My Ideal Lover Would Be ....

Beachsyrf

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..... I thought this might be fun. And I'm a bit surprised there isn't a thread like this, yet. 🤷🏼‍♂️

If you could create your perfect fantasy lover or scenario, what would that be?

There are so many variations to choose from ... gender, orientation, age, characteristics you desire, what they might desire .... and perhaps you're blessed to have all that in your current S.O. .. but if you could build your ideal lover who, what would they be like? 😍

Of course a picture is worth a thousand words but let's try to be descriptive too. And let's keep it legal and comply with Lit. guidelines ....

Happy Creating ..... 😉
 
Although I am very happily attached to my gf of many years and we have a healthy & happy love life, like most, I occasionally appreciate and fantasize about a little variety ....

I don't mean cheating, but imagining different scenarios. In fact, one of my go-to scenarios is sharing her, Stag/Vixen-style, usually in some holiday play-cation setting .... 😈

For one thing, I have a hopeless weakness for large breasts. I try very hard to maintain eye contact in the presence of busty women in conversation or in public. I mostly fail. I have yet to be scolded or slapped ....

My gf has nice (augmented 36 DD) breasts with sexy areolas and protruding nipples and I worship them when she's in the mood ... I have recently encouraged her to eschew the bra and that is a work in progress. She works out every day, sometimes twice a day! and is quite fit for her 60 years. I love the looks she gets at our nude beach in the summer. 😎

But I find myself sexually attracted to middle-aged BBW's. I find full-figured women with big breasts, large areolae and a full bush (my gf shaves) to be very sexy. I'd love to have sex with a woman like that.

I also adore Asian women, particularly Japanese women. I've had sex with a few Japanese women in my life and it has been great. I often think about experiencing that again ....

There are other types of partners & encounters I think about from time to time but they, like my holiday hot wife visuals, remain fantasies ... for now. 😉
 

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My Top Three fantasy women...

Number one: The "librarian" or "artist". The nerd intellectual who appears to be buttoned up and very proper. Likes in depth conversation and is somewhat quiet in groups. When we are alone she gives great advice and has a sense on who should be avoided. In the bedroom will open up a world of fantasies and desires that would shock everyone who knows her.

Number two: The "woman next door" or "best friend". She was a cheerleader because a friend dragged her into it. Overall she made the best of it but was never picked as the top one. She actually disliked the other cheerleaders but never told anyone. She'd have a wide range of interests and is very adaptable. She outgoing without ever wanting to run anything. She's always the number two when it comes to directing things. Yet, the director is always asking her what they should do or trusts her to get things accomplished. She always has a smile and everyone "likes" her. Most men would never pick her out as the top attractive woman they knew. She's surprised when she finds out how attracted I am to her. In the bedroom she very seldom makes "suggestions" but very rarely says "no". Her kink level matches a partner. The balance, she is a good communicator and has a backbone.

Number three: The cool jock girl. A straight woman who is into sports. The woman who had three older brothers and has a backbone. She's the one who organizes everything. Is willing to argue if necessary but doesn't like too. Doesn't understand why lesbians are attracted to her. Yet, when she chooses to is feminine. She's intense and loyal. In the bedroom often times leads. Is willing to suggest anything. Says no but doesn't hold it against you. She'd take your kink level up a notch while respecting your boundaries.
 
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Tall thin blonde...like my wife
Modeled...like my wife
Outdoor person hike, winter hike, camp in any conditions miles from know where..like my wife
Runner, gym, pilates...like my wife
Semi pro cook, ,,..like my wife
Great mother and grand mother..like my wife
Loves fucking Loves oral and has in the past loved fucking someone else
And loves big cocks once in a while unlike the one I have

Guess I'll keep her around
 
Looks is the easy part for me. I have two distinct types - either tall, slim, small boobs, or shorter and curvier figure. I love long hair. I tend to like women that I would describe as being tweedy - minimal make-up, country clothes, confident without being loud.

Shared tastes, a slightly weird sense of humour, and a bit of chemistry would be nice.

Reasonably fit and can do the amount of walking a lot of my favourite activities involve. I'm the sort who will schlep across three fields to look at something, or considers a 3 mile hike the proper follow up to lunch.

I would love someone who communicates, is orderly, schedules things.

A healthy sex drive. A lovely bonus would be just a little bit of kink so that it isn't always cunnilingus, missionary, cuddle, fall asleep. However, there is a lot to be said for fairly vanilla but very willing.

That all goes out of the window when I think about my Aspie Girl. She haunts me.
 
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I can best express this using classic porn performers.

Give me Janey Robbins, with Christy Canyon's tits, and Nina Hartley's ass. (circa 1985)

Or give me my wife with Janey Robbins' sex drive and open mind.
 
Someone who is intelligent, kind, open to new experiences, and filthy-minded as all hell.

In a perfect world, all that and curvy with a nice ass.
 
Personality would be artsy, intelligent, sensitive, dark sense of humor, likes music (not just one or two genres but knows more than just what he hears), kinky

Looks: A man with long hair, at least shoulder length. An average to muscular build. Tattoos. Slightly effeminate, but nothing like a drag queen or a femboy. May or may not have piercings.
 
A confident, thoughtful male over 60 who is well aware of his baggage.
So close, but Id be lying if I claimed to be sufficiently confident to meet your standards LOL. I am all too aware of my baggage, which is the reason for the confidence issues LOL. In few words you made a very insightful choice.
 
My ex wife really was wonderful, if it weren't for issues that ended up being explained by some untreatable mental illness, Id want her back.
 
...Is my amazing hotwife. But with our lifestyle amped up. Meaning my wife expanding her sexual horizons to include more men. I’m thinking more regular lovers. And maybe a few one nighters thrown in there.
 
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