No Nut November 2025

[Not Normal]

Is this actually a thing with guys? Why?

I have no idea. I ain't participating.

 

[trevorness]

Hm I have been playing with chastity. And my wife sure ain’t touching me. I could probably breeze through this!

 

[takingbacksunday]

I'm such a failure at No Nut November, I lost before the month even began!

 

[UtilityCurve]

Is this actually a thing with guys? Why?

@kinkincguy is exactly right, though I'm not sure even the most understanding women get it.

Studies have pretty well established that there is a linear correlation between frequency of ejaculation and reduced incidence of prostate cancer. As I told my wife (who died from a different kind of cancer--one which if I could have done anything to reduce the risk of would have been my absolute pleasure), "why risk it?"

Unfortunately, she did not see my logic.

N-N-N is silly. And women should say so, IMO.

 

[kinkincguy]

Only 21 times? Hell, my prostate is going to out live me by at least 20 years... sigh...

Mine too … it could compete in the prostate Olympics

 

[UtilityCurve]

Not for nothing, but I've never known a girl/woman who thought that holding back was the least bit sexy.

Ladies, speak up to prevent November from being a disappointment to you too!

 

[rodeoclown]

I am giving it a shot, hoping to find a woman to help me with it though. Wife isn't doing much with me these days anyway. Been 15 years of no sex. My hand only.

 

[JeanPanty]

I am giving it a shot, hoping to find a woman to help me with it though. Wife isn't doing much with me these days anyway. Been 15 years of no sex. My hand only.

Nice to have another guy willing to give it a shot...

 

[JeanPanty]

Any women seeing this feel free to chime in...would love a little teasing during the challenge

 

[pntyhseluvr]

Feel free to tease me into breaking down. I expect to make it until the 4th.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

Never understood it…it’s bad for your health.

This is not definitive and there is a lot of incomplete and downright wrong information out there about this. You have to read the actual studies, not what is said on the net, and you often find they are shaky at best. There is one recent study that indicates that frequent ejaculations may have some cancer-fighting benefits but it also seemed to require a LOT of ejaculations (more than once a day as I recall) and starting at a young age.

Further, many men in chastity engage in prostate milking.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

@kinkincguy is exactly right, though I'm not sure even the most understanding women get it.

Studies have pretty well established that there is a linear correlation between frequency of ejaculation and reduced incidence of prostate cancer. As I told my wife (who died from a different kind of cancer--one which if I could have done anything to reduce the risk of would have been my absolute pleasure), "why risk it?"

Unfortunately, she did not see my logic.

N-N-N is silly. And women should say so, IMO.

Please provide links to the actual studies that support this. I'm not saying you're wrong, but I've yet to see one that is definitive and/or didn't have a lot of caveats.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

Is this actually a thing with guys? Why?

I can't speak for those who practice chastity solo but I can speak to it from a couples point of view. And by chastity, I don't mean permanent denial, although some do go to that extreme.

I've written some thoughts on my off-forum blog: The Enigma of Male Chastity

It is a complicated thing that different people get different things out of but in general, a horny man is an attentive man. And the orgasms after a period of denial, especially if there has been frequent teasing, are outstanding.

Many women find the idea shocking but once they engage with their partner and see the mood and attitude changes, they are often hooked.

My wife and I usually only got one to two weeks. It is up to her.

 

[JeanPanty]

I can't speak for those who practice chastity solo but I can speak to it from a couples point of view. And by chastity, I don't mean permanent denial, although some do go to that extreme.

I've written some thoughts on my off-forum blog: The Enigma of Male Chastity

It is a complicated thing that different people get different things out of but in general, a horny man is an attentive man. And the orgasms after a period of denial, especially if there has been frequent teasing, are outstanding.

Many women find the idea shocking but once they engage with their partner and see the mood and attitude changes, they are often hooked.

My wife and I usually only got one to two weeks. It is up to her.

agree with the part of the orgasms being great after a period of denial...last year after 30 days it was unreal...

 

[pntyhseluvr]

I’ve gone several weeks but my nuts always wind up really hurting

 

[Carnevil9]

I can understand how tease and/or denial can increase the intensity of the eventual orgasm. But an entire month seems like overkill. I'm sure I would reach peak orgasm after no more than a week of abstinence.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

I can understand how tease and/or denial can increase the intensity of the eventual orgasm. But an entire month seems like overkill. I'm sure I would reach peak orgasm after no more than a week of abstinence.

You might be surprised. I've gone over three weeks and the intensity was decidedly noticeable over two weeks and two weeks is more intense than one week. But, she also teases and edges me a lot so I'm in a nearly perpetual state of arousal. And for us, there is also the attentive side beyond the orgasm intensity.

 

[bws1]

Don't get me wrong, I'm not slamming anybody who's making the commitment, but I know myself and I'm weak when it comes to the endorphin rush.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

Don't get me wrong, I'm not slamming anybody who's making the commitment, but I know myself and I'm weak when it comes to the endorphin rush.

Lots of guys use chastity cages to have a physical barrier to thwart their urges. I don't use one but I know for sure that if I was still in my 20's-30's I couldn't do it without one.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Getting set for No Nut November 2025. I'm thinking of upping the ante and wearing panties every day during the month too....

So..same ol same ol..

 

[JeanPanty]

So..same ol same ol..

not entirely...didn't wear panties every day last year

 

[bws1]

Lots of guys use chastity cages to have a physical barrier to thwart their urges. I don't use one but I know for sure that if I was still in my 20's-30's I couldn't do it without one.

Point taken. but if I had a cage I can pretty much guarantee that I'd either be using tin snips to ditch that thing. if they didn't work, there's always a dremmel.

 

[Britva415]

N-N-N is silly. And women should say so, IMO.

I'm not sure it even affects women at all.

As far as I can tell, participants are either single, or in a sexless relationship, or being femdommed anyway, in which case November's just an excuse and doesn't really impact her negatively.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Just like Kramer, I'd be the 1st one out.

 

[BabyBoomer50s]

It’s only a thing in certain religions. Lotta people post their progress on Facebook.