Men's Epiphany of Sex

[Guest]

I almost entered this as a post to Fem's "things that make you go groan" but decided it might be a threadjack.

When I was a young, there was a moment when sexuality hit me in one moment. I went into 7th grade math class not at all interested in girls or sex, and came out able to think of nothing else ever again. In those 42 minutes, my life changed.

I've talked to other men who have said they had the same experience. A friend, a little league coach, tells stories about boys having that epiphany in the middle of the game.

I still remember the girls name. I was looking at her as she walked to the front of the room. Suddenly, I realized she was shaped in the most awesome way, and moved, oh wow, how she moved.

By the end of the period, I was not only planning on attending an upcoming dance I'd previously had no interest in, but was making lists of the girls I'd ask to dance.

Guys : did you have a moment like that?

 

[Rumple Foreskin]

I still remember the girls name. I was looking at her as she walked to the front of the room. Suddenly, I realized she was shaped in the most awesome way, and moved, oh wow, how she moved.

By the end of the period, I was not only planning on attending an upcoming dance I'd previously had no interest in, but was making lists of the girls I'd ask to dance.

Guys : did you have a moment like that?

Not yet, but I keep hoping.

Rumple Foreskin

 

[xssve]

I think I was about 5, in the bathroom, with a couple of the neighbor girls.

 

[TheeGoatPig]

Nope. It was more gradual for me. I couldn't tell you when it it started or even if it has completely stopped yet.

 

[S-Des]

Mine started so young, there was never an epiphany. I do remember seeing High Ballin' (a really bad movie about truckers fighting mobsters to stay in business) at the theatre with my older brother, which included a scene where Helen Shaver got out of bed with her back to the camera, giving a quick look at her ass. She turned around and I saw BREASTS!!!!

 

[Guest]

Helen Shaver got out of bed with her back to the camera, giving a quick look at her ass. She turned around and I saw BREASTS!!!!

For me, that would be Michael's Sicilian wife in "The Godfather".

 

[Quiet_Cool]

For me, that would be Michael's Sicilian wife in "The Godfather".

Nah, the alien vampire in Lifeforce did it for me. I don't know how that videotape survived my early teens.

As for one moment, no. A series of less-motivational moments, but I still go through that. I see the girl who has my attention, then I go through the "hmmm..." stage, then I'm usually distracted by another girl in the next moment. It sucks, since my focus is rarely on one girl long enough to get anywhere.

What can I say, I'm a whore.

Q_C

 

[amicus]

I almost entered this as a post to Fem's "things that make you go groan" but decided it might be a threadjack.

When I was a young, there was a moment when sexuality hit me in one moment. I went into 7th grade math class not at all interested in girls or sex, and came out able to think of nothing else ever again. In those 42 minutes, my life changed.

I've talked to other men who have said they had the same experience. A friend, a little league coach, tells stories about boys having that epiphany in the middle of the game.

I still remember the girls name. I was looking at her as she walked to the front of the room. Suddenly, I realized she was shaped in the most awesome way, and moved, oh wow, how she moved.

By the end of the period, I was not only planning on attending an upcoming dance I'd previously had no interest in, but was making lists of the girls I'd ask to dance.

