Men (and women): Do you like fingering women? Women: do you enjoy getting fingered?

[lisalove]

yes (see name) wink wink.

I particularly love being draped over my partners' lap while he massages my ass and fucks me with his finger.

oh yes it just feels soooo good!

 

[Calamity Jane]

I LOVE doing it... except when they try and break your wrist when cumming...

Now that does hurt

Laughing
My
Ass
Off!

Kung Fu Grip Pussy, Indeed!

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

I have mentioned at least once that this is kind of a fetish for me; I love laying next to a woman with her soft smooth leg between mine, sucking on her breasts, kissing her, tongueing her ears, while I am lazily fingering her pussy. I could do that for hours and I can cum that way - especially if she is cumming too.

What I really like, that I haven't heard anyone mention yet, is having the woman help; I like placing her fingers inside her, then putting my hand on top of hers and my fingers alongside hers in her pussy. Something about feeling her fingers in there too.

Of course, her other hand should be busy fingering me!

 

[seXieleXie]

i think maybe i need to take a break from lit until i can get laid. threads like this are seriously torture at this point. *le sigh*

that being said i love to be fingered by someone who knows what s/he is doing, and i've never fingered a man but i enjoyed fingering women when too. there is a lot more control involved when using fingers as opposed to a dildo or dick. it's so sexy to be able to watch your partner's responce when you make a minute difference in how you're using your fingers. since i can't feel it any other way, this is the only way for me to be "inside" a woman as she cums, feel the orgasm pulse through her, know i caused that pleasure.

 

[sigh]

i love both fingering and being fingered...

it's a huge part of my sex life

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

i think maybe i need to take a break from lit until i can get laid. threads like this are seriously torture at this point. *le sigh*

No - you just need to get laid!

i enjoyed fingering women

Here is what we should try - it would be even more fun; you finger a woman from one side, and I will finger her from the other side, and we can suckle on her breasts from either side. I think that would be a lot of fun - what do you think?

 

[photographer]

Fingers

To lie, naked, side by side, maybe reading, maybe watching TV, and gently stroking my ladies cunt lips, insistently, but softly, and feeling her get soaking wet, is the most wonderful feeling and a complete and total turn-on for me.

As far as I am concerned, fingering my lover is an integral aprt of making love.

There's nothing better than that warm, slick wetness that lets you know that you're doing the right thing and leads to explosive orgasms.

It's part of teasing and caressing, and I love doing both!

 

[april-wine]

I love it. I especially love having my nipples licked and sucked while my lover plays with my clit. I love that I have to move to and adjust to have a finger slip in me. I love the tease of wanting more but not being able to get it because or the position.

that being said i love to be fingered by someone who knows what s/he is doing, and i've never fingered a man but i enjoyed fingering women when too. there is a lot more control involved when using fingers as opposed to a dildo or dick. it's so sexy to be able to watch your partner's responce when you make a minute difference in how you're using your fingers. since i can't feel it any other way, this is the only way for me to be "inside" a woman as she cums, feel the orgasm pulse through her, know i caused that pleasure.

What they said............damnnnnnnnn I need a shower now........

 

[seXieleXie]

No - you just need to get laid!

is that an offer oh wait.... it's snowing here and you don't like snow. damn :-\

Here is what we should try - it would be even more fun; you finger a woman from one side, and I will finger her from the other side, and we can suckle on her breasts from either side. I think that would be a lot of fun - what do you think?

hmmm.... who gets which side? actually i think i want to be the one in the middle.... and can i be tied up to? pretty please?

 

[lilminx]

Re: Re: Men (and women): Do you like fingering women? Women: do you enjoy getting fingered?

Wow- a lot of interesting (and very steamy) responses!

I can't believe the guy you refer to from last night didn't take the initiative and give you the fingering you deserved. By the way, did he go down on you?

Yes, he did go down on me, but not for as long as I would have liked. He claims to enjoy doing it, but lastnight just wasn't as good as it had been on the other occasions I had been with him. I kind of felt like he thought his needs were a priority over mine, and I wasn't too thrilled with that.
I think that some men have no idea what "dominance" means- they think that it gives them the right to get off without caring too much about the other person's needs.

Originally posted by daughterI hear you. One of things I miss from petting in my high school days, were those probing fingers.

I thought I was weird. Thanks for bringing this up.

Lol- I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. Don't get me wrong- I love actual intercourse, and I absolutely relish being eaten, but I think sometimes men lose sight of other things because they are concentrating too hard on sex and cunnilingus.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

is that an offer oh wait.... it's snowing here and you don't like snow. damn :-\

With three people in the bed I imagine it would be best if it was cold outside - otherwise it could get a little too hot in the bedroom.

hmmm.... who gets which side?

I like to attack from the left side so I can use my right hand, but we can switch off.

actually i think i want to be the one in the middle....

