If You Can Choose An Orgasm Occuring?

[LusciousLili]

I still haven't cum from intercourse. So when it was my BF he'd cum first which I didn't mind. He'd go down on me or I'd masturbate and cum.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I still haven't cum from intercourse. So when it was my BF he'd cum first which I didn't mind. He'd go down on me or I'd masturbate and cum.

Everyone has their own path

 

[Live4themoments]

I still haven't cum from intercourse. So when it was my BF he'd cum first which I didn't mind. He'd go down on me or I'd masturbate and cum.

Sometimes takes a little time, patience, and you educating him. We older men have learned by trial and error, and sometimes a roadmap of the female anatomy helps tremendously.

 

[Britva415]

"Ladies come first" seems to come from this cliché about how if the guy comes, it's over and she doesn't get hers.

But if her coming just means that now it's "his turn" and she doesn't anticipate another one, then often she's just as ready as he is for it to just be over.

So "ladies come first and last" is my motto. I might need to catch my breath, but she knows she'll be the one who gets to roll over and fall asleep after coming (again).

 

[Islander55]

No one answer to this question. The ideal when fucking is to cum together or close to it. Actually my ideal is to cum first and just as I am coming down from my high, have him cum which gives me a boost and extends my pleasure. There are times when I do not want to cum but want him to enjoy me and take his pleasure. As long as we all get what we need, no need to fuss too much about the order.

 

[annmsguy]

She almost always cums first. She’s really in touch with her body, and if she’s treated right she cums pretty easily. I like it that way because she is hyper sensitive after that first orgasm. And that means I get to make her cum on my cock a couple of times (or more). I love giving her multiples.

 

[Easyvirtue]

I always cum 1st cause she takes sooo long to cum. She’s a clitoral stimulation woman, so once I cum she usually just presses down on my pelvic bone to apply pressure to her clit. If she hasn’t cum in a couple minutes she slides off me and then it’s oral time! That usually gets me going after a while and once she’s good and at the point I go back in and we will end up cuming together then.

 

[live4thebj]

Anyone I care about I eat to orgasm first. Those that I don’t care about it’s whatever.

 

[RozayTrell]

My partner usually orgasms first which is what I prefer. Seeing her shake or moan really loud . It gets me off that she is receiving pleasure

 

[sunset_dreaming]

Her first. Always, her first.
Makes mine all the more intense.

 

[Lamia03]

Although I enjoy when a lover starts off with me and makes me cum multiple times, I do have to remember that he wants his pleasure too. So I have to muster the energy to do it even though I’m sleepy eyed. It sounds like a chore but it isn’t. I enjoy giving oral or being fucked but after I’ve cum several times, screamed my head off, I’ll like a nap.
So a strategy is needed…
So he needs to cum first if he wants my energy in it. Once I’ve cum, I want to relax, like @Britva415 said.

 

[OneEyedSteve]

I've always preferred the lady to go first. And in reality that's generally what happens, unless my wife has initiated solely to pleasure me. We've also orgasmed simultaneously in a number of occasions