? on non-verbal flirting-help

bearlee

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For research and info, I guess I'll post this in two different locations. Is there such a thing as non-verbal flirting? For example, if a woman dresses provocatively, or in a way designed to attract attention of members of the opposite sex, is this flirting or even a form or, for my purposes, a form of exhibitionism? Doesn't sound too erotic so far, but stay with me.

Also, if one assumes a person can have an affair(unless you don't assume this part) with an emotional attachment only, ie. talking about personal things, etc. because there is no communication with his/her mate, which in turn may lead to physical contact later and that an affair can involve only physical and not necessarily an emotional attachment, can a person dressing for the excitement of having other people look at them be engaged in an affair of sorts where obviously the emotional and physical(except visual) do not come into play? If so, could an erotic story, probably loving wives or exhibitionist & voyeur, be written without physical or emotional involvement of the main character and others of the opposite and same sex just by dressing for the excitement having others look and take notice? The viewers thoughts would be known, probably verbally but not necessarily to the character. Kind of a vision of a woman as seen by men, maybe women, as "Oh, two tits and a pussy." The little quote is not mine-saw it in a cartoon once. Thanks
 
bearlee said:


Also, if one assumes a person can have an affair(unless you don't assume this part) with an emotional attachment only, ie. talking about personal things, etc. because there is no communication with his/her mate, which in turn may lead to physical contact later and that an affair can involve only physical and not necessarily an emotional attachment, can a person dressing for the excitement of having other people look at them be engaged in an affair of sorts where obviously the emotional and physical(except visual) do not come into play?

Huh?
 
I suppose it could.

I don't read those categories, though.

No feedback for you!
 
1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Of course not! Don't be ridiculous..
4. Ya think?
5. Why yes... yes it could...
6. What's her number?
7. Probably not.
 
Non-verbal flirting?


Winking, hugging, kissing, rubbing against someone, dancing provocativly, smiling just right, making eyes, leaning in close to make a man able to better smell your perfume, leaning over to give a guy a good view of your chest, crossing and uncrossing your legs to bring attention to them, licking your lips, need I go on? That's just off the top of my head.
 
I can tell I did a lousy job on framing this-and the phone number for the fictional character can be found by calling your local police station and for the "slut-cop" in the back and leave a number for 'her' to call back:D

But thanks Gilly Bean!
 
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