Guys : did you have a moment like that?

~~~

I think this is an excellent topic for discussion. It reminds me of a small short film, artsy thing I saw, some time ago about a boy on a Caribbean Island, he was a pre teen, I think he looked upon a girl and was transfixed by her. He climbed to the top of his small thatched hut and sat there for days..."She fills my eyes..."was all he could say.

I wrote a short story last spring about a flibbertigibber teen girl, social creature, flitting here and there who was likewise smitten and changed her entire life.

I think it is a writer's paradise to consider what is going on in the human mind when such an unplanned event occurs and try to fictionalize it, I know I enjoy just attempting to get a piece to fly.

amicus...

Edited to add...not to promote a story, it's on another site, but as ideas for writing? http://storywrite.com/story/70767

 

[SheDevilShay]

Nope. It was more gradual for me. I couldn't tell you when it it started or even if it has completely stopped yet.

well I am a girl, so I can't say.. but this is how it was for me with men...

I remember staring at girls and getting made fun of as early as 3rd grade... and I still have many bi tedencies.. and would prefer females I think if I hadn't found a man worth marrying.

 

[Handprints]

Carolyn Delorme, sixth grade. Smiled at me on the first day of classes and I understood why people got married. The other stuff I was a little slower to pick up on...

H

 

[rengadeirishman]

i was in fifth grade, and there was a girl named alice. She was so much more intelligent and mature then other girls, and she captivated me. I swore id marry her.

Course now shes 20, and in a very committed relationship with this guy George who is a great guy, and I am very happy for her. We still hang out once in awhile, and ive definitely, for the most part, giving up on that fifth grade fascination.

now to bang a u on memory lane and make that left on Beer boulevard


mmmmmmm, beer.

 

[elsol]

Guys : did you have a moment like that?

Three of them:

1. California on the bus to the beach. My little brother, my cousin and I were being OBNOXIOUS like only boys can really be in a crowded bus. The bus stops and this... woman, before that they were girls and the adult people that aren't boys, got on the bus.

Short, curvy, with jeans painted to her hips.

GONE!!!

2. The episode where Wonder Woman gets captured by the Nazi and is tied up!

That one is so bad that I don't dare go too far down the bondage road.

PS. It was made even worse by the fact that my freshman year of college, the floor preceptor looks just like Linda Carter.

3. The episode where the Off-Think aliens try to strip Wilma Darling in Buck Rogers.

Commercial! NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

 

[TxRad]

An epiphany no.... It was more like a mugging.... Her name was, Dorthy Ann Thomas and she took no prisoners...... She barely left me alive.....

 

[Brute_Force]

I never had an "epiphany." I just knew from the get-go that women were the shiznit. I liked how they smelled and felt when I was a wee lad. It just progressed from there.

 

[3113]

Wow. I had no idea that the transformation could be so sudden in guys. I tend to think girls are a little more uniform. You reach the age of nine or ten and suddenly, non-threatening, semi-androgynous guys in boy bands become all you can think and talk about

 

[Stella_Omega]

Wow. I had no idea that the transformation could be so sudden in guys. I tend to think girls are a little more uniform. You reach the age of nine or ten and suddenly, non-threatening, semi-androgynous guys in boy bands become all you can think and talk about

And five years later, it becomes threatening, semi-androgynous guys in bands...

 

[Chantilyvamp]

Wow. I had no idea that the transformation could be so sudden in guys. I tend to think girls are a little more uniform. You reach the age of nine or ten and suddenly, non-threatening, semi-androgynous guys in boy bands become all you can think and talk about

lol, for me it was never boy bands. Hell no it was of of my older brothers best friends. When I was 14 he walked in with his boots and cowboy hat, tipped his hat at me and said howdy and I could have sworn my legs werent really there. Before that there was no interest at all. After that I started riding in the rodeo just to see the cowboys.

p.s~ those gowgirls werent that bad either

 

[Selena_Kitt]

I think I was that girl in 3rd grade for a kid named Michael... something... he would push other boys out of the way whenever it was my turn to go outside and bang the erasers in order to be my partner... (yeah yeah I get the metaphor there lol)... I knew for sure, though, when he gave me a little heart necklace as a gift on Valentine's Day. I didn't like him at all, and was embarrassed by the attention, and I'm pretty sure I broke poor Michael what's his name's heart...

Hope he found a good one...

 

[Stella_Omega]

lol, for me it was never boy bands. Hell no it was of of my older brothers best friends. When I was 14 he walked in with his boots and cowboy hat, tipped his hat at me and said howdy and I could have sworn my legs werent really there. Before that there was no interest at all. After that I started riding in the rodeo just to see the cowboys.

p.s~ those gowgirls werent that bad either

It was always musicians for me.

... The boy I knew tipped his pants-- pulled them right off- and said "howdy." He did this every time he got drunk. He had such a gorgeous ass... Dimples in each nether cheek...

 

[Chantilyvamp]

It was always musicians for me.

... The boy I knew tipped his pants-- pulled them right off- and said "howdy." He did this every time he got drunk. He had such a gorgeous ass... Dimples in each nether cheek...

I didnt hit the muscian stage until university. But had one dropped his pants like that and had an ass as described I'm sure I would have got there a lot quicker

 

[Guest]

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[impressive]

I think I was that girl in 3rd grade for a kid named Michael... something... he would push other boys out of the way whenever it was my turn to go outside and bang the erasers in order to be my partner... (yeah yeah I get the metaphor there lol)... I knew for sure, though, when he gave me a little heart necklace as a gift on Valentine's Day. I didn't like him at all, and was embarrassed by the attention, and I'm pretty sure I broke poor Michael what's his name's heart...

Hope he found a good one...

*nods* Albert Miller. Second grade. I can still feel the wind in my hair as I ran from him on the playground.


Now, MY epiphany came (literally) with my childhood best friend, Holly, a couple years later.

 

[deathlynx]

I'll be honest, there never was a moment like that with me...And I don't think this is jsut a case of my horrid memory either...I understood about sex and whatnot, and could appreciate women's bodies, but it never quite sank in to the point where I couldn't think of anything else...

Then again there was a reason I considered myself "a-sexually bisexual" in high school...I could appreciate and care for men and women equally, but had absolutely no real sex drive...

 

[3113]

And five years later, it becomes threatening, semi-androgynous guys in bands...

And semi-bearded, semi-androgynous guys in threatening bands...who your father hates

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

Eight grade, watching "Halloween" with a female friend who my mom was watching while her parents were out of town. There was a scene where a nurse at teh hospital got topless and was soaking in a hot tub. I made the connection between the actress and Lisa and had to cover my lap with a pillow. When we went swimming the next day I was enthralled and just stared at her for hours.

her family moved the next month.