Men (and women): Do you like fingering women? Women: do you enjoy getting fingered?

[lilminx]

Yes, this is a serious question. I love the way it feels when my lover (general term) puts his fingers inside of me, sliding in and out, playing with me. It feels even better if he's going down on me while he's doing it.

However, it seems that many men don't take the time to do it that much. Earlier tonight, I had to take the guy's hand and practically cram his finger in my cunt while I was sucking his cock in order for him to do it. I hated having to do that, but I wasn't getting any form of stimulation, and I needed it.

Maybe it's just me? Is it possible that other women don't enjoy it, and so the guy that I'm with doesn't think that I will either? I'd like some input (no pun intended) on this topic.

 

[lobito]

I don't much mind being the fingerred, nor doing the fingering.

 

[Summery]

I answered this a while back in the How To Section. This is a copy and paste of that.


I very much enjoy being fingered by my lover. I love it best when he spontaneously and while in public places, finds a way to slip his fingers inside of me.
Deep probing, and expert fingers wriggling inside of me!

I am really surprised that no one so far has mentioned having their ass fingered.
Nothing will send me over the edge quicker and into orgasmic bliss, than when my lover goes down on me...and while fingering me and giving me a good tongue lashing, he inserts his little finger into my ass. Drives me absolutely wild!!!

 

[Juspar Emvan]

*gasp*

A serious question, I was waiting for a bait an switch. Surely there is no guy who doesn't like the way a womans wet insides caress his fingers, hungering for him, sucking him inside. Grasping, gasping.

 

[lobito]

I am really surprised that no one so far has mentioned having their ass fingered.

um, see above! ^

 

[Lasz]

SummerRose that is it!!!

You are officially my flavor of the week, maybe Month!

 

[lilminx]

I am really surprised that no one so far has mentioned having their ass fingered.
Nothing will send me over the edge quicker and into orgasmic bliss, than when my lover goes down on me...and while fingering me and giving me a good tongue lashing, he inserts his little finger into my ass. Drives me absolutely wild!!!

SR, I love that too, but I was wondering strictly about vaginal fingering. Ass fingering is different, I think. You pretty much know something- a finger, tongue, cock, toy, etc.- is going to go in your pussy (in most circumstances)when you're in a sexual situation, but with anal, you're just not sure. It's considered more "taboo" by some and if it does happen, it's an added bonus- well, for me, anyway.


BTW, I'm not sure if I'm making any sense at all- I am so overtired, so please forgive meif I'm babbling.

 

[Calamity Jane]

I love the way it feels when my lover (general term) puts his fingers inside of me, sliding in and out, playing with me. It feels even better if he's going down on me while he's doing it.

DITTO

I very much enjoy being fingered by my lover. I love it best when he spontaneously and while in public places, finds a way to slip his fingers inside of me.

DITTO

Nothing will send me over the edge quicker and into orgasmic bliss, than when my lover goes down on me...and while fingering me and giving me a good tongue lashing, he inserts his little finger into my ass. Drives me absolutely wild!!!

DITTO

Thanks chickies! You saved me lots of typing!

 

[Summery]

SR, I love that too, but I was wondering strictly about vaginal fingering. Ass fingering is different, I think. You pretty much know something- a finger, tongue, cock, toy, etc.- is going to go in your pussy (in most circumstances)when you're in a sexual situation, but with anal, you're just not sure. It's considered more "taboo" by some and if it does happen, it's an added bonus- well, for me, anyway.


BTW, I'm not sure if I'm making any sense at all- I am so overtired, so please forgive meif I'm babbling.

Sorry Minx you are tired. My answer was based on what I posted in the How To Section....that is why the part about fingering my ass was mentioned.
Hope you get some rest sweetie.

 

[Mr. Bootie]

Yes lilminx Summer, and Pagancowgirl

There are plenty of us that not only like it, but consider doing things like that as just a part of our lovemaking. Even if it's quick, somethings you just don't ignore. Yes, seeing a woman squirm under my touch is a complete turn on. If I can please with my fingers, just think of what I can do with other things. Or if not recovered, satisfaction can still be accomplished.


kgboot

 

[RhumbRunner13]

Fingering.......

I learned this many years ago but not necessarily in the proper order......a man, or I guess a woman, should finger a woman in the exact same way that he or she would tongue a woman.

Sorry, I couldn't help jumping in on that one!

RhumbRunner

 

[Svedish_Chef]

I LOVE doing it... except when they try and break your wrist when cumming...

Now that does hurt

 

[mig]

Love it

But as my fingers cramp a lot I have to use my tongue more.

it.

 

[curvacious]

I like it. I have the some of my most intense g-spot orgasms that way.

 

[rexfelis]

Fingering

I love to play with my food before I eat it. And while I eat it too. Fingering a woman is such fun!

 

[Rawhide_101]

Love it!

Fingering is another great method of satisfying a gal. Not to mention the feel of the woman's juices on my fingers and hand. Just one more way to reach the big o...

