Oral sex- love it or hate it?

[Belegon]

I am all but obsessive about oral...love love love love it.

I certainly love to receive it but I have always been much more aggressive about giving it...I've gone down on more women than I've done anything else with...

The reasons are many. I love the taste and the texture of course, or I wouldn't be so enthusiastic, but there is a lot more to it. I love the control and the power of it, her reacting to my attention. I love the experimental side of it, how every woman is slightly different in how she likes things done. As someone else mentioned, I listen...

I have a wonderful memory of getting to go down on someone I cared for greatly that especially speaks to that. It was the first time I got the chance to do so, but she and I had discussed it before, and she had given some very specific commentary about the way she liked things. I remembered it as best I could and put it to use. In my memory I can hear the sounds she made as though it happened but a few minutes ago. And the way she looked at me afterward and spoke in admiration and wonder that I really was listening (she had made a comment during the earlier discussion that I had a look on my face like I was memorizing it.)

I love the feeling when she grabs my hair, when she tries to smother me in her excitement, I love the feel of her thrashing beneath me or her thighs squeezing down on my ears...I love squeezing her ass cheeks while I suck her clit into my mouth...

ummmm, yeah...sorry, got carried away. Anyway, I really really love pussy. And given the choice of only one, I'll go down on her rather then have her go down on me...but there is some arrogance there. I feel as though I am damn good at it and will get more opportunities if I am given the first one. Call me conceited if you must, but I really do take pride in my abilities.

 

[Rumple Foreskin]

What Belegon said: Me, too.

Rumple Foreskin

 

[Thoran]

Ok so I guess i'll go on with my rambling. I absolutely, positively love giving oral. It's probably the thing i love to do the most in this world. It's the smell, the taste, the positioning. When i give oral i'm in complete control. I can take her as close as i want and then back off. I get off by the looks i get, the begging for more, the sounds of her as she gets close. And then probably the best thing about giving it the wonderful treat i receive when i take her over the edge over and over again. I will always give oral unless say i'm a bit too tired after other more strenuous activities late at night.
Now as to receiving oral i've only received a few times but it sure does feel so damned good. I love it when a woman is playing with me with her tongue it is just so foreign to me that it is absolutely fantastic.
Now if given the choice of giving or receiving, i'll be between those legs faster than you can say "make me cum". hehe
But overall the best thing about giving oral is the taste/smell. I'm obsessed with those more than anything in the world. The first thing i do when i get sexual with a woman is slide a finger in and give her a quick taste. If I like it from there, not liking it has never happened so far , I'll continue down south and eat for hours if given the opportunity.

 

[Boxlicker101]

The men in AH are hardly a fair representation of men in general but I would be be willing to bet there is not one straight man here, except maybe Amicus, who doesn't love to eat pussy, and doesn't do it at every opportunity.

 

[Belegon]

The men in AH are hardly a fair representation of men in general but I would be be willing to bet there is not one straight man here, except maybe Amicus, who doesn't love to eat pussy, and doesn't do it at every opportunity.

Good point there Box...we are most likely not a very representative sample. But I do know some non-porn writing guys that feel like we do, so all hope is not lost for our gender .

As for the women? Glad to know that all y'all enjoy giving us guys pleasure, and as for our colleagues who prefer women...(well, I know at least one of you will get a real laugh out of this statement...Hi Logo! .) Seriously, what kind of a lesbian wouldn't like pussy? I mean, wouldn't that be almost unworkable? It would be like a bird that had a fear of flying....

 

[English Lady]

You know, I don't have a favourite sex act. I just don't. For me, it's what I fancy at the time which really presses my buttons, and it's never just the one thing.

I do love oral sex, but I don't need it, don't expect it, love it when I get it. I think hubby and I are probably even on the giving/receiving thing. I enjoy giving oral, it's empowering to make him whimper and purr and roar with the movements of my mouth.

I love receiving too, hubby is eager, enthusiastic and good *grins* though I can only cum once from oral sex, as I'm too sensitive there after...go on to something else for 10 minutes and come back later and I'll be fine but one at a time is all I'll manage.

My husband and I never understand this obsession with cleanliness in sex some people have. Stories often have people hoping in the shower before sex, even after sometimes. Nope, we don't get that. If we want sex, we're not going to wait, we'll get ot it then and there and *gasp* we don't feel the need to bathe straight after either.

I will kiss him after he's been down on me and vice versa-it's a turn on. I love smelling myself on his face for a while after he's been down on me, it's sooooo sexy.

It's not the only thing that gets me going, it's not the only thing that gets me to the peak of my excitement, but I love it as part of the variety

 

[hugo_sam]

I know I am late to the discussion:
My 2 cents
I LOVE giving oral. Any time. I enjoy the feel, the flavor, the texture. I'm sure a lot of it is the giving aspect, but I have always enjoyed it. Never been shy about mouth contact afterwards, or in the middle of, or whatever.

Receiving is nice but it is really not my favorite thing. When it is done mutualy it is much better on the receiving end, (al la '69') for me personally.
Never had problem kissing after receiving either.

