Married men

[Poetryinmotionxo]

I can’t be the only woman who gets turned on by the whole married men thing. Before being married myself I loved nothing more than fucking a guy knowing he was married. Making a point of doing things I know he doesn’t get at home. Love hearing him compare us.

 

[jedclampet69]

I'm a bloke so possibly not who you would like to hear from .. My ex wife was a self confessed slut .. She told me a few time she liked married men due to she could fuck one then move on to the next without to much stress of being harassed or being chased... In her young times she worked as an escort and enjoyed helping out the married men who were not getting what they needed at home which gave her a buzz .. Bit like winning the game so to speak ..Screwing married men or women destroys whole families if people are caught .. I can she how a woman could get a buzz out of it but it can end badly for many

 

[TomFoolery8]

 

[Christy2Cum]

I can’t be the only woman who gets turned on by the whole married men thing. Before being married myself I loved nothing more than fucking a guy knowing he was married. Making a point of doing things I know he doesn’t get at home. Love hearing him compare us.

No you are not, I'm with you!
My current FWB is married and I have been with several married men and women both separately and some together.
It's almost always the same, something is lacking in their marriage and they miss the thrill of someone new.
I do find it exciting and I often tease my current FWB that his wife is a lousy lover and have purposely sent him back to her with empty balls.

 

[Erodicus]

My last girlfriend knew I was married but said it was never really a problem for her. The last guy she had been with had been married too. When we were having phone sex, she used to get both of us really turned on by telling me all about having sex with him.

 

[CuttingEdge]

To me, that is a sign of narcissism, only because it puts a person's own need for gratification before considering the ramification of the man/woman's family, and especially so if they have children. There is just too much at stake to do that on my end of things.

I did date one married lady, but it was during Covid, the courts were shut down and the marriage had ended, there was just no way to finalize the divorce with the backlog of the courts being so long, and family matters put off for the sake of criminal trials. That is understandable. But otherwise, I would never date a married lady, nor one that has cheated on their husband in the past. I know that does not mean they would do that in their next relationship, but to me that shows a lack of integrity in their character. I can find plenty of people that cannot do what they promised, so its finding one that does, that is important to me.

Am I a Debbie-Downer?

Sure, having integrity can have that affect, but if it makes just one person reading this, consider the fate of innocent kids from a divorce derived by a night of lustful diversion, it will be worth it. Some might consider it a conquest, but not the next day when the guy wakes up having done something he will regret for the rest of his life.

Failing to think about the fate of the other person is nothing to be boastful about in my opinion.

 

[Bbl87]

I can’t be the only woman who gets turned on by the whole married men thing. Before being married myself I loved nothing more than fucking a guy knowing he was married. Making a point of doing things I know he doesn’t get at home. Love hearing him compare us.

I mean, as a married man whose wife doesn't really want to explore and has a very low libido, I can definitely see the appeal though I guess I'm biased, haha. For me, the fantasy of being with a married woman is high up there, though I'd want it to be a fully out in the open, husband knows kind of situation. Basically a hotwife situation I guess.

 

[Christy2Cum]

I loved being a hotwife when we were still married.
I think the best sex with my ex was after he watched me with another man and reclaimed me, it brought something out of him.
I know this isn't for everyone, but for me or us, it worked, other things definitely did not.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I’ve only slept with one married person that I knew of. She didn’t tell me until months after and I had basically fallen for her, so I didn’t stop. Thankfully there were no children involved. Looking back I can connect some dots and there were a couple of red flags I ignored, but I really liked this girl, dare say I loved her. It ultimately ended a month later due to I couldn’t get past that hurdle of her being married.

Unless it’s out in the open or a hotwife scenario, there are just too many single people out there than to knowingly go poach a married man/woman.

I’ve witnessed the horrible fallout, especially on children, from friends who were cheated on and then went through nasty divorces. The hate, pure hate, that they carried about the situation can’t be healthy

 

[Bbl87]

I loved being a hotwife when we were still married.
I think the best sex with my ex was after he watched me with another man and reclaimed me, it brought something out of him.
I know this isn't for everyone, but for me or us, it worked, other things definitely did not.

If my wife were agreeable to an open marriage, I'd definitely explore the whole "bull" role whole heartedly. I've talked with people who have been in the lifestyle past and present, and really think it would be something I'd enjoy and do well.

 

[Islander55]

Over the years I have had sex with a few married men but never intentionally sought them out. As I got older and we got into the lifestyle, I have avoided married men unless both husband and wife were into the lifestyle. There is always the risk of drama with a married man and who needs that. Plus there are plenty of willing single men in the 50 to 70 range.

