Lost Virginity to an Inanimate Object?

[Foolhen]

I'm curious if any women out there lost their virginity to an inanimate object before they actually had sex for the first time. It seems like it might be a practical way to avoid the messiness and discomfort of the first time.

 

[WhO2]

I'm curious if any women out there lost their virginity to an inanimate object before they actually had sex for the first time. It seems like it might be a practical way to avoid the messiness and discomfort of the first time.

Hmmmm... interesting topic. Hope you get some responses.

 

[Sweet_b19]

I guess I lost my virginity to the handle of a hairbrush. I had never really thought of it that way! I played with several different objects before having sex for the first time when I was 23 (I was a late bloomer and very shy) I still enjoy playing with unconventional things, it feels extra naughty and brings up fun memories.

 

[savmitch1038]

I once dated a girl that said the first thing that she put in her pussy besides her fingers was a shampoo bottle. I don't know the brand or size of the bottle, but I imagine most girls try out some inanimate object first before they try out a cock!

 

[shewantsmore]

If its the right shape believe me it will be tried.

 

[BadAmy]

Omg what didn't I shove into my whoohah when I was...not my present age!!!!
(Fyi...careful about mentioning youthful adventures here...it's frowned upon)

 

[haventdonethat]

I'm curious if any women out there lost their virginity to an inanimate object before they actually had sex for the first time. It seems like it might be a practical way to avoid the messiness and discomfort of the first time.

Didn’t lose virginity but was her first orgasm.
Second wife described her first orgasm when she would back up to those old fashioned cast iron radiators and rub her clit from behind on one of the fins.
Did it a few times.

 

[sally_sparrow]

I guess I lost my virginity to the handle of a hairbrush. I had never really thought of it that way! I played with several different objects before having sex for the first time when I was 23 (I was a late bloomer and very shy) I still enjoy playing with unconventional things, it feels extra naughty and brings up fun memories.

Same! Handle of a brush, a travel tooth brush container, pillows... so many pillows. I also still enjoy playing with unconventional objects.

 

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

How can one lose their virginity to an object? I guess, then, I lost my virginity to a tampon. Then I masturbated with other items....but if we go with this idea, as soon as a guy touches himself, he is losing his virginity to his hand. Other woman have lost their's to their gyno?

 

[KatieDoes]

How can one lose their virginity to an object? I guess, then, I lost my virginity to a tampon. Then I masturbated with other items....but if we go with this idea, as soon as a guy touches himself, he is losing his virginity to his hand. Other woman have lost their's to their gyno?

Exactly.

I don’t think OP thinks of virginity the same way I do.

 

[Asian_Flower]

How can one lose their virginity to an object? I guess, then, I lost my virginity to a tampon. Then I masturbated with other items....but if we go with this idea, as soon as a guy touches himself, he is losing his virginity to his hand. Other woman have lost their's to their gyno?

Exactly, I dont think the OP understands how one loses their virginity. God, I was clueless. No shampoo bottles or hairbrushes for me.

 

[HoldYouDown]

How can one lose their virginity to an object? I guess, then, I lost my virginity to a tampon. Then I masturbated with other items....but if we go with this idea, as soon as a guy touches himself, he is losing his virginity to his hand. Other woman have lost their's to their gyno?

Maybe it illustrates how arbitrary "virginity" is. One of the most overrated concepts in my opinion, anyway. But yeah, it should have been titled "first household objects you used" or something like that.

 

[Foolhen]

The first woman whose virginity I took bled a fair bit so when I posted this thread I was assuming that most women experienced some kind of hymen trauma their first time, but I'm realizing now that I was misinformed and this is not really the case for the majority of women. It makes sense now that inserting a tampon or getting an examination etc. would usually be the first penetration.

I guess what I'm curious about is women who purposely decided to penetrate themselves with something prior to their first sexual intercourse in order to prepare their body for it and avoid potential discomfort during the "special moment".

 

[Sheana_V]

Almost every girl "loses their virginity" to an inanimate object. First, girls masturbate. Second, girls engage in physical activity. Both of these can "break the hymen".
Though, of course, most people don't actually understand what a hymen is or how it works.

 

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

True enough!

Almost every girl "loses their virginity" to an inanimate object. First, girls masturbate. Second, girls engage in physical activity. Both of these can "break the hymen".
Though, of course, most people don't actually understand what a hymen is or how it works.

I laugh when I read the stories here, where the guy pushes and shoves and about half way in, pops that cherry! Too funny. Hymens are at the "opening." Most woman do not bleed. Even historically, every culture has stories about woman keeping a little bottle of blood, a tiny knife or a pin on them, so they can prove their "worth" by smearing the marital bed with blood from a cut, even virgins. I was starting to think only 1% of women bleed, so thanks OP. It is probably higher.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Most woman do not bleed.

I was accused of lying about being a virgin because I didn't bleed.


The only thing I had had in my pussy before that were tampons. I hadn't even masturbated before.

 

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

Let's Get Over The Hymen Mystique

To Holdherdown: This 100%! Proof of virginity is ridiculously overrated.
To the poster above me, I am so sorry that silliness happened to you. In some countries, that could mean divorce or death.
To the OP: Good, thought provoking question! Additionally, I was worried I would hemorrhage my first time and was almost let down there was no horror show. In fact, I just watched some fun porn for research (10 minutes worth, so I could become an expert,)
where the woman,(virgin porn actress,) was moaning and squealing like a delighted pig, while tons of "blood" dripped down the guy's staff. Of course, they showed no before or after close ups (fake)....but I digress. Interesting topic!

 

[shrek100]

I didn’t but now knowing what I was missing wish I did.

I was brought up to think “disgusting”

Making up for lost time now. I didn’t “pleasure” myself until I was about 18-19 I guess.

When I first got with Mr, I thought he was a complete pervert. . . He is but I was really shocked.

 

[Valendon]

I'll take this as asking: "What got in there first? A penis, or something else?"

So, yeah. I was a surprise baby. My sister was a decade older and gave me a vibrator and lots of great advice.

But--virginity? Lots of myths around that. Great video here, if it'll play:
https://www.facebook.com/brutamerica/videos/5-myths-about-virginity/430300154728422/

 

[Hans101]

My sister and I were lovers and lost our virginities to each other.

However, while I was the first man to penetrate her, she'd enjoyed masturbating with various oblong objects before we consummated our sexual relationship.

 

[stickygirl]

Ask a guy "Are all dicks as big as that?" and demur with a little nod when he asks "Was that your first time?" He won't know the difference, but you'll make his day and give him plenty to talk about. Passing on a little happiness is good karma.

For me it was (unlit) candles

 

[mynameisben]

For me it was (unlit) candles

If it was lit candles, I think I'd really be turned on by that.


Ben

 

[stickygirl]

If it was lit candles, I think I'd really be turned on by that.


Ben

Oh Ben... you can light my candle anytime

 

[HoldYouDown]

To Holdherdown: This 100%! Proof of virginity is ridiculously overrated.

Glad we agree. Personally I used to think of my virginity as being lost only after intercourse. But now I consider it my first sexual contact/experience with another. But it's not like I became a completely different person from before to after. It didn't "make me a man" as they say. Besides, I'd already been masturbating, fantasizing, and having wet dreams. Sex was just another part of the process!

 

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

We probably should go with the definition of "Having major sexual contact with another," as a loss of virginity. Not everyone has "insert penis in vagina" sex, so it's a more real definition. But, what will all the very religious folks do, when they feel like oral sex or anal sex count as actual sex? Years of thinking they gamed their religion down the toilet! ~Jk.