Non-consent

[BreadMan]

My wife has expressed interest, in nonconsent sex. I have my doughts about this one. However, I strive to please my wife.
I not sure how to act out this r/p.

What if i come home and I attempt this N/C and she is truly not in the mood and i attempt to rape her. I guess i would stop after she told me she was not in the mood. But How does one attempt this act.
Do you just set up a date a week or two in advance or just go on a wim.

Feed back needed here

 

[Hotred911]

A must for this type of r/p is a safe word. That way if she is really hurting or not in the mood she can say that and you'll know to stop.

I've never actually done the full nonconsent thing (I always give in), but I think a big part of it would be not knowing when it's going to happen.

 

[MissTaken]

YOu could simply tell her that you are setting aside a weekend for her fantasy. Dont' tell her when it will happen.

Then, she might find the anticipation adds to the experience.

You could take her as she comes in the door or even spirit her away on her way out and take her somewhere she has never been.

Yes! Make sure you have a safe word and a safe signal. Soemthing she can do if she is gagged and cant' speak.

 

[Ram Unreal]

I'm sure this may be obvious already, but when you choose safe words don't use things like "stop" or "don't". Reason being these might be used as part of the roleplay.

Odd random words that are not directly associated like, I don't know... "November" or "superstore" ...

Ah you get the idea. Just make sure it's a word that's easily remembered.

 

[MR.GGG]

The first requirement for nonconsensual sex is that you are capable of physically overpowering her. The fantasy is greta but if you sneak up on her some evening and she kicks the schnot outta you before she knows it's you then it'll likely take some of the fun out of it. This doesn't mean you have t TASER her either and poke her while she's doing the funky chicken on the ground. If it really would be a fair fight you can always use a dull knife, a fake gun, last years office Christmas party photos - whatever it takes for her to feel sufficiently intimidated to do exactly what you want her to do. THINK like a rapist. They LAST thing one of those slime want is to wrestle around on the floor with a 130lb banshee whose trying to geld them, bite out an eyeball or ram a pen into their brain through a convenient ear / nose / eyesocket / or a whole new hole! They want their victim so physically intimidated, so mentally terrified and subserviant that then they can make them do anything because the victim knows or feels that death is imminent otherwise. Your wife finds the fantasy (at least) of having that fear AND sex a real turn on.

Note to remember...if she is getting off on the fanatsy NEVER NEVER NEVER deviate FROM that fantasy until well AFTER she's cum(or cums a LOT). That would be the same as breaking tongue rythum just a second before she orgasms...she'd likely "lose it". You must mainatin the fantasy for her through to the end.

Also the safe word is good. You can set her up for anticipation by saying something like, " I'll be back at 4...why don't you have a nice shower then and we'll play when I get home. Oh. ... By the way did you hear that another rapist has escaped from the ( local ) prison. Be carefiul today." and then come home at 3:45, catch her in the shower, blindfold her, use an aftershave or cologne that you ONLY use for that scene, never say a thing in your regular voice, make sure she knows the pipe at her throat is really a loaded 12 gauge and ..."down on yer knees bitch or I'll paint the ceiling wid yer brains!"

Have fun.

One more thought... Have you made her Gspot work? Have you read the Spanking variation of the technique described in TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK? Why not (if it does work for you) do a NONconsensual GSpot / spanking thing where you are administering orgasms almost like punishment. She may say that she can't take any more. Ya? So? What's your point? I'M havng fun...and make - MAKE her cum until you want to stop.

Have more fun.

 

[Quimmy]

Hmmm... that's quite interesting.

My partner sometimes likes to be handled like a piece of meat that I'm using for my pleasure, but the ideas here are still kinda applicable, not to mention they are interesting.

If you speak a language that your wife doesn't, you could yell at her in that language to add to the "stranger raping me" aura. If she doesn't understand "Kneel, you whore." in Russian, you just manually show her the meaning.

Remember to "inspect" her body brusquely as if you were rating a used car for a potential buy. Grab her breasts roughly, give the nipples a good pinch. Bend her into the positions you want. Rapists wouldn't give oral sex, but you could roughly prod her clit and vagina to make sure she's a healthy specimen to fuck. I know my girl'd love that.

Good luck to you and your wife.

 

[bunny bondage]

to avoid a big nasty scene in which you start to force yourself upon her and she's totally not in the mood, here's what i'd suggest (as it's been done to me zillions of times and i love it) start of with the typical nilla kissing and touching. this will give her a chance to say "not now honey i'm not in the mood" and there's no big deal. if she's hot and rearing to go, that's when you can instantly switch into the r/p. go from the tender loving husband to the "rapist" by suddenly shoving her against a wall or something similar (i dont' know you guys' limits and levels of play, so i can't really give good advice on how rough you should be) but i find that this transformation of typical sex into very rough "rape" is a good way to do it. just my two cents! ^_^

 

[sweetsigh]

wear a mask, that will give an element of fear and hide any expression you might have. ..

 

[MissTaken]

Just make sure you dont' do anything that you haven't discussed as potentially erotic.

For example: if she has never expressed an interest in slapping or spanking, this role playing wouldn't be the time to try it.

Knowing what she means by non consent, is a must. Otherwise, the whole thing can back fire in your face.