blulilacgrl
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Yea.....
What advice would you give to anyone getting married?
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Yea.....
RUN!!!!!What advice would you give to anyone getting married?
No I don't know. I would have to know the people before I could say anything & they wouldn't listen anyway.Mine stems mainly from abandonment issues I think. I long ago stopped expecting others to do as I do. It's just easier to not raise my expectations. I have had so many people who when I was down and out and needing someone to help me, walk away that I now expect it. I expect for people to think I am too much of a hassle, too much of a pain in the ass, basically just too damn much. It takes me a long time to begin to trust. I hate that about me but I can't seem to shake it.
On the other hand though, if I know you have my back, if you have shown through word and deed that you are in for the long haul, I would crawl through fire for you. Like I said, the number of people who have that is very very small.

RUN!!!!!No I don't know. I would have to know the people before I could say anything & they wouldn't listen anyway.
You are not alone, but one thing that you have to do, and I need to start doing this again for myself, is to stop professing a worst case scenario.
I'm not talking about a situation where it it expected because of certain circumstances. I'm talking about with people that are an actual realistic part of your life. When I say realistic, I'm talking about relationships that are or have a potential to become tangible.
Sometimes I get bummed out and wonder if there are enough good people around, but then the ones who have been consistent in my life, along with acts of kindness that I have witnessed changes my mind. Trust me, what we say is powerful, so we have to try our best to shift it to something positive, it is not easy, but it is possible... it does work.![]()

I love this. Thank you.![]()


I love your thread .. I love your name too. Awesome lady ...![]()

Aww...thanks, sugar!
I may have to come up with a cover charge for tonight and get this place going again. What do you think? Got a good question to ask the people of Lit?


I will have to give that some thought. I am not sure what to ask right now![]()
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Just stopping by to say hello.

Hey! And do you have a question?![]()
Yes. Are you this alluring in purpose, or is it just natural?

Lol. I don't know? I've never been called alluring before. But I think I like it.![]()
How do I learn more about such an alluring woman?
Where does all the rubber go from the car tires as they get worn away when we are driving ?
Now that is a very fine question. But unfortunately, I fear the answer would be incredibly scientific and way too taxing for my feeble brain.![]()
Mine too but you would think there would be piles of rubber somewhere. LOL I think to much maybe LOL
Oh I'm sure somewhere there are piles of rubbers. Just not sure if it would be on a road.![]()
LOL I know I haven't added to the rubber collection LOL![]()
I have never used one so I would be lost in that realmYeah it's been a while since I have even helped to contribute. Lol
LOL I know I haven't added to the rubber collection LOL![]()
I have never used one so I would be lost in that realm![]()
Wow! It's been a long time. I feel like I should apologize but shit has been crazy around here. Is there anyone from the old gang around? Anyone? Anyone?![]()
