I am a bi fem bottom for more than 35 years. I tend to meet with other bi tops. This is broad brush but bi tops are looking for sub bottoms that they can use to quench their sexual frustration of getting no sex from their wives.
Bottoms like me have marriages with sex but they are typically alphas in their public lives. To balance their alpha they submit to men in bed and turn over sexual control to them. This at least works for me. I don’t have any emotional attachment to my tops. I just there to be dominated.