 

[pumperguy191]

31 years ago, this Sunday the 14th, I met me now wife in a bar. I walked in, wearing a wedding ring. I was still married to my first wife. I won't go into details but as you can guess, we have been happily married since. My ex is much happier as well.

 

[bimale1980ca]

I mean, as a married man whose wife doesn't really want to explore and has a very low libido, I can definitely see the appeal though I guess I'm biased, haha. For me, the fantasy of being with a married woman is high up there, though I'd want it to be a fully out in the open, husband knows kind of situation. Basically a hotwife situation I guess.

Yes, I know what you mean as my wife has a lower drive too. We don't have kids to get in the way but she has low interest. Just today as she gave me a handjob I ask do have any fantasies or anything you want to try next time. Her responce let me think about it.

 

[bimale1980ca]

If my wife were agreeable to an open marriage, I'd definitely explore the whole "bull" role whole heartedly. I've talked with people who have been in the lifestyle past and present, and really think it would be something I'd enjoy and do well.

Yes, I would be into that idea too.

 

[bimale1980ca]

I can’t be the only woman who gets turned on by the whole married men thing. Before being married myself I loved nothing more than fucking a guy knowing he was married. Making a point of doing things I know he doesn’t get at home. Love hearing him compare us.

I can see your point. My wife is very vanilla sexually, lower drive, never wants anything new. When asked tells me let me think about it in responce to new ideas or fantasies. She likes sex to me so mechanical. Make her orgasm without penis then let me have sex with her until I cum then it's over. She is off to pee, let the cum drip out then shower to get rid of the mess.

 

[michael00kk]

I can’t be the only woman who gets turned on by the whole married men thing. Before being married myself I loved nothing more than fucking a guy knowing he was married. Making a point of doing things I know he doesn’t get at home. Love hearing him compare us.

I get it...

 

[screwher]

If my wife were agreeable to an open marriage, I'd definitely explore the whole "bull" role whole heartedly. I've talked with people who have been in the lifestyle past and present, and really think it would be something I'd enjoy and do well.

A married bull for my wife would be ideal. Since he’s already married chances are he’s not looking to mess with our marriage. He’d only be interested in my wife for the pussy. He can just drop by. Screw my wife to their heart’s content. Then leave. And chances are he’d be clean. So he can do her bare. Which my wife prefers.

 

[Poetryinmotionxo]

A married bull for my wife would be ideal. Since he’s already married chances are he’s not looking to mess with our marriage. He’d only be interested in my wife for the pussy. He can just drop by. Screw my wife to their heart’s content. Then leave. And chances are he’d be clean. So he can do her bare. Which my wife prefers.

Bare is always best

 

[SharesMe]

I can’t be the only woman who gets turned on by the whole married men thing. Before being married myself I loved nothing more than fucking a guy knowing he was married. Making a point of doing things I know he doesn’t get at home. Love hearing him compare us.

I’ve done this very thing many times. Even when I was younger I dated many married men. Like you said, I would do most of what their wives would not. They loved and appreciated a good fuck. It another post I was fucking my ex for a while after he was married. Still gets me wet thinking of it

 

[Huronoutdoors]

I’ve done this very thing many times. Even when I was younger I dated many married men. Like you said, I would do most of what their wives would not. They loved and appreciated a good fuck. It another post I was fucking my ex for a while after he was married. Still gets me wet thinking of it

Mmmmm... sex with ex lovers is very hot! Usually you both know what drives each other wild!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I have a thing for husband and especially dads. I'm more on the ENM side of the spectrum and currently sleeping with one of the dads I met at preschool. I love being able to be something completely different for him and vice versa.

 

[Twanquavius]

Married men are great, but I don’t fuck them unless their wives are on board. I don’t wanna create drama.

 

[SunBuns]

This thread is getting me hot! All you sexy ladies who are there for the passion&excitement that married men bring to a new and desiring fling.

 

[MaxwellSmart86]

My wife and I are now in an ENM marriage and after reading this thread, I wish some of you lived in my town.

 

[bimale1980ca]

I can’t be the only woman who gets turned on by the whole married men thing. Before being married myself I loved nothing more than fucking a guy knowing he was married. Making a point of doing things I know he doesn’t get at home. Love hearing him compare us.

Yes, I understand that as my wife is really vanila with a low sex drive. You sound like a very fun woman.