My wish list.

[Saint Valentine]

She should be...

...able to make me laugh.
...able to challenge me and make me see things in a different way.
...able to humble me with her compassion and grace.
...confident and self assured yet able to show vulnerability.
...aware of her sexuality and comfortable with it.
...willing to take a chance and learn from it if it doesn't work out.
...able to adore being adored.
...be honest in all things.
...be there.
...able to respect herself as much as she respects others.



Added bonuses...but in no way deal breakers.

She lives close.
She likes hockey.
She loves music.
She likes to be sung lullabies.
She likes the rain.


What's on your wish list?

 

[Chantal Marchon]

Looking for a saint?

 

[plasticman33]

You're not being slightly idealistic are you??

 

[Saint Valentine]

Looking for a saint?

*Smile* I am far from a saint. My halo is rather tarnished and thin by now.

 

[Guest]

she has to be.....
NOT a basketcase
not clingy but not cold
large real breasts
loves toys
loves sex on the beach and sex in the rain

bonus:
exotic looking
bi

 

[Saint Valentine]

You're not being slightly idealistic are you??

I do not believe I am. I met her once and will always love her. Timing conspired against us. I am confident though that another is out there.

 

[Chantal Marchon]

*Smile* I am far from a saint. My halo is rather tarnished and thin by now.

-I meant the woman- It was a pun. I was trying to be punny, and failed I see.



To have someone with all those characteristics -- well good luck, but it sounds like a good romance novel.

 

[Saint Valentine]

-I meant the woman- It was a pun. I was trying to be punny, and failed I see.



To have someone with all those characteristics -- well good luck, but it sounds like a good romance novel.

LOL. Sorry. Didn't see the question mark.

 

[Saint Valentine]

She should also appreciate romance.

 

[Chantal Marchon]

Romance is great- but I rarely receive it so I will settle for having all the dishes washed before I get home from work.

Sometimes its the small things that count.

 

[Saint Valentine]

Romance is great- but I rarely receive it so I will settle for having all the dishes washed before I get home from work.

Sometimes its the small things that count.

Yes. Little things do matter. I like phone calls or e-mails just because. Anything that lets me know she is thinking about me. I like to make someone feel special, but rarely have I got that in return.

 

[k¡tty]

You have a wonderful list St. V.


I agree with your first part of your list, and I add to it ~


- Intelligence ~ I'm not looking for Mensa material, but from someone whom I can learn from, who can learn from me and to grow with.

- Compassion for those all around him.

- Someone who can be serious when they need to be but who can be silly and laugh at themselves.

- A man who can put up with my occasional obstinance and give me a pinch of reality to bring me back.

- Someone who embraces life and all it has to hold and wears a smile on his face.. even in the face of adversity.

- He has to love and accept my son, because he is part of me.

 

[Saint Valentine]

- He has to love and accept my son, because he is part of me.

You bring up a good point. When I get involved with someone, I make it a point to ask about and get to know their children if they have them. It's a package deal.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

He has to ...

have a twisted sense of humor
be much taller and heavier than I
be willing to overpower me when I least expect it
be brutally honest
be willing to ogle girls with me *grin*
have a strong spanking hand


*thinking*

...that's a start.

 

[Riles]

HE should be or possess the following:

- tenderness without sacrificing a strong will
- reliable when faced with adversity
- compassionate without being a bleeding heart
- keen wit, sense of humour to rival my own
- an addictive smile
- feel that physical fitness is an important part of his life
- LOVE the outdoors
- adventurous
- a touch of dominance in his character
- confident in his own abilities
- recognise the difference in male and female communication styles and be willing to WORK at it.
- GOAL ORIENTED
- treat me equally in all things but worship me at the same time
- appreciate that I will stand up for him and not feel lesser of a man

 

[Saint Valentine]

She should be able to accept the fact that my best friend is female and we are very close and talk every day.

 

[Tranquility]

She should be able to accept the fact that my best friend is female and we are very close and talk every day.

My "male" best friends woman as issue with that,its called insecurity not a good thing.

 

[Tranquility]

He should be and is

He should be:
Kind
Funny
Able to deal with my joke about attitude
Willing to let me love him beyond words
Love to be spoiled
Not be afraid of hard work
HAVE a job
Be a freakwithin
Treat me as a equal
Understand I am Bi and love me this way
Love me before all others including his mother
Be a good dad
He is:
All of the above and somethings I am sure that I left out
I love you Jimmy

 

[Guest]

 

[hogjack]

Some criteria

He or she - the positives:

A handicapped parking sticker is a BIG plus
Encyclopedic knowledge of Pokemon
Automotive repair skills
Baritone voice is a plus; need help for struggling barbershop quartet


He or she or they - the negatives:

Cotton/rayon blend fetish; I can't handle it, I just can't
No more than twelve toes; beyond that I get totally freaked
Minimal earwax build-up is ok but beyond that, no way

 

[Saint Valentine]

he has just got to be able to deal with me

thats enough of a demand

and

be a hugmeister

Are you the hugger or the hugee?

 

[Saint Valentine]

She should like to cook, not for me, but with me.

 

[Rubyfruit]

You're so romantic, Saint Valentine.

*dreamy sigh*

 

[lavender]

My wish list has little to do with a partner.

...I could find a job that interested me and I could feel passionately about
...I could get ahead on all of my assignments, projects, coordination, instead of having 10 tasks looming at all times
...I could sleep
...I wouldn't be in wait mode
...I could do a do-over of the past 2 weeks.
...I could get the hell out of this place.
...I could become apathetic.

 

[Saint Valentine]

You're so romantic, Saint Valentine.

*dreamy sigh*

Thank you Ruby.