married men!

[riannauk]

been chatted up by loads of married men, complaining about poor sex life. and most are up to giving me advice, and harmless chatting. but why dont you talk to your wives about it or just serenade her...
any married men willing to explain what your wives are doing wrong??? maybe help married guys to boost their own sex lives.

marriage, from my point of view is a work in progress .

 

[dolf]

or maybe they're trying to get sympathy sex.

 

[bronzeage]

been chatted up by loads of married men, complaining about poor sex life. and most are up to giving me advice, and harmless chatting. but why dont you talk to your wives about it or just serenade her...
any married men willing to explain what your wives are doing wrong??? maybe help married guys to boost their own sex lives.

marriage, from my point of view is a work in progress .

I would love to know more about marriage from the point of view of a 21 year old woman. What else are we doing wrong?

 

[dolf]

I would love to know more about marriage from the point of view of a 21 year old woman. What else are we doing wrong?

 

[Amy_K]

I want to know more about sex life boosting.

 

[riannauk]

its just about making sure that you are both open about ur fantasies to each other, and hving safe words, and making sure tht the other person understands ur needs.if u need to hv sex or masturbate with inspiration then tell her and make her feel special about it... being married means you should be best friends right?!

 

[dolf]

its just about making sure that you are both open about ur fantasies to each other, and hving safe words, and making sure tht the other person understands ur needs.if u need to hv sex or masturbate with inspiration then tell her and make her feel special about it... being married means you should be best friends right?!

txt spk? just stop it. 'you' only has three letters to start with!

 

[Amy_K]

All married couples and friends should have safe words. *nods*

 

[Learnsmith]

A lack of monogamy does not necessarily mean that a marriage is broken.

 

[riannauk]

i apologise for typing in text speak. it was non intentional and just easier to type because my keyboard sometimes gets stuck. I will, in future ensure that I type with all spellings corrected, for all grammar nazis out there!

 

[riannauk]

A lack of monogamy does not necessarily mean that a marriage is broken.

From the men that I have spoken to, they all respect and love their wives, i just perhaps thought that the sexual part of the marriage might need some help fixing not necessarily the whole marriage!

 

[Mr Noone]

All married couples and friends should have safe words. *nods*

With all the letters spelt out.

 

[Learnsmith]

From the men that I have spoken to, they all respect and love their wives, i just perhaps thought that the sexual part of the marriage might need some help fixing not necessarily the whole marriage!

I'm very well-laid and very happy in my marriage. We've been going strong for almost ten years. At the same time, my wife and I both feel that chemistry happens sometimes, and why should we deny that? We're always open with each other and with our lovers, and it doesn't just mean we get to do whatever we want. But in our world, love is not a finite resource.

 

[Amy_K]

With all the letters spelt out.

Yes, because what if your safe word was Grin, and you yelled G instead?

 

[eyer]

i apologise for typing in text speak.

Good...

...could you next cease typing in your lame female speak?

You'll find more acceptance here...

...if you just come out and admit you're a guy that loves to smoke married man sausage.

 

[suckonsimon]

I cannot imagine saying anything about my wife which is not honouring of her, in a context such as lit, or in conversation with friends. I believe she lives by a similar code. If there's an issue for either of us, it is the other that we talk to about it, not jo public. I see that as part of my 'cherishing' her. I suppose I believe also that it is part of the reason she is still so in love with me.

So if a guy is bitching about his woman to fellow members of some website ... it's a long journey back and perhaps too long.

 

[pete]

2 minutes in this thread and already i need some advil.

 

[Learnsmith]

I cannot imagine saying anything about my wife which is not honouring of her, in a context such as lit, or in conversation with friends. I believe she lives by a similar code. If there's an issue for either of us, it is the other that we talk to about it, not jo public. I see that as part of my 'cherishing' her. I suppose I believe also that it is part of the reason she is still so in love with me.

So if a guy is bitching about his woman to fellow members of some website ... it's a long journey back and perhaps too long.

This.

 

[Mischka]

All married couples and friends should have safe words. *nods*

Mine is parsimonious usufructing.

i apologise for typing in text speak. it was non intentional and just easier to type because my keyboard sometimes gets stuck. I will, in future ensure that I type with all spellings corrected, for all grammar nazis out there!

Clean your keyboard. It's getting stuck because there is a buildup of dust, skin flakes, and detritus in there. Can of compressed air will help immensely.

I'm very well-laid and very happy in my marriage. We've been going strong for almost ten years. At the same time, my wife and I both feel that chemistry happens sometimes, and why should we deny that? We're always open with each other and with our lovers, and it doesn't just mean we get to do whatever we want. But in our world, love is not a finite resource.

Mr Mischka and I are on this same path, for the reasons you expressed so well.

 

[Amy_K]

Mine is parsimonious usufructing.

Good safe words for times when you don't want to go out for the evening. Bad when you have a ball gag in your mouth.

 

[lemonbread]

I'm not married, but I've been in a committed relationship for nearly 10 years. But committed and monogamous are two different things. I can love more than one person. There's nothing wrong with having emotional and sexual relationships with other partners. I think there is a right way and a wrong way to go about it, but just because a married man has sex outside of his marriage doesn't mean there's anything wrong at all. Different people have different sex drives, they're in different phases of life, different emotional states, etc. Fulfilling needs outside of a two person relationship can be a very good thing.

 

[pete]

I'm not married, but I've been in a committed relationship for nearly 10 years. But committed and monogamous are two different things. I can love more than one person. There's nothing wrong with having emotional and sexual relationships with other partners. I think there is a right way and a wrong way to go about it, but just because a married man has sex outside of his marriage doesn't mean there's anything wrong at all. Different people have different sex drives, they're in different phases of life, different emotional states, etc. Fulfilling needs outside of a two person relationship can be a very good thing.

^^^^^ truth

 

[riannauk]

I'm not married, but I've been in a committed relationship for nearly 10 years. But committed and monogamous are two different things. I can love more than one person. There's nothing wrong with having emotional and sexual relationships with other partners. I think there is a right way and a wrong way to go about it, but just because a married man has sex outside of his marriage doesn't mean there's anything wrong at all. Different people have different sex drives, they're in different phases of life, different emotional states, etc. Fulfilling needs outside of a two person relationship can be a very good thing.

makes sense.

 

[dolf]

i apologise for typing in text speak. it was non intentional and just easier to type because my keyboard sometimes gets stuck. I will, in future ensure that I type with all spellings corrected, for all grammar nazis out there!

I forgive you. now post your tits.

I'm not married, but I've been in a committed relationship for nearly 10 years. But committed and monogamous are two different things. I can love more than one person. There's nothing wrong with having emotional and sexual relationships with other partners. I think there is a right way and a wrong way to go about it, but just because a married man has sex outside of his marriage doesn't mean there's anything wrong at all. Different people have different sex drives, they're in different phases of life, different emotional states, etc. Fulfilling needs outside of a two person relationship can be a very good thing.

truth. I broke up with my first love because he had traditional views and the thought of being with nobody but him, for my entire life, always, scared the shit out of me.

now... I don't really want anyone else, but knowing that I could if I wanted is a good feeling.

 

[toubab]

Man, you people have gone soft. There was a time when this virgin would have been eaten alive here.