Is it just me or does anyone else want to have a jerk off/blow buddy?

JasonB76

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Is it just me or does anyone else want to have a jerk off/blow buddy? I’m happily married to a beautiful women and absolutely love fucking her. I feel like we have an average amount of sex for being in my late 30’s and having a kid but I have a fairly high sex drive. I also like watching porn and reading/writing erotic's which really do not interest her.

It would be so nice to have a buddy who is also married who shares the same interests. Someone to just hang out with, watch porn, talk about our wives and jerk and suck each other off. I’m not attracted to men in the least nor do I want any kind of emotional connection but there’s just something about hanging around with a bud and gooning over some porn together.

A little backstory if you want to read it:

Way back in high school, my best friend and I would go over to each other’s houses after school. We lived about a mile from each other. One year our family got a computer that was put in the living room. Well, of course the first thing I did was lookup porn. We would have about an hour before my parents got home and we would goon out and browse porn until my mom would literally pull in the driveway.

We did that for weeks on end, any chance he could get to come over and my parents weren't home we would be looking at porn. One would be on the computer chair doing the surfing while the other was in a kitchen chair that we pulled up to the computer desk, giving ideas for the other to search.

We would each grab our own blanket and cover up with it while stroking under it. Again, this went on for weeks until one time we were both stroking it to this sexy blowjob video and it looked so good. I wanted to try it. I pulled off his blanket, got on my knees and put his cock in my mouth. At first he tried covering himself up and almost pushed me away but once he figured out what I was trying to do, he let it happen.

Fuck that was so hot, having his cock in my mouth while I stroked my own. He came so quick and I swallowed it all. I sat back on my chair not knowing what to expect but he returned the favor, blowing me until I came. From then on, we become blow buds for the next year or so.

Anytime we would get the chance, either at his house or mine we would suck each other off, watch porn, talk about our sex kinks and even about our girlfriends. It was a blast. Would be nice to have a friend like that again.
 
Much like your time with friends and the freedom for exploration, I started a bit earlier .My Sixth grade classmate and I were very close and shared a lot of oral time together . He was so much more developed than I , beautiful smooth straight cock . A couple others over the next six or seven years . Now , 40 years later , I seek that easy, relaxed playmate .
 
Much like your time with friends and the freedom for exploration, I started a bit earlier .My Sixth grade classmate and I were very close and shared a lot of oral time together . He was so much more developed than I , beautiful smooth straight cock . A couple others over the next six or seven years . Now , 40 years later , I seek that easy, relaxed playmate .
60wm, have a good friend that I play golf with. The other day he sent a pic of his dick all oiled up when I asked him what he was doing. Can’t wait to return the favor….
 
Same here. I'd love to have a friend or two so that would enjoy some guy time together. Maybe alone in a hot tub, maybe go on fishing/camping trips with. There would be a lot of nudity, stroking, sucking and maybe fucking. If there were 3 of us there could be spit roasting too.
In an ideal world our wives would know and understand our need for cock, and send us off with a nudge and a wink, while they set up for some girl time, with lots of pussy licking
 
Definitely not just you. Had a playmate a few years ago but we lost touch.

My story is similar to yours but without the internet. Had 2 play buddies when I was younger and neither knew of the other :)
Are having any fun now ? Only solo and Lit
 
Is it just me or does anyone else want to have a jerk off/blow buddy? I’m happily married to a beautiful women and absolutely love fucking her. I feel like we have an average amount of sex for being in my late 30’s and having a kid but I have a fairly high sex drive. I also like watching porn and reading/writing erotic's which really do not interest her.

It would be so nice to have a buddy who is also married who shares the same interests. Someone to just hang out with, watch porn, talk about our wives and jerk and suck each other off. I’m not attracted to men in the least nor do I want any kind of emotional connection but there’s just something about hanging around with a bud and gooning over some porn together.

A little backstory if you want to read it:

Way back in high school, my best friend and I would go over to each other’s houses after school. We lived about a mile from each other. One year our family got a computer that was put in the living room. Well, of course the first thing I did was lookup porn. We would have about an hour before my parents got home and we would goon out and browse porn until my mom would literally pull in the driveway.

We did that for weeks on end, any chance he could get to come over and my parents weren't home we would be looking at porn. One would be on the computer chair doing the surfing while the other was in a kitchen chair that we pulled up to the computer desk, giving ideas for the other to search.

We would each grab our own blanket and cover up with it while stroking under it. Again, this went on for weeks until one time we were both stroking it to this sexy blowjob video and it looked so good. I wanted to try it. I pulled off his blanket, got on my knees and put his cock in my mouth. At first he tried covering himself up and almost pushed me away but once he figured out what I was trying to do, he let it happen.

Fuck that was so hot, having his cock in my mouth while I stroked my own. He came so quick and I swallowed it all. I sat back on my chair not knowing what to expect but he returned the favor, blowing me until I came. From then on, we become blow buds for the next year or so.

Anytime we would get the chance, either at his house or mine we would suck each other off, watch porn, talk about our sex kinks and even about our girlfriends. It was a blast. Would be nice to have a friend like that again.
Perhaps you should expand your story between you and your friend. From beginning to end like detailing if ya’ll did any experimentation along the way(finger in ass or anal sex). I believe your backstory would be a great read.
 
It really was

Any other I have intended to hook up with either get cold feet or cant find a location to meet
 
It would be so nice to have a buddy who is also married who shares the same interests. Someone to just hang out with, watch porn, talk about our wives and jerk and suck each other off.
That sounds fantastic! So no, it's not just you.
 
You're definitely not alone in feeling that way, especially with so many guys sharing similar stories. It seems like a lot of people find comfort in these kinds of buddy arrangements where you can just hang out, enjoy some porn, and have some no-strings-attached fun. It's interesting how many started these experiences with friends when they were younger and are looking for that same kind of connection now. It’s all about finding someone who shares the same understanding and can be discrete about it. Good luck with the search!
 
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