Oral sex- love it or hate it?

[rgraham666]

My birthday is in August. Just so you know.

Scribbling that down.

If he's not available, I volunteer!

 

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[Boxlicker101]

I absolutely LOVE eating out a woman, everything about it, preferably until she cums at least once, as I say in most of my first-person stories. I like getting head from her too, but more as a form of foreplay unless she wants to go to a climax.

Personally, I think any man who will not eat a pussy is either gay or some kind of pervert.

Edited to add: I want to sign up to give SJ a birthday present too!!

 

[rgraham666]

Shit. Why does she only get ONE? She got a DOZEN Secret Santa gifts, after all.

Well, when's your birthday. I'm generous.

 

[sophia jane]

Shit. Why does she only get ONE? She got a DOZEN Secret Santa gifts, after all.

You know, I really like you.

 

[McKenna]

What I want to know is- do you like oral sex? Giving? Receiving? Both? I want to hear from girls and guys, please. Also, why do you like doing it? What's the appeal?
I'm hoping I can put my hangups to rest once and for all.

Jumping in late on the conversation.... (as usual!)


I like giving oral. I like learning and experimenting and eventually mastering those techniques that make my lover moan and squirm and eventually thrust upwards into my mouth while he holds my head gently with his fingers splayed through my hair...

*ahem*

I got carried away. Quite the run-on sentence though, eh?

As for receiving, I do enjoy it ... when it's done right. I'm usually pretty comfortable discussing with my lover what feels good or what would feel better. I'm very sensitive down there, almost to the point that too much direct stimulation is painful, not pleasureable. *shrug* But with open communication on both our parts about what feels good and what doesn't, I usually find it a very um, satisfying experience.

 

[zeb1094]

Scribbling that down.

If he's not available, I volunteer!

Meeeee Toooooo! I will be happy to tie a ribbon around myself and be delivered to your door step to be a present!

 

[MissBri]

 

[Munachi]

I must admit I am not the hugest fan of giving. Okay, now that is out, you can throw things at me now.

But of course I do give and I do like to give - but only if I really like the person. Like, I had several one night stands, and in those cases I could enjoy having piv sex with someone I don't know well, and I could have that person go down on me - but only on very few occasions I would give that guy a blow job. Don't know why. I guess it is something very intimate to me, in a way more intimate than other types of sex.

And yes, the truth is that I don't enjoy the act itself. I enjoy giving pleasure to someone I really like, but ... I don't know how to explain it ... it's not that big of a turn on for me. I sometimes feel strange about this, when I read here and on other forums how everyone likes giving best etc. I guess I am selfish. Don't know...

As for receiving, that I enjoy a lot, if done well... apart from masturbation it's also the only way I have come so far... But even there, if I would have to chose between piv sex and oral sex, I'd chose the first. But best is both...

 

[McKenna]

...I enjoy giving pleasure to someone I really like...

I think you hit the nail on the head with this statement. I think this is what it's about: it's a physcial act that demonstrates your feelings for someone (at least for me it is.) And yes, it's very intimate. It wouldn't be nearly so enjoyable if I didn't already have that emotional connection with someone; any intimate act I indulge in with that person only serves to deepen the connection.

And I won't throw anything at you but a . It takes courage to speak the truth. Good on you for doing so.

 

[Wildcard Ky]

I would rather give than receive. Don't get me wrong, I thoroughly enjoy being on the receiving end, but I enjoy giving better.

At the risk of sounding arrogant, I'm very good at giving. I like to experiment and find the hot spots, and the techniques that work. I like to drive her completely over the edge with my oral skills. There's a great deal of "satisfaction" for me in knowing that I've really pleased her.

 

[Boota]

My birthday is in August. Just so you know.

Mine too. Maybe we can work a gift exchange?

 

[matriarch]

Yes.

 

[sophia jane]

Mine too. Maybe we can work a gift exchange?

Now that sounds like a good plan.

 

[Munachi]

I think you hit the nail on the head with this statement. I think this is what it's about: it's a physcial act that demonstrates your feelings for someone (at least for me it is.) And yes, it's very intimate. It wouldn't be nearly so enjoyable if I didn't already have that emotional connection with someone; any intimate act I indulge in with that person only serves to deepen the connection.

And I won't throw anything at you but a . It takes courage to speak the truth. Good on you for doing so.

thanks... yes i think it has to do a lot with the connection that you have with someone... when i really like someone i'd do almost everything. if it's just a fling i am more selfish...

 

[elsol]

Receiving:

When I'm standing up and she's kneeling, it's like she's worshipping at the temple of my cock.

Do I really need to give an opinion on what I think of receiving head?

I didn't think so.

Giving:

It's a good training tool.

See I can't really survive in a relationship without the woman have a great time in bed each and every time... something about being 'emotionally unavailable'. But it takes a lot of work to a woman to the point where it's NOT a lot of work to get her off... and oral sex is one of the best tools.

My last girlfriend had your problem... it set my training schedule back two months while I got those little hangups out of my way.

Personally, i'd like to implement a new rule for men:

You are not allowed to make it more difficult for the next guy to get a woman off.

Solidarity, gentlemen, solidarity!

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

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[elsol]

Better hope she's not had a woman between her legs, either.

*yawn*

If she's not a lesbian, makes it easier.

Then she's got the experience to KNOW how good I am.

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[MissBri]

 

[Norajane]

Yeah, because you actually know how those touches make her feel, since you've got those parts...

I always think men must give better blowjobs than women because they know how it feels.

 

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[elsol]

What a cocky statement.
Yeah, because you actually know how those touches make her feel, since you've got those parts...

How hard is it to figure out what gives your partner pleasure or makes them happy?

Women always want to talk about those things... I might not have anything to say, but I am listening.

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[elsol]

I always think men must give better blowjobs than women because they know how it feels.

a) Lick his balls.

b) Make him think you love giving him head.

c) The last drop

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[MissBri]

 

[elsol]

Yep, same principle.


Perhaps so, and I'm not saying that, because you're male, you must give women terrible head. I've had great male lovers and wonderful female lovers. My point is that you were being somewhat of a cocky bastard while implying that there's something wrong with the judgement of women who have had female partners.

I'm not one of those that compares himself to crap...

So my assumption is that if a woman has had a female lover, she has an understanding of what 'good oral sex' is.

A woman who KNOWS what good sex is much easier to work with than one who has no experience in the area (good sex).

Sincerely,
ElSol