucking your tongue, sucking your tits or licking behind your ear...

Does that mean you enjoy doing it or it's just no big deal?

 

[OhMissScarlett]

I oral.

it doesn't matter which gender. actually, I'd say I'm more than a little obsessed with it.

 

[Guest]

Love it.

Giving and receiving.

 

[garbage can]

Does that mean you enjoy doing it or it's just no big deal?

I enjoy doing it, just as I enjoy the other actions that express love and affection.

 

[CrimsonMaiden]

I don't enjoy giving, but it could be because SO is so damned obsessed with bjs that it drives me absolutely insane.

I enjoy getting, but it tends to end up a frustrating experience (takes me forever to orgasm... I don't know if it's me or the way he's doing it).

 

[carsonshepherd]

I like giving oral but because of jaw issues, I don't have a lot of stamina. Plus now I have braces on my teeth and it's like a bear trap in there, so I'm almost afraid to let a poor defenseless penis venture in there.... *cringe*

As far as receiving oral, it's one of my favoritest things.

 

[Weepingguitar]

I had the same problem with my ex. He just would not go down there, he didn't even really like to touch it. He said it was like touching raw meat. That definately didn't help much with the self esteem. I love giving head though. It's so exciting to explore and find just the right spot that can make a guy melt in my hands.

 

[garbage can]

I don't enjoy giving, but it could be because SO is so damned obsessed with bjs that it drives me absolutely insane.

I enjoy getting, but it tends to end up a frustrating experience (takes me forever to orgasm... I don't know if it's me or the way he's doing it).

Interesting, I prefer ejaculating in a pussy rather than a mouth.

Maybe you sense your SO doesn't have his heart into it....

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I don't just enjoy giving it, I posilutely, absotively, fucking love giving it.

Receiving it ... I don't think that I've ever been a good receiver, or perhaps I just haven't had a great giver. Receiving is definitely a second or even third or fourth place event for me.

I recently heard Jessica Hahn describe the BJs that she gives to her lovers. There's a BJ I wouldn't mind taking for a test drive.

 

[garbage can]

I had the same problem with my ex. He just would not go down there, he didn't even really like to touch it. He said it was like touching raw meat. That definately didn't help much with the self esteem. I love giving head though. It's so exciting to explore and find just the right spot that can make a guy melt in my hands.

Seems like it's just as well that he's your ex....

 

[entitled]

I like giving oral but because of jaw issues, I don't have a lot of stamina. Plus now I have braces on my teeth and it's like a bear trap in there, so I'm almost afraid to let a poor defenseless penis venture in there.... *cringe*

As far as receiving oral, it's one of my favoritest things.

BWAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA!!!

Bush's song Mouth was playing when i read this. It just fit.

*ahem*

i used to love giving oral to either sex. i just like the flavor. It's different somehow than tasting other parts of the body. i can't anymore but it used to be one of my favorite parts of sex.

Receiving? Hell yeah! Sex just isn't sex without it.

 

[sophia jane]

I don't just enjoy giving it, I posilutely, absotively, fucking love giving it.

Why? If you don't mind me asking.

 

[garbage can]

Receiving is definitely a second or even third or fourth place event for me.

Hmmm, if receiving is a 3rd, what is the 1st and 2nd ??

 

[Weepingguitar]

Seems like it's just as well that he's your ex....

Yes, and it's definately his loss...hee hee

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Why? If you don't mind me asking.

The fun, flavors, scents, textures, responses, build-up, control or lack of, exploration, intimacy or just providing a release for a friend, the differences from woman to woman in all of the above, and finally the orgasm, whether control was used and it was allowed or it was brought about freely. Afterwards I typically hang around down there and give a lingering, gentle massage to the whole area with my lips and tongue. Sometimes that leads to another very pleasurable session, sometimes its simply a good way to bring her down and relax her.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Hmmm, if receiving is a 3rd, what is the 1st and 2nd ??

Everything else I can do with her.

 

[garbage can]

Everything else I can do with her.

Sounds good to me....

 

[Pure]

enjoy giving (to F); it's sensuous in many dimensions, including taste.

sophia, not a few women decline what are sincere offers because of embarrassment; they assume (falsely) that the man is actually disgusted (as they [women] often are), but is merely offering, for appearance's sake (or as attempt to give 'fair exchange'), and probably just as happy to be told 'no thanks.'

my suggestion is be proud of all you've got, anywhere, and that when someone offers or asks to do something to some part of you, and their arm has not been severely twisted, you should assume that they actually want to do what's proposed and that theyget some satisfaction from it--lie back and enjoy. for no one can ever prove sincerity to a skeptic (it's like trying to convince someone they are not ugly; any compliment is understood as just to boost morale.(

 

[rgraham666]

I love giving it. The tongue is the most touch sensitive organ on the body, and I love the feel, taste and texture of of woman there. Also love the reactions of a woman when played with; the involuntary noises, the sudden jerks and quivers, the taste when I push her into orgasm. (pauses to adjust anatomy)

Never been on the receiving end, only real relationship was with my ex-wife, and she didn't really like sex at all. She already had an ongoing relationship with the bottle.

 

[Norajane]

Love giving, love receiving. It's very intimate sex play and I can't imagine sex without it.

I've been with only one man who didn't like giving oral, and no men who didn't like receiving. Some men are really, really into giving and revel in the taste and texture and scent and my response to what they were doing. The one guy who didn't seem to enjoy it also seemed to have issues with body fluids: he wouldn't kiss me after a blowjob, and if he didn't come inside a condom, the first thing he'd do after coming is wipe, wipe, wipe everything with a towel.

Sophia, the bottom line is that men who enjoy giving, will. Like your ex, the ones who don't like it will avoid it, or will rush through it. So if he's down there, lingering with a soft, slow, wet tongue, he likes it!