Opinion question: cheating or not?

filet4ever

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I have an online friend. I am a married man, and said friend is a woman. Chat and some pics exchanged, I enjoy having this friend, and I think likewise for her. We have been missing each other recently, so I miss it... Is this secret friend me cheating? Is it "no harm, no foul Fine? Constructive as it is non threatening? Curious to hear the lit pov (lol) and see if anyone is looking for that at the same time...
 
I have an online friend. I am a married man, and said friend is a woman. Chat and some pics exchanged, I enjoy having this friend, and I think likewise for her. We have been missing each other recently, so I miss it... Is this secret friend me cheating? Is it "no harm, no foul Fine? Constructive as it is non threatening? Curious to hear the lit pov (lol) and see if anyone is looking for that at the same time...

Yes, you are a cheating bastard.
Quoted for the morning crew. You're welcome.
 
get an online man friend and you'll be ok. pm squibbs. he's between sugar daddies.
 
how would your wife feel? is it really worth risking losing her trust, damaging your marriage and causing her tears just to wank over some net chick?

if you can't tell her then you shouldn't do it.
 
Does your wife know about and approve of your online friend and what you're doing with her? If not, see Sinny above.
 
If you have to ask then yes you are cheating. My wife/pet knows who I talk to online. Just to make sure you know YES YOU ARE CHEATING lol. But hey if it works for you and your wife then do it. Please make sure you don't hide it. In the long run it will hurt her more later to know it was going on for so long.
 
Well, I see no reason to be redundant and post my opinion. Everyone has pretty well covered all my talking points.

Night all!
 
Thanks. She knows I have nefarious online dealings, but not who, what, where, or when. I found out about lit from her(no idea her id or whatever, you could be her but i think she is asleep)
But in the online age, is it so bad?
 
Glad I posted! A good dose of morality from somewhere that I guess I didn't expect it. (And no Pm's so far either)
 
Thanks. She knows I have nefarious online dealings, but not who, what, where, or when. I found out about lit from her(no idea her id or whatever, you could be her but i think she is asleep)
But in the online age, is it so bad?

stop being a fucking idiot, please.

if your wife knows and doesn't care then she isn't being cheated on.
 
Yes, you are a cheating bastard.
Quoted for the morning crew. You're welcome.

What she said.

Why is it easier for you to talk to a stranger rather than to talk to your choice for life?

Then again, perhaps vows mean nothing to you. Just getting laid, As if the grass is greeener

Ishmael
 
If you have to ask then yes you are cheating. My wife/pet knows who I talk to online. Just to make sure you know YES YOU ARE CHEATING lol. But hey if it works for you and your wife then do it. Please make sure you don't hide it. In the long run it will hurt her more later to know it was going on for so long.

Real Doms don't use dom in their user name or type "lol".
 
Wow...getting laid I do at home, never, ever anyone else, ever. thought that was clear? I'll simplify: what was cheating in 1994 is still cheating, where does an online, "non-physical" and "non-emotional" acquaintance fit in as far as cheating or not?
 
no, imbecile, an open relationship with the boundaries agreed by the couple in question has been an open relationship with the boundaries agreed by the couple in question since forever.
 
Wow...getting laid I do at home, never, ever anyone else, ever. thought that was clear? I'll simplify: what was cheating in 1994 is still cheating, where does an online, "non-physical" and "non-emotional" acquaintance fit in as far as cheating or not?

Ahh, you didn't clarify that this is only a business relationship.

Who the fuck do you think you're fooling, you???

Ishmael
 
What? "I award you no points, and may god have mercy on your soul" - the principal from billy Madison
 
What? "I award you no points, and may god have mercy on your soul" - the principal from billy Madison

Figure it out Sparky, I need no points from you.

You aren't here for comment, only validation of your behavior.

Keep the tread going, I'm sure you'll find some dudes that will approve.

Better yet ASSHOLE, tell your wife what's going on. Ask her opinion and approval. But you can't do that, can ya? Because all of this is occurring behind her back!!!

You've outed yourself as a sleazeball seeking support, and you dare to presume that you're going to award me points!!!!!!

You just may become the first person stupid enough, and presumptuous enough, that I ever troll.

And this is the point where you tell us that your wife "doesn't understand" you. Of course she doesn't moron, you don't bother to tell her anything of import.

Ishmael
 
Honey? is this you?
Assumption is tread=thread. I appreciate your invitation to keep it going.
I will now pray, everyday, for the rest of my life, that no one ever listens to you ever. I apologize to lit for over-estimating its potential for discourse.
 
This would be really funny, if his on-line e-Friend was his wife.
 
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