You will have to take turns - you and the other lady can flip a coin for who goes first.

and can i be tied up to?

Sure, why not - that makes it that much more fun.

pretty please?

If you insist.

 

[Mellon Collie]

I have mentioned at least once that this is kind of a fetish for me; I love laying next to a woman with her soft smooth leg between mine, sucking on her breasts, kissing her, tongueing her ears, while I am lazily fingering her pussy. I could do that for hours and I can cum that way - especially if she is cumming too.

What I really like, that I haven't heard anyone mention yet, is having the woman help; I like placing her fingers inside her, then putting my hand on top of hers and my fingers alongside hers in her pussy. Something about feeling her fingers in there too.

Of course, her other hand should be busy fingering me!

*Swoon*

 

[Thumper]

Fingered!

Never had to finger a woman before..

But I would if I saw her do the crime.

*as Gomer Pyle on Andy Griffith*
"Citizens arrayest, citizens arrayest!"

 

[seXieleXie]

*Swoon*

hmmm..... perhaps MC could be the third participant in the other fantasy STG mentioned excellent....excellent

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

hmmm..... perhaps MC could be the third participant in the other fantasy STG mentioned excellent....excellent

Hmmmm....

*bringing up a browser to see how much airline tickets cost for Seattle to the East Coast*

 

[Mellon Collie]

hmmm..... perhaps MC could be the third participant in the other fantasy STG mentioned excellent....excellent

Perhaps, we owe each other a play date since Cheffie so eloquently prohibited me from being in the orgy.

And as for STG, well it's obvious how adorable he is.



I hear he has great legs.

 

[TN_Vixen]

Re: Men (and women): Do you like fingering women? Women: do you enjoy getting fingered?

However, it seems that many men don't take the time to do it that much.

You are not alone. heh

Seriously, it's true. I can remember (vaguely, since I've blocked most of the experiences out) my ex husband using his fingers a handful of times during sex... and we were together for almost 8 years!

And whoever said that they like being fingered, but only by someone who does it right - is 100% on the mark as well. I don't know about most women, but I don't like the guy twising his fingers inside... and I don't like it when he does it and presses his fingers down (towards the ass instead of towards the abdomen) either.

A woman's g-spot is located about an inch or so inside her vagina and on the upper wall. Getting fingered by someone who knows what he/she is doing is one of the most intense experiences I can imagine.

Good thread, minx.

 

[BigDawg69]

I for one love to finger a lady. The best time is while I am !
I find that clever use of my long fingers in conjunction with the motions of my tongue and teeth cna set off a flood, and the fingers only help lap that much more. It is very important to pay attention to the lady and her responses. Does she want it deeper, more bend at the knuckle, additional fingers, faster or slower, all clues she gives that you must be in touch enough and observent enough to see and understand. That moan means more, harder, that arched back means slow down but just liek that right in that spot. A few screams and the back of her head reaching her ass means I almost done and done a fairly good job, but I'll do better next time!

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Perhaps, we owe each other a play date since Cheffie so eloquently prohibited me from being in the orgy.

He did?!?! Where??

How dare he!!

And as for STG, well it's obvious how adorable he is.

I hear he has great legs.

Well... they are long, as are my fingers.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

I for one love to finger a lady. The best time is while I am !
I find that clever use of my long fingers in conjunction with the motions of my tongue and teeth cna set off a flood, and the fingers only help lap that much more. It is very important to pay attention to the lady and her responses. Does she want it deeper, more bend at the knuckle, additional fingers, faster or slower, all clues she gives that you must be in touch enough and observent enough to see and understand. That moan means more, harder, that arched back means slow down but just liek that right in that spot. A few screams and the back of her head reaching her ass means I almost done and done a fairly good job, but I'll do better next time!

I'm weak just thinking about it

 

[BigDawg69]

I'm weak just thinking about it

Is that weak or wet?

 

[WhiteRose]

Re: Good post

I wish grown men realized just how pleasing it is to be stroked, and teased with his fingers. Penetration is on the low scale of enjoyment, but in the right sequence of stimulation, it's very nice. One of my favorite fantasies is having a man rub his hand along the outside of my panties, trace the outlines with his fingers and then deftly slip a finger inside my panties and stroke my vagina more, lightly creating friction on my clit. Ohweeeeeeeeeeeee!

Oooo yes!

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Is that weak or wet?

weak knees and wet, you know me too well

 

[lickerish]

Mmmm.. new guy, a little shy.. started having sex but it wasn't doing anything for me. We fell asleep in each other arms.. I woke up, out of the blue, to my grasping his hand out of raw desire, and guiding his fingers into myself.. (he was well awake by this time).. a couple of vigorous thrusts in and out.. and I instantly had a finger-gripping orgasm. Afterward I fell into a blissful sleep. He fell asleep with a grin on his face.

ahhh.

 

[lavender]