Anytime, anywhere I say!

 

[riff]

Oh Yes.

Doggamn!

This post reminds me of an episode on a couch I had not long ago. I get hot at just the thought of it- even more hot when I recall the look on her face as she laid across my lap and looked over her shoulder at me and looked back at me.

~looks down~ Yep, got a bOner, just like that.

I saw your response in another post about fetishes where I asked if eating pussy could be a fetish.

Maybe I just have a pussy fetish. And how convenient for us that nature has put that cute little butthole right next to it.

I have a fantasy I call the buffet fantasy. I really should write about it sometime. A long buffet table and on it are exquisite dishes of every kind on their hands and knees with their pretty undersides faced up to the sun like sunflowers. A butler follows me along the table with a tray to hold my glass of champagne- along with a few dildos and what-nots. The point being that make my way down the buffet sampling, licking fingering, and prodding to my heart's content. A little pussy here, a butthole there, a finger here, my tongue there.

You get the picture.

What can I say. I love anything to do with it.

 

[HughJ]

Love to finger

I just love the feel of my lover's love hole around my fingers, my favourite is having started generally rubbing around the clitoris and getting them wet is to slip two fingers inside, hook them round and find that little g spot pad to massage. then slide my fingers either side of it until i feel it swell - is amazing how the inside of the vagina seems to get an erection - then apply morr pressure from the finger tips onto the engorged g- spot. I have made many women gush like this and some ejaculate for the first time !

making a woman cum like this before entering with my (by Now) rock hard cock is just heaven.

HughJ.

 

[Carmen]

I’m lucky my boyfriend has really long and strong fingers and he loves using them on me.

There is nothing like the feeling of slick fingers in my pussy. It’s good both as foreplay, middle play, and after play

 

[tn_8tiv]

Re: Men (and women): Do you like fingering women? Women: do you enjoy getting fingered?

Yes, this is a serious question. I love the way it feels when my lover (general term) puts his fingers inside of me, sliding in and out, playing with me. It feels even better if he's going down on me while he's doing it.

However, it seems that many men don't take the time to do it that much. Earlier tonight, I had to take the guy's hand and practically cram his finger in my cunt while I was sucking his cock in order for him to do it. I hated having to do that, but I wasn't getting any form of stimulation, and I needed it.

Maybe it's just me? Is it possible that other women don't enjoy it, and so the guy that I'm with doesn't think that I will either? I'd like some input (no pun intended) on this topic.

Yes, I do enjoy the feel of my lover's hot, wet pussy and I agree, especially when I'm performing oral on her. This is an excellent way of learning more about her wants and needs - how she responds to g-spot massage. Some of the most intense orgasms I have witnessed has been the result of a combination of oral stimulation of her clit while fingering her vagina and inserting my little finger in her little pucker asshole. Two fingers deep in a woman's pussy, a tongue on her clit and a massage of the area between with the thumb seems to really excite a woman.

I can't believe the guy you refer to from last night didn't take the initiative and give you the fingering you deserved. By the way, did he go down on you?

 

[Beethoven'sFire]

I thought I'd just be contradictory and say that I do not enjoy being fingered.

It does absolutely nothing for me, and only makes me feel ackward (because I feel like it SHOULD be doing something for me...)

I wouldn't say that in my experience the man have done anything wrong. How could so many? I think its just something I don't enjoy.

 

[daughter]

Good post

lilminix--

I hear you. One of things I miss from petting in my high school days, were those probing fingers.

I wish grown men realized just how pleasing it is to be stroked, and teased with his fingers. Penetration is on the low scale of enjoyment, but in the right sequence of stimulation, it's very nice. One of my favorite fantasies is having a man rub his hand along the outside of my panties, trace the outlines with his fingers and then deftly slip a finger inside my panties and stroke my vagina more, lightly creating friction on my clit. Ohweeeeeeeeeeeee!

Sorry about that. Got carried away.

I thought I was weird. Thanks for bringing this up.

Peace,

daughter

 

[Notme2]

Yes. There is nothing like having your fingers deep inside your partners body. My current GF likes me to use my fingers in both her holes at once, she really gets off on it. Since she likes it so much I like doing it for her.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

lilminx don't know never done it.

But sounds like fun, i've thought of it many times.

watching a movie, her sitting infront of me holding her. Then my hands wonder fingers start probing and proding.

sounds fun.

 

[alltherage]

I love it. I especially love having my nipples licked and sucked while my lover plays with my clit. I love that I have to move to and adjust to have a finger slip in me. I love the tease of wanting more but not being able to get it because or the position.

I love being fingered during oral. A pair of wiggling and turning fingers deep inside me combined with my lover sucking on my clit, pulling on it, then releasing, then licking so lightly drives me to the brink. If someone really wants to leave me in a puddle at that point all they would have to do is insert a thumb in my bum and they will have it. God I love that.