Now the wife, likes to receive, but a couple of quick slurps is her idea of giving. And do not get my mouth anywhere near hers after I give. Nope, not happening.

I agree with others that it is very intimate and enjoyable. Fluids after are part of it, the feeling and the intamacy. IMHO

Hugo

 

[shereads]

Yes. I also like aural sex.

 

[shereads]

I would be be willing to bet there is not one straight man here, except maybe Amicus, who doesn't love to eat pussy, and doesn't do it at every opportunity.

<------ this, but with tears. And my sides hurt.

 

[eric shawn listo]

Well Sophia, I am entirely disappointed in your ex and let me assure you I would gladly make up for his negligence every day and several times a day...

...oh, I love giving and recieving. There is nothing like having a woman orgasm on your tongue. Hearing the moans from above, having those hands caressing/beating on your head, those legs stretching and squeezing, the "helplessness" of her body quivering under your mouth...oh, it doesn't hurt to insert a finger or two in that little cunny either...then just before the big event slide one up her butt...

but I digress.

 

[sophia jane]

Thanks everyone. Box, I know y'all aren't necessarily representative, but it's still good to hear nice things. Of course, now I'm wanting to get together with several of you to test out your professed skills.

 

[impressive]

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[eric shawn listo]

Thanks everyone. Box, I know y'all aren't necessarily representative, but it's still good to hear nice things. Of course, now I'm wanting to get together with several of you to test out your professed skills.

Professed? Make that Professor Oral...

 

[sophia jane]

I was thinking the same *snicker* along with a review blog.

Now there's an idea...

Actually, I've thought for a long time that men really need to come with labels or something to save us time. Like "erection problems" "hates oral" "great in bed" etc. You get the idea.

 

[Guest]

Ahh, my favorite topic.

I love giving, because I can concentrate on her orgasms, and not be distracted by my own. Ah, the control. I love staying with it for a bit after she's come.

And I love receiving. Although only a select few that ever managed to bring me off by BJ alone. Not sure what it is about me.

My only regret is I never had a girlfriend who offered a BJ when sex wasn't possible (i.e. car trips, a secluced corner a at a party etc.) or perhaps as part of a make out session before we started having sex.

 

[eric shawn listo]

I was thinking the same *snicker* along with a review blog.

Let me just say....lick...

 

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[eric shawn listo]

Eric -- Mmmm.

Mmmm....so sweet...

And since BJ's don't do Ted any good...don't waste them.....I'm right here...

 

[Guest]

And since BJ's don't do Ted any good...don't waste them.....I'm right here...

You need to read more carefully. That's not what I said.

I've had some wonderful, and memorable ones. Beach on Tahiti for one. And the best was from the sweetest, most innocent looking girl you'd never imagine being sensational at it.

 

[logophile]

Yes. I also like aural sex.

Um. Yes.
Me too.

 

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[eric shawn listo]

You need to read more carefully. That's not what I said.

I've had some wonderful, and memorable ones. Beach on Tahiti for one. And the best was from the sweetest, most innocent looking girl you'd never imagine being sensational at it.

...Oh Ted, I was just trying to sneak in there...

Imp: competing?

 

[sophia jane]

BWAHAHAHAHA!

Okay, then -- but what's good for the goose (pardon me, min) -- women would have to be labeled as well.



Eric -- Mmmm.

I have no problem with that. Let's see. My labels would say: "gives great head" "sometimes slow to orgasm" "worries too much about being pleasured" "almost always willing" "tends to be adventurous and kinky"

 

[impressive]

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[Brian34nc]

Ditto! Damn well stated!

I am all but obsessive about oral...love love love love it.

I certainly love to receive it but I have always been much more aggressive about giving it...I've gone down on more women than I've done anything else with...

The reasons are many. I love the taste and the texture of course, or I wouldn't be so enthusiastic, but there is a lot more to it. I love the control and the power of it, her reacting to my attention. I love the experimental side of it, how every woman is slightly different in how she likes things done. As someone else mentioned, I listen...

I have a wonderful memory of getting to go down on someone I cared for greatly that especially speaks to that. It was the first time I got the chance to do so, but she and I had discussed it before, and she had given some very specific commentary about the way she liked things. I remembered it as best I could and put it to use. In my memory I can hear the sounds she made as though it happened but a few minutes ago. And the way she looked at me afterward and spoke in admiration and wonder that I really was listening (she had made a comment during the earlier discussion that I had a look on my face like I was memorizing it.)

I love the feeling when she grabs my hair, when she tries to smother me in her excitement, I love the feel of her thrashing beneath me or her thighs squeezing down on my ears...I love squeezing her ass cheeks while I suck her clit into my mouth...

ummmm, yeah...sorry, got carried away. Anyway, I really really love pussy. And given the choice of only one, I'll go down on her rather then have her go down on me...but there is some arrogance there. I feel as though I am damn good at it and will get more opportunities if I am given the first one. Call me conceited if you must, but I really do take pride in my abilities.