Masturbation Tips

[TiteCunt]

hey, im a new member here, and i have a question for all the ladies out there, i read all these erotic stories and watch some porno here and there, i get wet, hot and bothered but no matter what i try i cannot get myself off, does anyone have any helpful tips?
it mite or mite not matter that i am a virgin?

 

[kaycee217]

http://www.the-clitoris.com/

Take a look there, it might give you some ideas. There are many different ways to please yourself. From electric toothbrushes, rolled up towels, pillows, couches, shower heads, hair brush handles, and of course your fingers. Some will work better than others and there are many other ways I'm sure I haven't mentioned.

Don't pressure yourself; explore and learn

Being a virgin doesn't mean that you can't have an orgasm.

 

[KinkyBoyUK]

hey, im a new member here, and i have a question for all the ladies out there, i read all these erotic stories and watch some porno here and there, i get wet, hot and bothered but no matter what i try i cannot get myself off, does anyone have any helpful tips?
it mite or mite not matter that i am a virgin?

i hope you don;t mind me answering with me not being female, i think its more practice and getting to know your body and what turns you on. trying out lots of different stuff. everyone is different afterall. we each have our own things which sends us into a dangerous quiver but for others it doesnt do anything.

 

[jennyleigh]

two words. rabbit vibe. i have this, and it is the most fun i can have solo!!! if you don't know where to get one discreetly, PM me and i can direct you to a great website for fun toys. i tell you, i should own stock in that company!!! with this vibe, i can continue to get myself off for hours and hours... trust me i have done it!! LOL i have told close friends to get this, and once they do- it's vibe addiction!

 

[kaycee217]

Just don't get too addicted. Might overstimulate you, requiring a vibrator and ONLY a vibrator get you off.

 

[Brandy1969]

You go girl

Just don't get too addicted. Might overstimulate you, requiring a vibrator and ONLY a vibrator get you off.

I don't think there is such a thing as being overstimulated. And if a vibe is the only way that you can get yourself off, more power to you sister.

 

[tony278]

needing a vibrator

as you gaze up at the cieling and wonder with delight
do i use my ten digits or mechanical tonight
if you were to search into your dreams
you would find a mystical forest where the warm breeze sings

as you gaze with dreams of pure delight
a gentle spirit comes to you tonight
as you search in your dreams
the river flows wild and free
and you find that you are in extasy

so as your mind sings to your heart
you never want this feeling to end
so you gaze upon the stars
as your valley is flooded and the aroma
has now reached the sensual spell that ignites ones delight
as you find that you did not need that thing
just your mind and the wind low and sofly sings

 

[LaraCB]

I brought a Fun Factory G-Twist the other day, VERY GOOD, big and ribbed!! Have a good imagination and dont have to have a vibe to help, try reading some erotic stories, some are very good

 

[nyrjmk]

have you ever tried phone sex before? no woman that i've ever had phone sex with has ever had any trouble at all reaching an orgasm

hey, im a new member here, and i have a question for all the ladies out there, i read all these erotic stories and watch some porno here and there, i get wet, hot and bothered but no matter what i try i cannot get myself off, does anyone have any helpful tips?
it mite or mite not matter that i am a virgin?

 

[OldestMotive]

You know you're going to have a thousand guys offering to help you figure this out don't you?

 

[Emerald Eyed]

Just enjoy yourself and it will happen by itself.

You also might consider any medications you are on

 

[persephone_]

Don't worry too much about toys and the like, fingers work just as well. Maybe just don't focus on the end result so much, even if you don't get off it can be just as fun playing...

 

[Incandesce]

hey, im a new member here, and i have a question for all the ladies out there, i read all these erotic stories and watch some porno here and there, i get wet, hot and bothered but no matter what i try i cannot get myself off, does anyone have any helpful tips?
it mite or mite not matter that i am a virgin?

I am sorry, but I don't believe a word of this. Not a word.

 

[Eilan]

You know you're going to have a thousand guys offering to help you figure this out don't you?

Yeah, I was thinking this as well, but this thread's in Personals as opposed to HT, so I suppose that the leg-humpers can't help but chime in.

I love how some guys think they're the answer to all women's orgasm issues. Never mind that she's still learning about what she likes.

TiteCunt, don't allow yourself to stress over this too much. Sometimes that will keep you from having an orgasm. Keep in mind that discovering what you like sexually won't happen overnight; it's about the journey, not the destination. And once you know what gets you going, you'll be better able to communicate your needs to your future partner(s).

I did a search with using the keyword orgasm on the How-To Board. Maybe something there will help:

https://forum.literotica.com/search.php?searchid=2207876

Welcome to Lit and good luck!

 

[OldestMotive]

I love how some guys think they're the answer to all women's orgasm issues. Never mind that she's still learning about what she likes.

My point exactly. On the other hand, we can be useful at times.

 

[redfox1961]

seems like a setup to me also, Incandesce

 

[Incandesce]

seems like a setup to me also, Incandesce

Pretty obvious if you ask me.

 

[aka Lusty]

seems like a setup to me also, Incandesce

I'm confused by your response. What or whom would the author of this thread be setting up?

 

[Incandesce]

I can't answer for red, in my humble opinion I believe the author of this thread is likely a man wanting to get women to give advice that in turn arouses him. And who am I to fault him for trying... just had to say I didn't fall for it.

 

[aka Lusty]

Well that makes sense. I'm sure it wouldn't be the first time, or the last for that matter.

 

[Eilan]

Well that makes sense. I'm sure it wouldn't be the first time, or the last for that matter.

I'd say that there are quite a few Lit "women" who are actually men looking for masturbation fodder. While I tend to be a skeptic about stuff like that, I'm also inclined to give n00bs the benefit of the doubt.

Now I can log off, ditch the Eilan persona, and whip out my dick!

 

[aka Lusty]

I'd say that there are quite a few Lit "women" who are actually men looking for masturbation fodder. While I tend to be a skeptic about stuff like that, I'm also inclined to give n00bs the benefit of the doubt.

Now I can log off, ditch the Eilan persona, and whip out my dick!

I know from past experience that some people here are not what they claim to be, but I agree with you about giving the benefit of the doubt and that is why I posed the question.

 

[OrgasmicleBunny]

have you ever tried phone sex before? no woman that i've ever had phone sex with has ever had any trouble at all reaching an orgasm

I'm really sorry to burst your bubble, but I could almost guarantee that at LEAST half of the women you had ph sex with were faking.

After your looking at your profile, I'd recommend taking the pic down if you want ANY woman to want to have ph sex with you.

 

[TiteCunt]

I can't answer for red, in my humble opinion I believe the author of this thread is likely a man wanting to get women to give advice that in turn arouses him. And who am I to fault him for trying... just had to say I didn't fall for it.

WOW i cant believe that people actually think i am a man, no this is not a setup, this is NOT a setup i have no idea what would bring you to think that. i cant really say anything else but that, u are entitled to ur own opinion. and thank you to all the others posting on my thread, everyone is so nice on Lit

 

[Eilan]

WOW i cant believe that people actually think i am a man, no this is not a setup, this is NOT a setup i have no idea what would bring you to think that. i cant really say anything else but that, u are entitled to ur own opinion. and thank you to all the others posting on my thread, everyone is so nice on Lit

If I were someone who wasn't inclined to give people the benefit of the doubt, I'd say that it's always possible that Incandesce is a guy who's looking to accuse you of being male just to draw attention/suspicion away from him/her/it. I mean, his/her/its profile pic could belong to anyone.

Not likely, of course, but it's Lit. You never know.