Bi-curious? In the closet? Unsure…

So I have a question for the guys that are actively seeing other men.
Are you like really picky about your interests or will you pretty much blow anyone?
I am not interested in just responding to a DL ad and hooking up an hour later.
I want to get to know who I am dealing with. How about everyone else ?
I agree with what you said... I'm one who wants to met beforehand for a beer or something to get to know each other and if its worth going any further. There has to be a feeling of a trust and comfort with each other.
IMHO, might as well grab a dildo and jerk off if the option is "responding to a DL ad and hooking up an hour later".
 
I agree with what you said... I'm one who wants to met beforehand for a beer or something to get to know each other and if its worth going any further. There has to be a feeling of a trust and comfort with each other.
IMHO, might as well grab a dildo and jerk off if the option is "responding to a DL ad and hooking up an hour later".
I am pretty picky when responding to DL ads and i really want to be attracted. If im not attracted when we meet then i will just say sorry I don't think we are a match and I will split. But if he is reasonably similar to how he described himself. I will fool around. How much we do depends on attraction. But I have definitely sucked cock within an hour of meeting on dl and not actually been attracted to him.
 
I'm new here, I've just started scrolling through all the posts, but this one describes my own experience perfectly. I'm in a long term relationship, and wouldn't cheat, but I have a lot of fantasies about being with men and transgender women. When I I watch porn it's almost always gay or trans, it ignites something inside me. My sex life with my girlfriend is great, but I never stop thinking about cock. I'm happy to keep it as a fantasy while I'm in a relationship, but who knows what could happen if the relationship ever ended.
I too am convinced that i was bisexual and now homosexual. When I watch straight porn, i always pretend im th female htaking all the dick. I feel like the cock sucker....i want to give men pleasure. i want their cum in my ass, mouth and face. I want to get fiucked by a man with monster dick...he can penetrate me stretch my pussy real big and Ill beg him to drain his balls un roof.
 
I've got a crush on an older neighbor guy who has no sccial life...My wet dream is to seduce him by getting him drunk and suck his dick! I really want it to work.Im holding out until i try that.
That sounds so delightful for you both, I do so very much hope it works out the way you envisage, and that you get the pleasure of sucking his cock...
 
I've got a crush on an older neighbor guy who has no sccial life...My wet dream is to seduce him by getting him drunk and suck his dick! I really want it to work.Im holding out until i try that.
Oh gosh , I’m at home all by myself ……alone…….hiccup….wonder where that cute neighbor is. I think he might like to see me like this ……
 
I've got a crush on an older neighbor guy who has no sccial life...My wet dream is to seduce him by getting him drunk and suck his dick! I really want it to work.Im holding out until i try that.
What are you bringing to drink ? Errrrr , with him I mean …. Asking for a friend ?
 
I’m a married male, only been with women. I still find women sexy and desirable, and I can still perform with my wife. But when I’m alone, all I think of is men and cock. I’ve almost exclusively jerked to gay fantasies and gay porn for years now. I never feel more alive and sexual than when I’m able to embrace this side of me. I’ve struggled at times trying to understand if I’m bi-curious, bi, or maybe one male sexual experience away from coming out of the closet. Ultimately I guess it doesn’t matter, I’m comfortable with my desires. But just curious to hear from anyone with similar feelings or insight. Cheers
My situation was similar. Around age 50, I asked my wife for a hall pass and took the plunge. So glad that I did, I've had some great experiences with other men. My only regret is that I waited so long. My suggestion for OP and anyone in a similar situation: go get that D! (BTW, since we are in the Personals forum, I'm in the 916!)
 
I was curious for years. At the age of 46 I finally got the nerve and met a guy for nsa oral. After that encounter I turned fully bi. I still find woman attractive and lust after pussy and females. But all my real encounters are with other men. Honestly I prefer the sexual gratification with men. I enjoy sensual and intimate contact with men. Cock has turned me more Gay than straight. But as I get older ill take what i can get. Often my fantasies are leaning toward gay sex.
It is different, so exciting. I am decidedly bi, but any encounters I seek outside of my vanilla life are with cock, not pussy. I love the way it makes me feel…takes my breath away just thinking about sucking a nice cock deep😈
 
I agree with what you said... I'm one who wants to met beforehand for a beer or something to get to know each other and if its worth going any further. There has to be a feeling of a trust and comfort with each other.
IMHO, might as well grab a dildo and jerk off if the option is "responding to a DL ad and hooking up an hour later".
I wholeheartedly agree. It seems in that there are 2 main camps. Camp 1 is those who will hookup with any cock without regard who it's attached to (not judging, just observing). And Camp 2, those who want to connect on some level before getting involved. I am definitely in Camp 2.
 
I wholeheartedly agree. It seems in that there are 2 main camps. Camp 1 is those who will hookup with any cock without regard who it's attached to (not judging, just observing). And Camp 2, those who want to connect on some level before getting involved. I am definitely in Camp 2.
some guys like both camps!🤣
 
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